Guys/gals, what do you find is the best app for casual sex hookups/FWBs (friends with benefits) ?
There are so many dating scam apps and websites full of fake profiles. And the ones that are legit are geared towards relationships.
I just need an FWB. Have no time for a relationship with two kids and all. But I love sex and I love women, so…..
I’d love to hear from women and where they go when looking for sex.
Daveyw224: What I don’t like about Tinder is the Facebook connection. I don’t want my adventures tied to social media.
goingtospiritlake: Tinder. Also some subreddits have been surprisingly effective.
14142Throwaway: Bumble has gotten me some. The women there seem to be more forward in my age bracket.
leelee0350: Tinder has worked well for me (F42). I’m in exactly the same situation. I don’t want or rather am not in a position to have a relationship, but love sex and crave the physical intimacy.
Use a fake name, have a friend take a couple pictures over a week or so (if you don’t have really any to choose from), preferably without sunglasses/friends and be frank about what it is your looking for.
I’ve gone into it with an easy going mind set. It’s definitely eye opening and sometimes I’ve just had to laugh.
Daveyw224: How do I find these subreddits? Kinda new to this place.
thiswaytoalltheporn: Imo: bumble works best to avoid bots as, after “matching” the woman has 24 hours to contact the man and their algorithm puts the most active and liked individuals first.
What you’ve got to understand about online dating, as a male, you go from the thin illusion of total female control in “the wild” to near total female control of the introduction. For every match you get, she’s likely got 30 or so.
The keys to success are good pictures (show your body somehow without a bathroom shirtless pic and use this as the first pic. Example; a pic of you doing something physical with friends with a shirt that fits so you see flexed arms and no gut.) and playing the numbers. (100 matches gets 20 messages gets 5 meet ups type of numbers.) Don’t get involved in long text conversation as many are only looking for a boredom cure/validation. Use texting to gauge interest and set up a meeting (usually within 5 texts from me).
Side note: don’t let it take more than an hour from your day in total. These apps are a time hole.
Your mileage may vary. I used it as a single 20-25 year old in a very free time restricting job. Now I prefer the real approach where I have consistent tangible influence.
MKApex: You could workout and become a swol beast. The planet then turns into your FWB.
Daveyw224: I love Canada. Used to have nice layovers there with the airline I worked for.
slaymyanus69: In my experience, none. But my pictures probably suck so just make sure you have that aspect of your profile taken care of.