Friggin’ Fabulous Alex McGregor
Shaving as a woman
Me (F19) wondering why is it so important to men(sometimes women too) that I shave my vagina? I don’t have an excessive amount of hair, I don’t mind my hair, it hurts to shave down there, and honestly I don’t see why it’s so important..?
And people say sometimes that I shouldn’t have to. but if I wear a swimsuit and you see a little hair than that’s gross. But also if I do shave and you see red bumps from shaving than I’m still gross to you? It’s like I can’t win… Anybody else have this problem? Comments?
Mynx1984: I like to wax myself down there because sex (and his tongue) feels so much more intense for me. Needless to say, I do this for myself. I know that as a woman, were I ever to go down on another woman I would love to feel a smooth pussy, but that’s just me. I’m not grossed out by a few hairs though. As long as we’re both showered and clean I don’t think I’d mind a bush either, to be honest. I just prefer the silky, satin touch of a freshly waxed cunt. It has a tactile and visual appeal to me. I can’t stop touching myself after I’ve waxed down there.
RottenRedRod: Don’t do it then. There’s plenty of guys who don’t care if you’re hairy or even prefer you that way (*waves* hi, that’s me). It’s your body – do what makes you comfortable!
obvthrowit: first off, whoever calls you gross for your natural body parts don’t deserve to see you naked. secondly, it’s up to you. shaved or not, you can’t please everybody (some have preference for shaved, some like hairy) so just do what you want and it’s up to you to care about what other people think or not.
once you’re in a healthy relationship i’m sure you’ll have an easier time being comfortable in your body. i used to shave but my current bf likes me with some hair so i trim but keep the hair these days. it’s fun to do stuff like that for your partner.
Jestisss: Everyone is allowed to have preferences, of course, but ultimately what you do with your body is your call and no one worth your time will make you feel poorly about it.
Personally, I keep mine cut close with hair clippers (totally easy and painless plus no bumps) 75% of the time. In the winter I let it go!
J8_88: Waxing is so much better than shaving. But it’s up to you if you want to remove hair. You don’t have to.
Stalley2: I’ve been with the same woman for 14 years at this point. She stop shaving about 10 years ago, I still don’t care. Do what you want to do. If you get into a relationship with someone who sees you for you and not as an object they won’t care one bit. Have a nice day.
Reddit7810: Sometimes I shave. Sometimes I don’t. Tell them you’ll shave if they wax their balls…..watch how quickly they back down lol.
johnnyitsme: My girl is trimmed but no more. She loves her bush and if a little shows around the Bikini we consider that sexy. No guy has ever turned away, I can tell you that.
FitMumofThree: It’s your vagina, nobody else’s. You dictate what you do with it.
casino_night: I don’t mind pubic hair on a woman. The only time I mind is when I’m going down on her. I don’t like to floss at the same time. I’m not that particular otherwise. As long as it’s a little bit trimmed, I’m okay with hair. I trim myself with clippers every 3-4 weeks, so I’m willing to put the same amount of effort that I prefer.
Classiceagle63: I’m a guy, I love a natural bush. I suggest keeping it natural as much as you can. If hair sticks out of a swimsuit, people probably shouldn’t be looking neat there let alone commenting to you about it.
kitsuneko2112: Just ignore anyone who tries to control what you should do with your body based on their own opinions. It reminds me of a pic that said “in a society that profits from your self doubt, liking yourself is a rebellious act”. Anyway, I hope you can accept yourself in your own way
4FingersOfJack: I believe that everyone has preferences. You can prefer if I’m completely shaved, but if I have some hair down there you’ll have to deal with it. Overall you do you and just for you.
shescurious11: You do what makes YOU comfortable and feeling good. A respectful partner would not put you down about any part of your body.
It made me sad that you don’t find your vagina sexy and thus want to cover it. I hope that you can find some healthy perspective and learn to feel sexy about your body. That may come with age, experience, or looking through pictures of a thousand vaginas and seeing how unique and beautiful they all are.
big_diction4ry: It’s all about personal preference and whatever makes you feel the most comfortable and confident. Confidence is sexy.
I’m a woman and I don’t shave at all, although I trim on occasion. It’s also what I find attractive on other women as well as guys, but if my partner preferred to shave I wouldn’t mind. I DEFINITELY wouldn’t insult their shaved genitals by saying they look prepubescent like some people do though, because that’s just fucked up on so many levels.
Hair is primal and sensual and sexy, and if you feel that way too (or just don’t want to dedicate hours of your time to shaving) then you shouldn’t have to shave by any means. No one has to change their body for others 🙂
MrsJRF: I shave/trim in the summertime for bathing suits, shorts, skirts, dresses and sleeveless but in the winter I let it go and hubby quite likes the variation. When we take naughty photos I don’t even need to see the date, I know what season it was by the fur on me or lack thereof.
funtimeguy03: I go back and forth. Shaved for a while bush for a while. I love it shaved for sex but a well groomed bush is super sexy. I got hard just typing the words well groomed bush
funkylittlemonkey: That’s all a matter of personal preferences…
Personally, I shave the bikini zone to skin but neatly and shortly trim the rest as that’s I prefer it and also how my bf likes it 😉
Fully shaved makes him feel like a pedophile fucking a 14 year old he says…
For the bumps and other issues, I use a product called Tend Skin Solution on shaving day and I then alternate between cream and that until I shave again 😉
As for the why, obviously to enjoy cuni’s more often 😉 but also keep it nice and fresh and reduce odours!
aiu2334: Do whatever you want , it’s up to you
Needless to say, I would prefer shaved vagina
Idk why , it look sexier
jkw118: Well for me. I don’t know if it would have to be shaved or just cut super close. (I’ve been using a norelco one blade, using the smallest spacer) and I get a very close shave, you can also use it without the spacer and get almost shaven without any bumps..
For me if I’m down there eating you out I don’t want to be eating hair (and yes I like too..alot.) above area whatever youd like my territory.. pretty smooth, lol that’s my reasoning. Would I make it a requirement no, a request yes.. and you may not get it as often if not ..
LaughingGravy13: I don’t like hair in the things l eat so l prefer clean shaven. But l also prefer to do the job myself. Put your middle finger in her pussy, ring finger on her asshole, and thumb on her clit. Then take a razor to her privates and watch her try to stay still. Great foreplay.
jkw118: Well for me I’d love to do that 2-3x a week if the lady would let me. And most have.. lol
Not that I haven’t had a few who didn’t.. then hair between teeth… and aside from they were excited at the time I doubt it’s a pleasant way to have hair removed..
I’m older now in my 40’s and I could still go at least 1-2x assuming we had time.. (I can still get it up about 4-5x in a day ) I may have a horniness problem lol
tigermax42: Get a nicer razor, some guys prefer girls to shave daily. It prevents chafing and dudes can go much longer (and save discomfort afterwards)