Advice: Share your affection erections with your partner
If there is something simple and usually non sexual about your partner that really turns you on, share it with them! You’ll make their day (or night)!
Last night my partner and I were joking around in bed when he made up a new really silly nickname for me. I burst out laughing and couldn’t contain my giggles for a really long time. When I finally was able to calm down, he told me that my giggles make him instantly hard. It made my so happy and excited to know that something so little gets him rock hard.
I never would have thought something so simple and non sexual would have turned him on like that, and knowing it really makes me feel happy and confident. I so strongly suggest sharing those little thing with your partner, it will really make their day!
pm-me-ur-nsfw: I love the term “affection erection”. What a great way to phase this type of spontaneity.
OutInTheHam: Affection erection, heart-on
dotsonapond: Yes!! I root for this so hard. My ex used to tell me whenever I smiled at him really sweetly or just looked at him, he would get hard. Or when I was being really “wholesome” it turned him on.
It made me think he was so adorable and I appreciate him more for it. It also made me happy and confident too, because they were unintentional yet I still managed to make him excited!
ninjabunnay: My hubby gets hard every time I make him his favorite sandwich. Not a normal, day to day sammie, we’re talking corned beef, provolone cheese, deli mustard, tomatoes, red onions and sauerkraut on toasted rye bread. Instant viagra, love it.
Shadeauxmarie: I get hard anytime the wind blows.
Yarzeda: You hit my soft spot, but you make me hard.
Pretty-Hate-Machine: I cannot agree more. My boyfriend has told me similar things and it just makes you glow for days.
fyrespritetryst: my partner’s boners make me so happy, even if it’s something simple like holding his hand while I drive or wrapping my leg around his while we settle down to sleep.
snekGun: From those of us who see sex as something passionate & wholesome, thank you. More discussions like this need to be held 🙂