Thinking About Doing Cosmetic Surgery to Labia Minora? Don’t.
To Women Thinking About Doing Cosmetic Surgery to Labia Minora: Don’t. I learnt to love mine.
Your Labia minora is full of nerve endings and that is what makes the sex better. Cutting them off will devour you from an amazing sexual experience. Don’t sacrifice your sexual pleasure to satisfy some dicks short lived perception of physical beauty.
Hi guys, so I just want to say my story about accepting and loving what my vagina looks like. Not your every day story until I realised so much women think and go through this shit.
If you’re a women struggling about the way your Labia looks … it’s totally fine. There are 7 types and you can get find them here: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/body/health/g11658368/is-my-vagina-normal-shape-size-vulva-labia/
BEFORE I CONTINUE for anyone having sex with the woman of whatever Labia you don’t fucking exploit and make your sexual partner feel guilty for not encompassing the vagina you prefer.
AND Women: please don’t feel pressured to change the way your pretty vaginas look This is YOU, nobody will define you like yourself.
Soo I have prominent inner lips, used to hate them but they’re the best thing ever
Ok so here it goes: I come from a strict and overprotective upraising where my immigrant mother panicked over everything. When I first got my periods I was at home and called her over.
She saw my Labia and freaked out. So my mother didn’t know about sex til marriage. The poor woman. The only vaginas she saw were baby girls and herself. She has closed lips.
She really panicked up until I was 21 and kept encouraging us (her girls) to do surgery.
Her argument is that no man will think we’re virgins before marriage and that we don’t have “normal” labias. If you’re a guy perpetrating this belief on your sexual partner, then unkindly, fuck you.
She was convinced that my vagina wasn’t normal and would book me appointments with gynaecologists. Yeah fucked up shit. A memory that kills me when I think about it, is when I was 14 years old I sat on a metal chair that kept my legs spread apart and a male gyne was checking me to see “what was wrong”.
Anyway when my sister gets her periods my mother is crazy upset.
During these years thanks to the internet I research and realise I’m totally normal. But most of the threads at the time are of women who have done cosmetic surgery to their Labia.
One day I tell my best friend about my mother and she roars in laughter. She has one prominent lip and says it’s totally normal.
And it is.
But my mother isn’t convinced. She says, she’s been waiting til I turned 21 for me to do surgery.
I’m fucking shook but I go fine let’s go to the female doctor you been looking at. My poor sister thinks there’s something wrong with her, but we end up going to the doctors.
The doctor looked at my mother and said why are you doing this they’re. totally normal. Mum goes No. so doctor makes me lie on a mat and I open my legs and she laughs at my mother.
I realised my Labia were made for sex and having them serve the best sexual experience ever, even when your slightly turned on. Women they’re for you. Love them.
I couldn’t believe which woman wouldn’t love her Labia after initiating and developing my sex life with my partner 🙂
I didn’t know what getting wet was, never masturbated, or had been in a physical relationship prior so I had no idea how fucking fun my vagina is laughing emoji lol
It started when I got engaged to my now partner – we believe in having sexual intercourse after marriage but kissing and touching is fine – and hard not to have sex haha but we luckily went through it. Like I said still unsure about these things. When we would talk dirty to one another, and start talking about what we want to do that’s when I began touching my Labia from how turned on I get. They’d be wet and dripping and being turned On, I’d be touching them and These feeling would make me feel sexy. Then I realised shit my mothers crazy.
Fast forward to post marriage and gaaahhhhh glad I waited and did it with the man I love. Sex is amazing.
So what did my man think when he saw my Labia? I’m motherfucking sexy and giving him a good time why the fuck would he complain?
If he isn’t licking your labia, gently running his fingers between them when you’re wet … then … he isn’t man enough for you. Or the feeling of his penis between your meat.
Like I said at the start. Your Labia minora is covered with nerves and created for good sex. It doesn’t make sense to cut what is made for sex to look “normal” for sex.
And if you’re feeling insecure, I’m sure he has his own insecurities. We all do.
So, that was longer than I thought. Don’t let anyone mAke you feel abnormal.
I mentioned that your partner isn’t man enough if he can’t lick you. That’s completely wrong and biased to my own experiences. If I offended Anyone, apologies in advance.
