I’m a 23 m who’s considering hiring an escort to lose my virginity.
So I’m 23 years old with a inexplicable phobia of being physically intimate. I don’t know why. I’ve had offers in the past but there’s been some mental block keeping me from taking off my pants.
It’s not like I’m ashamed of being a virgin. I know there are plenty of people my age and older who are still chaste. I just want the experience of having sex. Been searching online directories of escorts in my nearby city. I have a surplus of money so cost isn’t an issue. It would be relatively effort free. I’m assuming some level of professional courtesy will be involved so I won’t have to worry about being shamed/judged. I don’t really care about my first time being “special” nor do I believe sleeping with an escort to be inherently *un*-special.
My question is do you think this a good idea? Has anyone lost their virginity this way? And what are the Dos and Don’ts regarding sex workers? (I want to be respectful and nice)
throwaway-iwantmysil: Don’t do it. I did the same for the 21st birthday. I spent $150 on a motel room and $350 for a “high end escort”.
The moment she walked in she asks me if I’m cop. I was so shaken all I thought I heard from her was “I’m a cop” and I nearly shit my pants. I then realized she was asking me.
She checks the envelope to make sure the cash is there and she comes over and sits on top of me.
She let me feel her tits and then proceeded to a covered blow job. I couldn’t feel anything. After five minutes lays down on the bed and tells me to fuck her. I give it to her missionary and all I could smell was her pussy. It was my first time smelling it and I felt sick. Not because it smelled bad, but because it just seemed wrong.
She then told me to do her doggy style. After 10 minutes she turns around and says “You know it cant be all hanky panky for the whole hour”. My dick literally softened up the moment she called it “hanky panky”.
She then said lets try with me on top. She hops on top and it was terrible. I didnt enjoy it at all. After a few minutes I told her we were done and I had enough.
She didnt hesitate to hop off and head to the shower. She left 5 minutes later and I just started at the ceiling of this cheap motel wondering what happened and why I did it.
I then spent 2 weeks worried I had gotton HIV (even though everything was protected). Got my results back negative and swore off escorts.
Not worth it!
CarelessChemicals: My buddy was a virgin at age 26 and paid for an escort. It greatly upped his confidence, and it demystified sex. He ended up getting a girlfriend within a few months. I say do it.
MaryLou1933: With all the sex starved ladies around and you want to pay for an escort who may have some kind of STD. Think about it.
straitdick: I say go for it. Make sure she’s hot though if you can choose an escort. Im only 16 though so idk.