When my boyfriend sucks my nipples…?
When my boyfriend sucks my nipples I like to watch him and imagine that he’s breastfeeding.. It’s so hot and makes me cum when he fingers me at the same time, but when I’m not turned on this sounds really weird/disgusting to me. Does anyone else experience something like this?
nemoskull: all the time. as best as i can tell, getting turned on is very much a drug. it alters you perceptions of the world.
BadWolfKinkster: Totally a thing. My wife and I both love it. Talk to him about it and see if he’s into it. You may be surprised!
prw8201: My wife enjoys the same thing. Though after our son was born things were weird for her as apparently I suckle just like a new born and it was to much for her. It was several years after breast feeding that I was asked to suck on them again.
YoungFLDude: My first girlfriend was on BC and it messed with her hormones, and started making her produce milk. She thought it was weird at first and when I told her I thought it was sexy, she started incorporating it into our sex lives. It made me crazy about suckling during sex. She’d come home after school and work and her breasts were big and engorged from filling up with milk during the day. She’d lift her top off and reveal them heavy and full and would say “Do you want to help empty them?”.
I’d suckle for hours. We’d make fun games of it. She’d also touch herself, stroke my hair or my aroused penis and we’d cum together multiple times during a milking session. I remember how wild and powerful our hormones and emotions felt. They were some of the best bonding and intimacy things I ever felt in my life.
My current girlfriend apparently always had fantasies about being milked and feeding but never acted on them until we talked about various things that turned us on early in the relationship. I told her about my whole milk fetish and she couldn’t believe I was into it. She started telling me she thought it always sexy but never told anyone because she thought they’d judge her and think she was weird. I told her about my ex and she loved it
Fast forward to now, and she’ll come into my room while I’m working, embrace my head and press it into her bosom, stroking my hair and saying how much she loves me. I turn into jelly. She’ll lift her shirt and reveal her breasts, push them together and say “I’ve got lots of milk for my man” (despite the fact she’s not lactating), and she’ll watch me suckle and stroke me while I do it. If we’re having sex I’ll suckle while thrusting and she’ll talk dirty like “yes fucking pump your big fat load in me so I can start making milk for you. Give me big heavy milkers”. She also likes calling me a “good boy” while suckling and other encouraging talk. This was all unprompted mind you. I was amazed she had this all going on quietly in her head, but it was just given the right opportunity to come out, and I think it’s the hottest thing ever.
Moral of the story. Don’t be shy. Life is short. If you can’t openly talk about stuff you like with him, you may want to rethink the relationship. I don’t think there is a guy alive that would be against it though. Ease him into it and ask why he enjoys suckling so much. It’ll turn into the best relationship of your life, and your bond will grow incredibly special and close
shoobyy: When he plays with my nips for some reason I feel it in my teeth? Sometimes it’s kind of painful in my molars… I have no clue why but I’m hoping some passerby might bcs I love nipple play ;-;
Secretary_Sprinkles: It’s not weird and I am cracking up because… well my boyfriend likes to suck on my nipples while I pour milk down my boobs into his mouth.
itsb413: Nipple play bring me to the next level, you are not alone my dear. Plus so many of us are grossed out by our sexual desires when out of context. I mean sucking on the place a man urinates from is pretty weird if you think about it but damn if I don’t love some cock in my mouth.
savethecaribou: I didn’t know this was a thing but hot to know
GhettoBuddhaKinda: I am soooooo glad op said this. I have been thinking I was a creepy weirdo this whole time. I like kind of cradling my husband while he sucks on my boobs. I grab on to his hair and control him going from one boob to the other and back and forth and it’s sooooo hot. But yeah, when I’m not turned on I think “what the fuck was that all about?”
Pretigee: This is my thing too. Never was my thing when I nursed three kids but it sure is now.
randi907: It is such an awesome feeling. I have done this with men and women. It is a hard to describe, but it can be amazing. My current bf will suck while I run my fingers through his hair.
Tivland: Not weird at all. Wife is breastfeeding currently and was always too scared of leaking for her to get into it. One day I was like, “fuck it” and just sucked on them as normal and went with it.
She was shocked and then sooooo turned on that it’s now a part of our sex life.
AllieKat7: It’s a thing.
r/Adultbreastfeeding might have what you are looking for.
scorpiotigerlily: I love this! I have very large breasts and my husband loves to suck them. I caress his head and when I START SQUIRMING, he fingers me while sucking on one and playing with the other.It’s a favorite! This morning I woke up to him sucking on my nipple.
Needless to say, we went at it hard, first thing!
secretgirl1989: Girl, yessss. I love this too. I am just very slowly opening up to my boyfriend about it, testing the waters, and I’m not sure how much he likes the actual idea of breast feeding but he is happy to suckle my tits and loves how wet I get haha. Someone else posted another sub but also check out r/AnR
Dionyzyzz: There are women who actually have orgasms from having their nipples sucked. Do a Google search on breast orgasms and you’ll find this out for yourself.
pf0424: Nothing weird about it at all.
inflatabledecoy: I do this with my girlfriend all the time. Its very comforting and I find it extremely hot. Sometimes I wish she was able to breastfeed me because its definitely a kink of mine. Its nothing to be ashamed of.
