Oral sex during her period
This place has been so educational and it has led me to discover oral sex during my wife’s period is not bad at all!
I (M) love giving my wife oral and that’s how she has an orgasm almost every time we have sex except if she’s on her period. In the past if I didn’t know she was on her period and I offered oral sex, she would say “it’s not a good day” or “I can’t right now, I’m on my period.” In those cases, I usually rub her clit with my fingers while kissing her to get her off, but she’s described that as similar to a guy getting a hand job. It’s just not her favorite or mine. Licking her pussy really turns me on and it’s a disappointment when I can’t do it, but I assumed it would be messy, bloody, and taste gross if she was menstruating, so I trusted her judgment if she told me no. Her period can be erratic too, stopping and starting without warning over as many as 8 days. I was reading on this subreddit about others having oral sex during a woman’s period, so recently I offered to go down on her even though she had already told me she was on her period, and she actually agreed. I was surprised to find there was basically no difference from my standpoint except for a slightly different smell that I don’t mind at all. Most of the time I don’t use fingers inside and just focus on her clit, so I didn’t notice any difference in taste and didn’t encounter any blood. I wouldn’t even care if blood got on my fingers. We’ve done it several more times since then and now I’m kicking myself for avoiding period oral for years when we could have both been enjoying it. What a waste!
We always shower right before sex so things are pretty clean and she doesn’t use a tampon or anything when I go down on her. We’ve done it on day 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5 and my experience has been almost the same as when she’s not on her period. I’ve done it while she’s lying on her back or from behind when she’s on all fours. Maybe if she was standing up or straddling my face it would be different because of gravity, but in the positions we’ve done there has been no blood at all. On at least one occasion we did PIV afterward and there was quite a bit of blood when I pulled out but I didn’t see or taste any when I was licking her clit. We’ve been having period sex forever so some blood on my dick afterward doesn’t phase me at all.
I just wanted to post about my experiences in case anyone else like me has been assuming the worst about period oral.
vermin062: There are ways to keep things a bit contained when not using a tampon as well. There are menstrual cups (I use one and it has saved me so much money) that are both disposable and re-usable. SoftCups are one time use and can be used to contain the menstruation inside and can even be used to keep things clean when on a light flow or just spotting. A re-usable silicon menstrual cup isn’t suitable for intercourse, but you can certainly go down on your partner with no worries.
neuenono: I’ve almost exclusively dated women who used tampons, and it’s *never* been an issue to go down during her period. There are even glands that help get things wet that are past the tampon area, so it can smell/taste like pussy.
Good to know that it’s fine even without the tampon, too!
_Valar_Morghulis: As a man, same everything. IUD is now allowing her to menstruate far, far less often. That’s great for both of us. I never minded intercourse during, if she was up for it. But, she usually didn’t want it during, and especially didn’t want oral (which is my favorite). So, for us, the IUD has been great. At the time, they were only recommended if she’s had at least one child. Whether or not that’s your situation, I definitely recommend asking her doctor about it. My wife’s cycle has been regular on it, and it was crazy before. I feel that it’s totally her decision, as it’s her body. But, it’s made us both happy. Worth researching, for sure.
halabalooyah: The clots a good distance from the vagina in most women. You should be fine
Edit : smartasses
TheReaperSovereign: I’ve done it once and was not a fan. The taste was fine, the smell of blood was incredibly strong and a turn off.
I’m more than happy to go down every other time so I dont think anyone should feel pressured to do so during your partners period
aloofman75: My experience is that it varies quite a bit, depending on the woman, the timing, etc. sometimes it’s pretty much exactly the same, just like you say. But I’ve had times when it was, er, not as pleasant.
It hasn’t been an issue very often though. Most of the women I’ve been with have been completely uninterested in sex during their period.
fairydustxx: Wish more men were like you! I’ve only had one lover that enjoyed it when I was on my period he even said it tasted better, as a lot of women are horny on their periods it’s amazing to get a guy that doesn’t mind it. Keep having fun
Spoonbills: Bless you.
MissQuickening: If she hadn’t already married you, she’d probably propose! 😛 You’re my hero, sir. Lucky wife.
BlueDimity: I have had several men give me oral sex while I was on my period. Many men like it. One ex told me it tasted and smelled “more intense, which therefor made sex more intense,” (or words close to that).
Vinnydee51: You earned you red wings which I did 50 years ago. Some girls get very horny during their periods. Both my Wife and our girlfriend were horny as heck during their periods and my thing was using my teeth to grab the string of their Tampons and slowly pull it out which they seemed to like. When it was out I would perform oral as usual. I also did the same to previous girlfriends since I was 14 with an 18 year old girlfriend who taught me well.
Between that and analingus at a time when even porn stars were not doing it and when they finally did they demanded more money the same as they did when having sex with black guys. It was a different time back then. Luckily enough girls talk to each other and to some I was someone to have kinky sex with and to others I was a pervert.
Not to gross anyone out but my wife liked to buy a cheap pair of white cotton panties to wear after she removed her Tampon and first have me get her off with my hand before going down on her. Afterwards she threw the panties away. There was just something naughty about it but on reality to me it was just blood. I did a year in Vietnam and vaginal blood was nothing compared to what I had dealt with there.
qyka1210: my first time doing this was yesterday and I didn’t mind whatsoever. There was no taste, no significant/off-putting smell– no reason not to eat her out!
Absolutely fine, will be doing it again.
beeeeeeeeeeeey: My mission is to convince my boyfriend to try this next month. Also to get him to go down on me more I’ve been lazy about prodding and he’s shy about offering lmao.
taylorme: Thanks for sharing your experience! Hopefully this inspires others to be more open-minded 🙂
highlander_hippie: Menstrual cups are also awesome for oral sex while menstruating. They keep it all in!
theonethatgotaway: omg, get that girl a diva cup
talkwordytomebaby: I love period oral. It’s also a great source of (consensual) shame/degradation if both of you are into that sort of thing.
We’re both staunch sex-positive feminists who don’t see anything inherently shameful/gross in the vagina doing its thing.
But fuck me if the whole ‘good girls don’t let daddy near their bleeding slit’ thing doesn’t get us both going.
Excuse me…I need to return some video tapes.
plantslut_: My partner loves doing this too!! The blood doesnt bother him at all, he likes it i think.
SketchyPornDude: This is great. Thanks for posting this. I’ve been avoiding oral sex during various girlfriend’s periods all my life and this has me thinking I’ve been acting a little bit like an asshole now. Definitely going to try it out.
Bleed_In_My_Mouth: My ex normally tasted like nectar of the gods but I actually preferred the way she tasted on her period. I used to wonder if it had something to do with her vegan diet. I on the other hand enjoy bloody steaks and the taste of blood in general so I was quite enthusiastic. Eating a woman’s pussy when she’s on her period is extra intimate so I wouldn’t expect a girl I didn’t know very well to let me, but, girls can be exceptionally horny on their period (and that makes it extra fun). Another bonus…periods tell me I’m not a hypothetical baby-daddy.
I love periods. Mmmmmmmmmm.
BillieJean1992: You’re a brave man.
ilovesparkle: Where does one go to find a husband like you.
violet_anarchy: God bless you!!
shiiinglee: ask her to get on birth control to stop her period completely ?