Girls, how do you give a blowjob?
ive tried before but i always end up choking.. even if the guy is on the smaller side. i relax my throat too but.. idk.. its scary lmao
Lol…don’t worry a lot of girls freak out about this. A good tip though: most men don’t mind much if a girl deep throats or not. Don’t get me wrong – they like it…it’s like an added little treat for them. But the tip – specifically the underside of the tip and the underneath the rim of the head – of the penis is the most sensitive part, so mainly stick to stimulating that by licking, sucking, kissing (no teeth though! lol). Taking it all in once in awhile while doing the deed is good, but going the whole time like that is exhausting for the girl and somewhat less pleasurable for the boy. Honestly, the main reason you’re choking is mental. Once you get a little more practice at it, and get better, you’ll start to enjoy it and it’ll be a treat for both your man and you.
If you do decide to deepthroat, open your throat like your yawning. Also, only take as much in as you are comfortable with, or else you may end up choking. You can hold the base of his penis with your hand to keep from choking as well, because it limits the amount of him that, *ahem*, goes in.
Also, guys really like it when you play with their balls while down there…but be careful, and be gentle…they’re pretty sensitive.
Also, be really careful with this, especially if you have multiple partners. Many STDs can be spread through oral sex, so if you BOTH haven’t been tested, it’s best if he wears a condom for it.
If you’re scared, then why are you doing it? Why don’t you take a break and decide when you’re ready to really do it?
Oral sex takes awhile to get used to and it’s not all about taking it all the way into your throat – it’s pretty much all just psychological since the most sensitive part of the penis is the head. What you can do is hold the base with your hand and move it up and down in synch with your mouth.
You don’t have to actually put it in your mouth.
You can try licking the glans at the tip.