I [f17] have two vaginas. Please ask me questions so I’m prepared for the ones my boyfriend [f18] will ask me when the time comes.
Just ask me questions, I wanna be ready for the weird ones he’s gonna be asking me.
And by two vaginas I mean my vaginal canal is split by a septum, creating two “tunnels” or “holes”. One is smaller than the other.
Edit: I meant boyfriend [m18]
Edit 2: Backstory. Summer after freshman year in hs my period came randomly during camp and I was convinced it was super duper heavy because I kept bleeding through my tampon (I now realize I have to use 2, but at the time I was really confused as to how my tampon wasn’t fully bled through but I had blood on my panties). My period lasted for THREE WEEKS so I had mom take me to a gynecologist and by that time I had a strong feeling I had two canals but the doc wasn’t able to find them the first time. Second time I was like OK NO I have two sides and she was like oshit. Fast forward to now and I’m on birth control that allows me to control my period so now I only have it once every 3 months (4 times a year).
finmeister: Is it coreectible with surgery and is it something you even *want* to correct?
(I’m a woman but trying to think what a man may worry about, or what I myself would be worried about if I were you)
Is there any risk of tearing if we try PIV? Does he need to go slower than he normally might? Can you get pregnant? Is it “double the fun” for you to have both stimulated some way at the same time, do you not like that, is it dangerous?
djob13: I have no questions for you, but I will tell you to be prepared for any 18-year-old boy to not handle this in the most mature way, and that he will most likely share what you might feel is very personal information about yourself with others. He might not do so immediately, but somewhere down the road it really is a possibility.
kawaiiskogsdotter: I could imagine he’d wonder if he could accidentally hurt you in some way or tear something?
chacoglam: Do you menstrate from both, one, or neither?
jangujukkuja: 1) Does that mean you have two uteruses? Or do both the canals lead to the same uterus?
2) Are your periods different from what is considered “normal”? Longer or heavier flow, for example.
3) What precautions or steps does your partner have to take for you to have pleasurable and safe sex?
edubkendo: When you insert something, does it naturally go easily into one or the other or will he need to be careful during insertion to make sure it goes into the one you prefer? Would it be better if he lets you guide him in, at least the first few times?
PM_MeYourself: Does one feel better than the other? Like have you tried messing around with both?
slaterthings: Have you spoken to a doctor about this? Did they reccomend surgery, how far up does the septum go? Does it go to your cervix? Does it mean you can’t have a baby? How thick it is? Is it just a normal vagina with a wall in it or is it 2x as big or what? Can I see a diagram?
MateusSwipes: What is the clinical term for this condition?
He probably won’t ask you that, but I would because my personality is the figurative equivalent of “two vaginas”.
buttholesaplenty: I didn’t know this was possible. Will this affect your ability to give birth? Is it correctible with surgery? What happens during your period?
curiouspursuit: This might be easily correctable. I knew someone who had it done as an outpatient procedure at 14. Her issue might have been different from yours, but it sounds like the same thing.
Also, I think “I have 2 vaginas” is the worst way to describe it or try to explain it, and many 18 year old guys are relatively clueless as to the details of female anatomy. Many don’t realize there is a pee hole separate from the vagina.
Maybe say that your vagina has a tuck/fold in it, so it is more of a figure 8 shape than an O shape. Or your vagina has a septum so it might be narrower than others.
I had a summer fling in high school, who was apparently uncircumcised. I had barely seen a penis, so what did I know? We just fooled around and I saw it a few times but never thought anything of it. Found out later that he had been super nervous and thought I’d freak out, then thought I was just being nice when I didn’t make a big deal about it. When I told him I really had no idea he was both relieved but also annoyed he’d made such a big deal about it in his head.
If you act like or make it wound super weird it’ll have the wrong effect. I’d just casually mention like “oh yeah I have this little quirk” and then go on like its no big deal!
SANTICLAWZ: Sooooo you can lose your virginity twice?
vanteal: If she hasn’t already been mentioned. Go look up a woman named “Cassandra Bankson”..
[Here is her youtube channel](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHj2_6e0Y2YdzHZDkkLa53Q) She’s openly talked about having two vagina’s as well. She may help answer some questions you may have.
saksophone: Do you have a favorite?
robbydb: Did you hear the one about the man with 5 penises?
His pants fit like a glove.
cinderflame: First question any boy will be asking when talking about your lady-parts is, “Can I see it?”
MrSnowden: He might ask to put a bullet vibe in the small one while he uses the larger one. Fun times for all.
General-ColinBile: Which canal is more pleasurable for sexy time?
tfresca: Can you get pregnant?
throwaway745452818: Do you have two clits too? What about two buttholes?
(I’m obviously not asking, but I can imagine an eighteen-year-old boy asking.)
catch_my_drift: I think it’s a fairly basic question, do they feel the same?
Like, would PIV feel better than the other.
CoalMakesDiamonds: Maybe call in to Dan Savage’s podcast. https://www.savagelovecast.com/ he sometimes has experts on for interviews that may have some great insight.
Also, if anyone is looking for a great sex and relationship advice podcast, this is the one. He also has an advice column, but the podcast is so great.
Random_G: Can me and my buds… Triple penetrate you?! – 18 year old
ncharge26: I just wanted to say that sounds kinda awesome. I hope you don’t feel bad about it because you shouldn’t. If a dude has a problem with it then ditch his ass, he doesn’t deserve you.