Mistasquires: Personally as a male i truly love labia. The more the better as far as im concerned. Ive seen many in my time and never not had one i didnt love. All vaginas are great
veronikacantsleep: Thank you for this post. So many young girls struggle with how they look down there. Our sex ed is lacking and internet pornstars who have had labiaplasty don’t help at all. I used to feel very anxious about how I looked too an ex called me “roast beef vagina”. I googled around and found pictures of ladies who had large labias just like me and it made me feel SO Much better about myself. My labias are very prominent, large, and asymmetrical. They’re unique looking and I’ve grown to love them. My husband loves them too.
My labia however get in my way and can be quite painful at times especially when they get trapped between underwear elastics and my thigh. I can avoid this by wearing loose fitting panties. They also hurt if I’m riding my bike and I’m not wearing thick enough shorts/pants (no yoga pants for me ouch!) As I get older I notice my labia getting larger and more sensitive. If they start severely affecting my quality of life I will not hesitate to reduce their size via surgery. I’ll only get surgery to improve my life and happiness not for cosmetic reasons.
FR13N3MY: Wow that sort of treatment from your mother must have made you have a complex for years. I’m sorry to bear that, and I’m glad you overcame it. , and moved forward from it.
Tilestesselated: Your mom was bonkers.
Doinitbigalways: I’m a guy and i am a strong believer in women being who they are. If he or she or they don’t love you for you then they can go somewhere else for what they want. The vagina has many forms and they are all beautiful.
floordonuts4lyf: Mine is a very prominent number 7 in that link, and I’ve always hated it and wanted surgery. I hate how you can see all my inner lips head on when standing, it’s just all out there in the open. Even with posts like these, I still hate it. I’ve never seen another girl with labia that looks like mine.
Invisible_girl000: If you are doing it for men. It’s the most stupidest reason ever. To a man. A pussy is a pussy. Most men will root anything that walks so why the eff would they care if you have extra skin. I’ve even gotten dates in the past without shaving my legs or armpits. I don’t shave and I’ve never had a guy have a problem with it. Men don’t care about these things as long as you clean and don’t stink.
harbeas: I have never heard a guy say that the girl had an ugly vagina.
NaviMinx: I’m #5. I’m korean and I’ve only ever seen vagina #5 since I’ve been going to bath houses since I was a little girl. I thought they all look the same. I never knew there were all different types of labia lips until I started watching porn but I never thought they were unattractive, just different.
I also never knew women grew hair outside their vaginal area like the inner thighs until 2 years ago when I saw my non asian friends bikini line. Had no idea you could grow pubic hair on your thighs.
It’s natural and no one should have to feel ashamed.
lasey_guy: Personally, I love labia. They’re fun to play with with my tongue. Medically, redundant labia can be very uncomfortable for some women. There are nonsurgical solutions that a plastic surgeon or gynecologist can discuss with you.
Swiggity_Swooty_83: Same goes for men. Don’t cut your kids foreskin off just because you think it looks better, or a societal norm. It’s still fucked up for the exact same reasons cutting labia off is. Circumcision is wrong, FGM is wrong. Also, tell me why I’m wrong before you downvote please, I expect downvotes given the amount of Americans there are on reddit and its a touchy subject apparently.
ThatDidntJustHappen: Alternatively, if you don’t like the look of your labia and have the means to change it, go for it. It’s your body. As long as you’re doing it for yourself, not because someone on the internet told to or not to do it.
TrueDivision: Saying someone isn’t “man enough” because they won’t lick you isn’t really a great message.
Kovitlac: I think I’m more or less a type 6, but instead of my labia, what really makes me uncomfortable is the size of my clit. I never see pictures like this that look like me, because they always focus on the labia (I don’t mean this as a negative thing – more people should read this and embrace it). I just wish there was something more like me, though. All I see is ‘the clit is about the size of a corn kernel or pea’, and it makes me feel highly abnormal.
jitterybrat: I have one like the middle picture. I’ve never liked it but not enough to go mutilate my pussy lol.
just_some_guy65: I have had 15 partners and have always paid attention to labia because I love them and it may merely be a terminology thing but I don’t recall types 1,2,4 or 6 in the Cosmo link.