First MMF experience
So my wife and I met another guy at the club the other night, and ended up taking him home. I’ve always considered myself to be a straight guy, male bodies do nothing for me, but I think the gentleman in question was more interested in me than in my wife. There was some touching and kissing between him and I and I feel OK about it. I was probably doing it more because I liked him and wanted him to be having a good time as well as the wife and I, than through any really sexual desire.
We’re both (wife and I) keen for round two, and the gentleman in question is as well, but we’re a little concerned about the possibility for romantic attachment and possible sore feelings if there’s any rejection. On his part, not ours. He’s a bit younger than us and perhaps a touch more vulnerable.
Is it normal for straight guys to engage in a bit of same-sex stuff in these kinds of scenarios? Any other thoughts, questions or advice?
4ever_Lucky: Not really, sorry but i always make it clear in mmf situations not to touch me, it’s usually more about doing her together.
stomith: Who cares? Did you like it? Do you want to do it some more? Then do it more.
kittygloom: Sexuality isn’t a hard line between gay and straight. You may not be interested in men alone, but under the right circumstances (eg: both of you being with your wife), you are more interested in them.
Don’t worry about what people think is normal, just do what you want (with consent) and enjoy it.
As far as the emotional business, be honest with him when you’re not in bed. You enjoy playing wth him, but don’t want him to expect emotional intimacy outside of the bedroom. You and your wife are the main couple, and he’s a friend you would like to play with on occasion. If that’s not what he’s after, you understand if it won’t work out for him.
lulululuok: In my opinion, it’s fine. My soon to be husband adores me and my body but on the occasion he wants to mess around with a guy. Sex is sex. There’s nothing wrong with enjoying sex outside of women as long as you are open and honest with your wife about it (assuming she’d be okay with it)