LasciviousLlama: I am a 28 year old woman with uterus didelphys. I was diagnosed at age 16. I can answer most of the questions in this thread. AMA.
daddio3311: I’m sure this isn’t as uncommon as you think.
Please see a gynecologist. I’m sure it’s repairable with surgery. And do it soon since you’re just in the beginning of the sexual part of your life.
the_dank_muslim: Which one gives you more pleasure?
BLOOODBLADE: Well thinking of what he would say i gotta ask; During sex would you prefer one being used over the other? Or perhaps one being penetrated by his penis and the other by a toy? Would having both be penetrated be uncomfortable or even painful for you?
_spacepussy_: Do they have names?
Have you read the AMA from the gentleman with diphalia? https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/1u75hh/i_am_the_guy_with_two_penises_ama/?st=JAQ0V0H0&sh=1f23b91d
GretSeat: Go into porn?
Narcius: Not to sound crass, but you have four holes then. One to pee, two vaginal and finally your ass?
Have you masturbated from both of your vaginas?
Brytard: Where’s that double dick dude?
KillerSquid: Where’s that guy with two dicks? His AMA was a few years ago.
Kevin-96-AT: plot twist: ops boyfriend is /u/DoubleDickDude
JeremyRodriguez: Which hole do I put it in? Does one feel better than the other?
It’s it just an extra hole between the labia, or double sets of labia?
himalaya_pervert: What do you mean two vaginas?!
l-Came: Can I fuck them both? If I stick things in both will it feel good for you? Can we get toys so that we can stimulate both?
Nonnnyyy: Should I do anything differently? Will anything I do hurt you?
0xor1: I’m not clear from your description exactly how the septum separation is, but what would happen if you were to go through vaginal child birth? Wouldn’t it tear the septum? Would it need surgical separation to allow for vaginal child birth?
foryoursafety: If you bleed from both sides do you have two cervix? Or is it just one cervix and the septum doesn’t go all the way to the top ‘seeling’ two seperate canals?
Mord4k: Are both functional and is it just a physical split or a doubling up all parts as a result of the split?
NyQuil_Delirium: Somebody with a [similar condition](https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/11uf2z/iama_female_who_was_born_with_a_complete_uterine/?st=JAPUE2Y7&sh=464d9137) did an AMA. Might be worth skimming for you.
NudeAndPubic: Not a question, but this podcast may help
IListenToJoji: So I’m assuming that it looks like the average vagina would look on the outside but splits into two separate tunnels right?
I tried to find a picture of how this looks like and I couldn’t find one. Sounds fascinating though.
I guess my question would be would it impact a person’s sex life in terms of positions but the answer is probably no.
Ssshirley: After reading everything posted here, I think you are just going to have to go on that journey and experience it. Everybody makes such great points. Just try and keep them in mind and move through it as best you can. Hope all goes well.
Inurondo: My first questions would be about how you want him to handle PiV, oral and fingering. For instance, do you have a favorite side, or do you use both? He may also ask about how you handle periods and any complications women normally deal with.
Iledahorsetowater: That just means you’re going to have to say *”Wrong hole”* twice as much as the average female.
Naw but for real, does it slip out and hit the septum or just slip into another hole? Does he have to be coordinated to keep it in the same hole without hitting his dick on the septum? Can he pick a hole?
One plus is you got one for the little dicks and one for the big dicks!!!!!!
DonLaFontainesGhost: I can’t believe you didn’t say “when the time comes around” [snicker]
drewster298: Being that I haven’t seen it, are they side by side or “over and under”? Just curious
Doveen: Hmm… What he will ask is largely dependent on his personality really. If he is sex positive, and considerate, he will most probably ask you how would you like itneractions to happen, what should he be careful about etc.
If not… I’m not an optimistic person…
Coidzor: “What does it mean for us functionally that your uterus is heart-shaped? Is your cervix lower and easier to accidentally hit during sex? Is it capable of supporting a baby in there with that shape?”
“Do I need to use special condoms?”
“Do I have to do anything different when eating you out? Do you like tongue or fingers in one or both of them during?”
“Are they over-under or side-by-side?”
“Does one dead-end or do they both actually lead to the cervix?”
“What about anal, does it have any effect on being able to do that?”
“What do you think of, like, putting a vibrator in the small one while I fuck the other one?”
**Disclaimer**: I may not remember what sort of things 18 year old guys would generally know about very well.
illimitable1: All you need is double dick dude.
walterjohnhunt: Can one be used to sneak candy and snacks into the movies?
James3000gt: Maybe it’s been asked…
Do you require 2 tampons
Which would a baby come out of
Side by side or up and down
Side note. You’re unique which makes you awesome. Congrats.
puggymomma: I don’t have a question yet. But remember this: Every body is different. I worked in clinics forever and heard that countless times. And it’s true.
mtlredditor: Since your uterus is heart shaped, can you still become pregnant or does that mean you will never have children?
You boyfriend will most likely appreciate to know if you are planning to be together for a long term.
So you have only two ovaries I guess? No risk you become pregnant a second time while already being pregnant?
I remember a case of double vaginas like you and she actually had to be careful about not becoming pregnant in her 2 uteruses at the same time as it would become dangerous.
thesonofhadesssss: “Does that mean we can have a threesome”?
oso_mocoso: Did you name them? Is one your favorite?
Glurak: Have you consulted practice of 3 months of birth control at once with your gynaecologist? Is it healthy? What are the risks?
guhusernames: This thread is low-key really fascinating
Good luck OP! Have fun!
redditusernamez: Can I put it in both?
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