Took me 22 years to realize that my clitoris is hyposensitive and the g spot is real, but… at least it didn’t take me longer.
I was told as a teenager by friends (and even my mom) that the clitoris is by far the most important part of sex in a woman. So I spent… I don’t know.,. Years trying to pleasure myself in the wrong place for me, and getting frustrated and feeling broken when it didn’t work.
My clit is hyposensitive. It’s tiny, and I possibly have mild female phimosis as suggested by a friend (my clit hood covers my entire clit and my clit is barely even able to be seen unless I really pull it back). Even then, I feel almost nothing. Someone can eat me out focusing on my clit area, and I’m not even slightly turned on.
One day a few months ago my ex and I were using a big, powerful vibrator. I don’t know who had the idea, but I shoved that thing up there, angled it upwards and BAM– instant screaming, shaking orgasm (after a lot of foreplay of course). I don’t even have to really shove it up that far—only maybe two-three inches.
I spent years thinking I was broken and that my clit didn’t work. Turns out, maybe my clit doesnt work well, but other parts do.
purplefires: Your clit works fine – it just likes a certain type of stimulation. That little tiny protrusion is only part of your clitoris!
ScroungingMonkey: >I spent years thinking I was broken and that my clit didn’t work. Turns out, maybe my clit doesnt work well, but other parts do.
That’s a false distinction. The clitoris is a lot bigger than the visible head. The g-spot is part of the clit too- it’s the *back* of the clit.
amethystmelange: If your clitoris was indeed hyposensitive, the G spot wouldn’t work either because it’s part of the clitoral structure. 😉
That said, it’s great that you’ve discovered this! Some people just prefer internal stimulation of the clit (via G spot), some prefer external. It’s all a matter of preference, but people who are completely new are usually directed to the clit first as finding the G spot isn’t necessarily easy for everyone.
TimmyD80: My wife has not had a gspot orgasm and I am wondering if a vibrator would help. I’m going to try this with her.
InoffensivePaint: Is this… Are you me?
I am going to have to try this! Do you have any particular instructions or helpful hints on how to go about this?
G_o_o_d_n_a_s_t_y: Congrats on the discovery! May you have many more!
honeywheatale: What vibrator did you use?
Abortivora: My gf has somewhat the same problem. Usually im very good with oral, but with her, after 3 minutes she told me to stop because she was “too sensitive”, she said she enjoys and she feels it building up but right before she cums, it goes away, in fact I cant even touch it anymore. It’s weird. She also has a very small clit, and she says she only came once in her life! Congrats withyour discovery!m
I will try the vibrator thing. I hope it helps!
GDLKDankte: He wasnt eating it right then.