What was in her vagina?
While intimate with a woman, I put my fingers inside her and felt a thin relatively stiff object inside of her. There was plenty of room for me to finger her but I did feel it in what felt like the back of her vagina.
Later we had piv intercourse with it still in. It was noticeably difficult to have sex. She then got up and said I want you to have all of me and excused herself. When she came back the object was gone.
Sorry if this is a dumb question. I’m not very experienced. Could this have been a tampon? I thought tampons were soft and spongey.
blinkingsandbeepings: Can confirm, I’ve had sex with a girl who had a NuvaRing and this describes it pretty exactly. I’m impressed; “I want you to have all of me” is way sexier than any way I could think of to say “hold up, let me get this birth control ring out of my vadge.”
princessheart281: Might be a nuvaring, a ring shaped form of contraception that is inserted in the vagina and can be taken off during intercourse. You should just ask her if you’re really curious.
lunacross2k18: birth control.
RolliPolliOlli230: That’s why I love my IUD instead of a Nuva ring or anything like that. My IUD (vaginally inserted) isn’t ever felt by my boyfriend so 🙂 we have a good time.
drroop: My woman uses a menstrual cup, has kind of a rough pointy thing for pulling it out, stiff, maybe a bit narrower than my little finger, for the part I can feel fingering her.
ixid: Sounds more like a cervical cap than a Nuvaring.
PFalcone33: While fingering a girl once, I pulled it out too. Felt kinda foolish. Really wanted to ask her if it’s uncomfortable up in there?
dumbledorable-: I thought guys couldn’t feel the nuavaring during sex
ashwheee: Was she on her period? Best guess here is a NuvaRing because it’s most common, but this also sounds like it could be a Flex. Flex is for periods as an alternative to tampons, it is round and acts like a cap at the cervix (back of vagina, as you described.) One of the big sell points for flex is that it is a period device that you can have mess free period sex with. Flex and nuvaring’s rings sit in the same space so they might feel similar.
It most likely wasn’t a tampon because in my experience, tampons are nearly impossible to do sex acts with without an incredibly uncomfortable feeling of pressure. Especially sticking a dick in there… no thanks. Plus, there’s a string that you can’t miss.
shu888888: For reference, tampons feel hard and rough before they’ve absorbed much blood. But they’re thick and have a string. It’ll be soft and slimy after it’s bloodied.
theclassicoversharer: It totally could have been a tampon. If she was at the end of her period, she may have worn a tampon just in case of any sudden spotting. If she wasn’t bleeding, tampons can seem sort of stiff (especially compared to the inside of a vagina) because they haven’t absorbed much moisture.
imnotadamnrobot: Probably poop. You can feel it pretty prominently behind the walls. I’ve only just discovered this after something similar happened when my boyfriend pointed it out (dear boy thought it might have been cancer) but nope. Excused myself. Pooped, came back, and he said it was gone.
cumaslube: Was it round? Maybe kegel balls.
YeahOKWhateverDude: That…that was a Nuva ring. Dude…she took the BC out. You need to either watch her down Plan B or file tape charges because if she ends up pregnant you’re hosed.
And yeah, what she did was tape, same as if a guy slips off a condom mid sex