FrightenedRunner: Every so often when Im sucking on my wifes nipples. It will occur to me it might be because I breast fed as a child but.. I usually just push that shit aside and enjoy it.
MLG-BLT: As your horniness increases, you disgust goes way down. If there was a glass of water a hair flew into or a bug flew out of or something, you’d be much more likely to drink it horny than if you weren’t.
This is to compensate for the fact that most people find semen pretty gross normally. If disgust didn’t go down when humans get horny, we’d have a hard time reproducing
slapdashbr: This is like when I’m done watching porn and I look at the thirty browser tabs I have open and every one if them disgusts me
Citvej: Is this why women like it? Damn I thought it just felt good
jannorthman18: Yes!! It’s natural to want to nuture!!
mynaughtyideas: As many have described, we all have some fetishes that really get us there in the moment, and then when we are away from the bedroom, we think about and say “I can’t believe that turns me on.” This might just be one of them for you.
I’m sure you are not alone for this particular fetish, and you really don’t know what is going through his mind while he is sucking on your nipples, it could be exactly the same thing.
starmother2: My nipples have always been an O area for me. I was freaked out that it would be weird after having a baby to breastfeed but believe me… breastfeeding a baby is not the same! It’s painful at first and then it’s a relief of pressure but never pleasurable.
Even during my breastfeeding times, when my husband and I would get some sexy time, he would play/lick them and it would feel very different and great!
It’s not weird.
BeardsuptheWazoo: It’s totally a thing.
bettershine: I do it because she likes it a lot. But while she was breastfeeding I was really turned off from licking her nipples. So your bf might do it without it being really related to breastfeeding..
HEY_HEY_its_NAY_NAY: My boyfriend and I do the same thing. I even ask him to bite me a little bit and nibble on my nipples. It’s super hot and I think it’s normal because the nipples/breasts are an androgynous zone for women and it’s natural to want that I think. Eventually we will breast feed and it may change but for now enjoy it 😉
SadistIntrovert: I sniff my girlfriend’s armpits while aroused. Can’t do that when normal
Peter5930: I do this with my gf; I induced her to lactate and she breastfeeds me regularly and we both love it. It made her breasts look better too; they’re much more perky than they were before I started.
erickaclark: I’m on my second breastfed baby, and my husband loves it. I have to stop him during sex so that there is enough milk for our baby.
fullmoonhermit: Totally. It freaked me out the first time, but after awhile, I just learned to enjoy it and not worry too much about it. Nurturing in general is kind of a nice, heady thing to add to the mix during sex.
walrusdoom: Revel in it. It’s one of the best things about being alive.
discardable42: It’s a thing…it’s called ANR (adult nursing relationship) and some women [induce lactation](https://www.google.com/search?q=anr+inducing+lactation&oq=anr&aqs=chrome.1.69i57j0l3.3696j0j9&client=ms-android-virgin-us&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8) for such purposes.
chriz_1012: Being completely honest here, when my daughter’s mother and I were still hooking up after she gave birth, I would absolutely LOVE to suck on her tits while she was lactating. Basically, she would ride me and she would have her tits straight in my face DRIPPING with breast milk. It made our sex life 10x better because we both got off on it. And don’t worry about if other people approve of your fetish or not! Do what makes you cum! And remind yourself that there are people out with weirder fetishes than you or I could ever come up with!
ShureYnaut: As a guy, I realized about a year ago that something about women lactating turned me on. It weirded me out at first, but I decided it’s part of the natural beauty of a woman and a mother.
I think your feelings fall under that umbrella as well.
CosmicKKKelly: I love this though. I think that is why sex is such an amazing thing. Its almost everything that is wrong, is right. I feel embarrassed because I get so turned on by role playing being raped. But in real life i would never actually want that. It’s just when i’m with someone i love acting like it. Don’t you think that’s weird?
User1440: They do look like babies with their eyes closed.
And I say this as someone that is childfree.
nedonedonedo: it’s pretty common to feel guilty about your kinks. it’s very easy to mix up what *is* wrong with what is *related to* something that’s wrong. your boyfriend sucked your nipples and it got you off. there’s nothing wrong with what happened. if you have to tell yourself “well yea, but *what if*…” then what you did wasn’t wrong, the “what if” is wrong. you didn’t do the “what if”. you had sex with your boyfriend.
sheisdamned: I’m so happy this thread exists. This is something my boyfriend and I have very recently started doing, and the orgasms it gives both of us are absolutely intense. When I thought about it before or after, I felt a little disgusting; breastfeeding shouldn’t be a kink, especially for someone who never wants to have children, right? I feel a little bit better about it now.
