I [24f] am nervous I am going to annoy my SO [25m] with how much I want to have sex
A little background: have been together for a year and I’ve always had a very low sex drive. We just recently did anal for the first time and I legitimately cannot stop thinking about sex, not just anal, but sex. Idk whether it opened me up and now I’m more comfortable or what.
I’m concerned that if I keep bringing up sex to him he will get annoyed. For context, he has a very high sex drive and will tell me multiple times a day he wants to fuck me via text (we only see each other weekends).
How do you guys feel when your SOs express their wants for you over the course of the day? Any insight is fantastic!
DrFrenchkiss: Lady, he is going to be overjoyed! If his libido is high, and yours is rising, what can possibly go wrong? Go at it with passion, but let him take the lead sometimes. Communicate, tell him what your needs are, what you want to try with him. Rent a cottage and have sex several times a day all weekend. Enjoy!
PlaysAprtStaysTgethr: Be honest. If you cant trust your so with your sexuality, who can you trust? If he cant handle it, he may not be the onw for you. Chances are, though, that he will love it. This is a great opportunity to build your trust and communication in your relationship.
Also, this may not be forever. Your libido will go up and down. Thats natural. Enjoy and make use of the high while you have it.
My wife has never annoyed me with her sex drive and ive never annoyed her, though we both have had similar spikes and lows. We know each other and enjoy highs together, resting in the stability of our relationship.
zlipus: Theres that saying that i’m gonna butcher here.
Good sex leads to more sex.
Nothing wrong experiencing something you liked and wanting a lot more of it! I’ve been through this 2-3 times myself with some women. Not to the extent you’re talking about lol. But have had them say they usually never even care to have sex, but it was just “meh” for them. After we got comfy together that changed. Yeah it wasn’t crazy monkey sex but according to them it was much more frequent than they’re used to.
Enjoy yourself! I ASSURE you that your boyfriend would be over joyed. Very high libido myself.
welshteabags: don’t assume he’ll be okay with it. check in.
contrary to public opinion constant sex talk and sex all the time does wear on men, regardless of their libidos. He’s human. Check in.