Hot WAG Elaine Alden
What do I do when my bf spanks me???
So, Ive (F21) always wanted to be spanked and my new bf (M26) just did it today, just bent me over and spanked me and was all “have you been bad today?” and it was actually very hot, but wouldve been a lot hotter if i had known how to react? I just kinda giggled even though i actually really liked it. Next time, what do i say in response that would actually be sexy??? I dont have much sexual experience except with my exbf who never spanked me.Feel free to tell me about ur sexy experiences. Thanks!! 🙂
intotheIR: Your response would depend upon how long you wanted the spankings to last/how hard, etc. If you want to be giggly and coy, that’s an option too — “oh yes, I’ve been a good girl”.
But, if you want more punishment, then you might have to admit that you have been a teensy bit naughty.
It’s really all up to you, even though it seems like your bf is in control. Have fun with it!
HappyInCenTex: Count and say thank you.
monskey_at_home: I don’t have much of a pain tolerance so I tend to cry out a little every time I get spanked.
Guys seem to love this and get even rougher after.
I’m incredibly submissive though so I absolutely love it.
Sweetalia: My natural response is to moan!
hythloth: “Thank you sir may i have another”
G_o_o_d_n_a_s_t_y: You can arch your back and ask for more, you could gasp or moan, you could tell him to stop using his hands and start using his tongue, you got lots of options. Generally, spanking works best when the sharp strokes are interspersed with gentle, teasing touching gradually working towards your bits.
storyofmylife_: I say “I’ve been a very naughty girl and need spanked” that usually does it for him lol
Talnadair: Wicked, dirty, naughty Zoot!
whiskey_pants: I think (personally) that generally what is sexiest is being real. I squeal and then giggle like hell. I have never wondered if that is the reaction I am “supposed to” have. I give no cares what I am supposed to do, I find that detracts for me from actually being present, paying attention to my body, etc…so I react how *I* react. Lots of men don’t mind giggling at all, in fact some really like it, as long as it’s not *at* them.
Whereistashmyporn: What you did is fine. The giggles are totally normal. Once you get used to it, the giggles may go away, and then at that point just do whatever comes naturally. You aren’t required to say anything.
If you really want to say something, “more!” is a safe bet which is probably true and he’ll know you liked it.
Altostratus: Perhaps it’s my shyness, but I often got for a very sarcastic ‘No….you can’t do that…It’s not nice…It’s not like it’s going to make me super wet or something…’ which usually leads to him checking how wet I am and the fun continues..
zagzigity: My gf just kinda lets out a small Yelp/moan. Love it!
Gellert: You need to talk to him, not least of which for feedback. Do you guys want harder spankings? Restraints? What kind of things would he like you to say? What kind of things would you like him to say? Setup a safeword if you havent already.
Some options for you:
The Ritualistic/maintenance approach; He tells you how many times hes going to spank you, you count each one out and thank him. Pretty simplistic, kinda boring, typically done to build up thresholds for scenes rather than as a scene itself.
The Penitent; Confess your crimes! Beg forgiveness, apologise sob and otherwise sound pathetic. Mix some games into this as well, something you can fail at so he has a reason to punish you, even if its something daft like fetch. Its also a good way to add some spice to household chores.
The Brat; You hit like an old man! I’ve sat on seats harder than that! Etc. This is a good one for getting him riled up for that big angry man effect. Melt for him afterwards.
The Victim; You absolutely need a safeword before this. Beg him to stop, say you’ll do anything, sob and scream, complain about how much it hurts. This’ll pretty much require aftercare as well.
Lagaluvin: You’ll have more fun if you just let yourself react naturally. If you’re shy and embarrassed, be shy and embarrassed! If it makes you squeak or yelp, squeak or yelp! If it makes you giggle, giggle! If you feel like asking for more or saying “Thankyou Sir” or “I’m sorry Daddy, I was naughty” or whatever the hell turns you on in the moment, do it!
You can’t really go wrong here, I can confirm that as the guy spanking you, it’s all incredibly hot as long as you appear to be having fun. The single most important thing is to **convey that you’re enjoying it**. That makes it so much better for both parties!
mainzy: You can say yes when asked if you’ve been bad, that can lead to “what have you been bad about”? But do whatever feels natural and comfortable
davefromtheset: say “spank me like a whore”
HOLYREGIME: Spank him back
princessrobot: “Yes daddy!”
slappytheclown: “2, 2 spanks ahh, ahh, ahh….”
1000bambuz: “Dont spank me please, spanking makes me wet and horny, please dont do that to me” ……….
I one time spanked a girl, we had just met, and after spanking her i stuck my dick in her ass, she shoutet, “no dont do that” i naturally stopped, thinking she didnt like anal we had just met, but then she shoutet “no dont stop, keep doing it”
it turned out she loved anal and she loved that i did it while she objected to it, i still remember this experience with a smile, it was hot as fucking hell. And we had lots of spanking and anal sex during our time togheter, even though its not my thing now, it still hot to think about today
k3ziah: I like to squeal and say naughty things
ForFourDecades: Return the favor by spanking his penis immediately after. Guys love that.
lucycs: Enjoy it
Hairygeezer: My s moans, challenges back, flinches, goes with it, pushes back against me… it’s all good. One question are you across their knees whilst being spanked?
S is also a bratty sub, which is fabulous.
hillarysclitin: Depends on the dynamics of it. I tend to say “yes daddy I’ve been very naughty today” and tell him all the things I did wrong for the day
crystaloftruth: If you feel like it it’s ok to moan with pleasure. Being vocal is different to faking
angeloricciardo: When he asks have you been a bad girl… you say yes! Every question from there on is how bad you have been. Your answer is very bad. Let him continue unless you feel uncomfortable… then continue… 😉!
Domunique: act like a brat so he spanks you more
HappyInNature: As someone who is really into spanking, I love when my partners wriggle and whine. Begging for me to stop is also ideal but you need to have a safe word in play for that to happen.
FetchingTheSwagni: Depends. If he’s into the whole, “daddy” complex, a good response would be “Yes, daddy” and add “I’ve been a really bad girl” if you want him to continue.
But he could find that weird, not everyone is into that. So alternatively, you could replace “daddy” with “master” or just not call him anything.
You could also say something like: “I’ve been so bad, I need punishing”
Or you could just say: “Spank my ass raw”. Less sexy, but basically gives him permission to spank you for however long he wants.
Twick87: All a woman needs to do is moan, and it’s perfect. Shows me that she’s enjoying it, and her genuine moaning is so hot.
Seref15: Stick your ass out and ask for another.
WillsMyth: Maybe watch porn with spanking to see how they react and maybe you’ll see something that feels right to say
RawnExposed: Say, “please don’t pull my pants down,” so he pulls your pants down. Or skirt up, or whatever.
LiuKangWins: > You got another one in ya?
ijustwanttogohome2: Make your safe word ‘harder’
WowbaggerMM: My girlfriend squeals and it’s super hot
cavemanrogers: mek da poo poo
NakedAndBehindYou: You need to watch some bdsm porn.
the_dogeranger: “OH MY SHOULDAH”
creativeditor: Well I totally loved your thoughts..so being kinky and spanky thought is awsm..it’s a game with unlimited fun..if you really want to enjoy behave so lusty and more expressive..that why he doing tat to you and how you Reciprocative.use nasty dirty words if you both confirtable..never be silent..if you want more harder or softer express it..ask him to spank in various style..keep experimenting nd expressive..happy spanking girl..
CommieStoner: > Ooh la la