-neveragain-: Oh my God I feel ya. He goes down on me for 20 min straight and nothing happens. He takes a break and sucks my tiddies for 10 seconds and theeeere I go…
onlybrownpanther: An ex girlfriend of mine really loved it when I sucked on her nipples, she used to get super hot and horny and ask for several escalating things when I started with her nipples. I always thought this is a big turn on for women and loved doing what she asked me to until one of these days I was doing my part of the deed when she just went, “It will be so awesome when I have actual milk in my boobs and you suck them”. Turns out I was not into that at all, for a week after that I could not get hard when ever she took off her bra, not something I was used to!
cupsandmugs555: Same haha
DirtyGesture: My boyfriend and I do it all the time (Together for 3 years) And im not a very “outgoing” person but this was one of the first things we have ever done together and it’s absolutely amazing..and yes i does sounds weird talking about it when not turned on ..But still 100/10 would recommend.
wannagetbaked: some guys are into it – important not to judge yourself or them about it – has nothing at all to do with morality also can verify breast milk is fantastic it was made for people.
PrettyPandaPrincess: Well, I don’t really have any feeling in my nipples anymore from pumping for several months after I had my daughter.
But when my boyfriend plays with/sucks on them, I can’t really feel it, so it doesn’t do much for me, HOWEVER…it kinda gives me a calming, nuturing, feeling? I enjoy it in that sense, I suppose. It feels “natural” I guess? I don’t know how else to describe.
mcsniper66: Not disgusting, very sexy.
interwebbed: Sounds pretty normal, being turned on is just a different setting/level. When were heated up my gf likes pain, so she’ll tell me to grab her ass or smack her hard or pull her hair hard.
When were not, shell yelp in pain and tell at me when I smack her booty hard.
Reptilesblade: I’m a guy and breast play is probably my single biggest fetish.
Sounds like you might like developing a Adult Nursing Relationship at some point. I have heard it’s a deeply intimate and bonding experience. All you have to do is get your breast to do what they are going to do anyway and start lactation. I can tell you more if you’re interested.
DootDeeDootDeeDoo: Same, sort of. It doesn’t gross me out, but it’s new to me because nobody ever did that before him.
spicyboi619: He probably thinks the same thing! Talk to him about it
FR13N3MY: When me and my ex had children I used to taste her breatmilk I didn’t mind at all, I love nipples and it was sweet. Not sure of the ration of would/wouldn’t but it’s something I would do. Might aswell try something.
Black-Thirteen: I don’t think that’s disgusting at all. Most people sexualize breasts, both the men that love them and the women that have them. I don’t think it’s that much of a leap to sexualize their intended function as well. What does seem weird to me are guys who love boobs but are grossed out by the thought of breast milk. There’s a contradiction in there somewhere.
Itallianstallians: There are a lot of things that are interesting when you are turned on that aren’t when you aren’t. During a normal day, eating ass doesn’t seem too fun but when the wife and I are going at it, I can’t resist doing it to her. She is lactating now and that was never a turn on and isn’t until I am in the mood, then it is super hot. It’s normal.
ejpusa: Right. Now one can see how childhood affects us all. Just hardwired in. The roll of the Mother. It’s important. 🙂
IheartX0X0: Try /r/bdsmadvice
tightheadband: I don’t like fantasizing about him being a baby or anything like that. I think what turns me on the most is the whole acceptance of my body in what it has to offer.
ch1nese_pr0verb: Oh I love it to. Hormones are crazy =)
bee_fast: I’m the polar opposite. It’s really hard for me to not think of breast feeding and I didn’t want my nipples touched at all let alone sucked for years. I’ve been married for 7 years, with him for 9 and it’s only in the last year I’ve been starting to get comfortable with it. I’m super grossed out by anything and everything to do with pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding, etc. it made physically ill for such a long time because I couldn’t get my brain to accept it as a sexual act and not anything to do with babies or pregnancy.
doitnowplease: It’s an amazing thing that arousal does to our bodies and minds. It’s a completely normal thing and you should feel open in sharing it with your boyfriend. I bet it would open a line of conversation that would expand your sexual relationship in ways you didn’t anticipate.
w001092c: Look into DDLG/MDLB kinks
Synovexh001: FACT: it’s clinically demonstrable that sexual arousal suppresses the disgust response in your brain. Explains a lot, eh?
sjb285: Your brain is set up so that when you get hot and horny we ignore and do things that we usually wouldn’t
tevyus: Most natural thing in the world. If he’s spending more than 10 second at your breast, then it’s crossed his mind, too. But just saying “This turns me on” will make it 1000 times better for him.
PleaseTouchMeDaddy: Mmm I love fantasizing about nursing and having my nipples sucked, or even just my breasts fondled, is a huge turn on.
TequilandSunshine: It’s not how you get off that matters. Getting off does
xerxestomyleo: Not weird at all.
kafkaestic: My ex gf has that fetish, if you can call it that. We never discussed about it, but I figured it from her body language and expression after a while. It was fun to watch her do that.
gargovich: Are you my ex? If yes, no I still don’t miss you.
wowzaa1: Yeah this grossed me out haha. But nothing wrong with that
THATGVY: You might have a bit of a mommy fetish.
seriouslywtf0617: Eh you gotta a weird fetish. It’s alright. There’s much worse out there. Lol