Falling Asleep with PIV
Sometimes when my wife and I are kinda horny but also tired, we like to slip my penis in her vagina and just snuggle like that. Bonus points if we can fall asleep like that. She says she likes feeling the presence. she describes it as a nice ‘full’ feeling, and drifting off to sleep like that is extremely intimate.
Does anyone else do this, and do you have any tricks for keeping it in? How long have you kept it in?
We use a sort of spooning position. She lies on her back, and I slide under her near leg on my side and grip her far leg between mine. We kind of weave our legs together so we can pull our hips together.
We’ve stayed together for at lease a couple hours before. I don’t know exactly how long, because my penis can slip out after I fall asleep and it goes soft, though it can stay in there soft for quite a while if I’m careful. I don’t think I’ve woken up in the morning still inside her, but I’ve woken up in the middle of the night still in her.
Babygirllovesreddit: I haven’t ever fallen asleep with my partner inside me but we often after sex don’t pull out and just cuddle for a while, sometimes for quite a while
I think the key would be to be in a position that allows you to be relatively deep so that small movements won’t cause you to fall out.
Alternatively, you could try and stay as close as possible so you don’t move enough to fall out, maybe spooning with her back pressed into your chest and your legs tucked up to hers?
mistressraven13: Reminds me of the time an ex was drunk and insisted I get on top with him inside me and said it was the ultimate snuggle and then passed out 😉
BlueSky178: Done it before, miss it a lot. Feels amazing and primal, but I usually get soft and slip out before too long. Sometimes if she squeezes a bit she can keep me hard and in a little longer.
Yes, amazing. Yes, intimate. Don’t stop doin’ what you love 🙂
icequeen15: Reminds my of the lyric from Semi-charmed Life “how do I get myself back to/the place where I fell asleep inside you?”
hulahoop12: I take the opportunity for this anytime I can. Usually I am on top of my boyfriend and when we both have finished, I just collapse right down on him, so we are stomach to stomach and he is still inside. Our height difference makes it so that in this position my face nuzzles into his neck, and his big burly arms hug me there, while we both catch our breath and wait for out heart rates to return to normal. He will kick the blanket up over us from wherever it’s wadded at the foot of the bed, and we will just lay in silence for a bit, and it is so so nice. It never lasts all night though, because he is a human furnace, and is never able to fall asleep under the direct heat of another person and a thick, fluffy blanket. He likes to try and start another round, knowing that either it’ll work and I’ll start kissing him again, or I’ll roll away and suggest we shower instead. Either way, I gotta go…
gareity: Though it is great when this (*the sleeping part*) happens, I have to stress how easy it is to develop a UTI like this.
WayneCider: My wife and i do this a lot, and we start with this position:
The key thing is to keep moving a tiny bit, enough to keep hard and fall asleep. It’s sort of like rocking yourself to sleep
JustBoredAsFuck: My ex used to do this exact thing. It makes me feel so full and content. I miss it so much
odiwankenobi: Won’t she get a uti tho? My wife always pees right after sex to prevent them.
OracleTX: I call this soaking (heard it here) but can’t sleep this way. It feels so good we just start fucking.
yourbadinfluence: I’ve passed out like that with a girl due to pure exhaustion. Funny part was I was wearing a condom and due to going soft it stayed in there. We woke up many hours later and she said “where is the condom?” To which I said, “I don’t know”. And she replied “better get digging”. It became a running joke for a while. Yes I did find and remove it.
Glazed_Beard: Not knocking the OP one bit. Sounds very intimate really. But this reminded me of something that makes me chuckle!
Where I’m from young unwed Mormons call this “ soaking” because some how they justify it as not actually having sex because they’re not thrusting or moving just “soaking”.
kaleb_roberts: Use to do this all the time. Fall asleep while inside my ex. Best feeling ever, but always wake up soft. Can’t keep our dicks hard forever haha. Couple thrusts before dosing off always makes me feel very comfortable and relaxed haha
sagatiba00: My fiancée and me usually do that, too. Bonus points in that I’m sorta big even soft, so I don’t usually slip out of her during the night. Then sometimes I wake up with morning wood, and we resume fucking the first thing in the morning.
Lannister-Valkyrie: My dream relationship
knotmypresident: Male here- I fell asleep with a toy in once. Your wife is right- it feels comfortable. Also, sounds very romantic.
Silvialikethecar: I like how hot his penis feels inside. Like the actual temp. He falls out eventually.
Thataintright1: Yeah I do not do this. The reason: I get UTIs very often and this would most certainly fuck up my urethra or whatever. It does sound romantic though and I wish my husband and I could do it
Europaenceladus: Same as you. We do this all the time.
Big_Daddy_PDX: Just stopping by to say that’s a fantastic position to bring your girl off with a combo of PIV and clit play.
123spaceCadet: Um, yeast infections/UTIs?
reiseweiter: We do this in a spooning position from time to time but I can’t last more than half hour or so. So much fun.
nonrevliving: Well this gave me a good idea for tonight after dinner. Thanks OP!
supercooties: That sounds super awesome. But, when I was younger, I was absolutely *terrified* that this might happen by mistake and get me pregnant. I used to always put panties back on for that reason. Lol silly kids..
golfdude43: I had an ex that liked doing this. I think we always did it after sex. We would finish sex and I would start to take my penis out and she would not let me. We would spoon with me inside her and fall asleep. Was great, very enjoyable. The intimacy made it so great!
Drunkonsobriety: This is one of my all time fantasies
SEVA_BiSex23: Sounds like an adorable method of raising a girl’s chances of an oh so fun UTI!
seriouslydml55: One of my favorite memories with my boyfriend. I was on top and haha we both got heartburn so I layed down and he started spooning and grinding in me. I was able to slip him in and I remember him still being in me 6 hours later. I know I did kegals while asleep a bit and knowing he was inside me made me grind every so often when I was in the in between sleep and awake and back to sleep. We laugh about it now because we both toss and turn all night so it was a sheer miracle we did that. Lately I’m really big on him cumming so that’s why we don’t do it much but it’ll happen again I know.
Hank_fight_Hank: My girlfriend’s college roommate and her boyfriend passed out while having sex. They woke up the next morning with him stuck inside her.
Oden_son: I wouldn’t mind trying but I can’t sleep with a boner
xxusernamegoesherexx: My bf and I snuggle like this sometimes with the intention of going to sleep. We haven’t successfully just gone to sleep though, we’ll stay like that for a while but then… well, you know. 🙂
ezagreb: How the hell can you fall asleep like that ? I would be awake till sun-up.
H3racIes: Sounds like a good way for a uti. But also I kinda wanna try it lol
G0SHDARNSM0KESH0W: I always liked this idea but last time i saw something about it was a guy had gotten stuck because they had dried together over night. Is this not a concern?
usernamelame2: It’s called soaking
RedditFauxGold: Sadly I’m a grower and not a shower. This is for sure not in the cards for us 🙂
Girthydikk: My girl doesn’t want to do this because she’s scared of bladder infections.
IcedKamara: Don’t you ever just get kinda horny and start humping her though? I feel like it would be hard to fight that urge for me.
Sexy3SumCouple: All the time. My husband is on the large side(cock wise) so once he’s inside he doesn’t slip out easy especially if I’m tight against him. I absolutely love feeling him randomly get hard throughout the night.
b8as: Hahaha my ex and I call that position “the turtle”
firerulezz116: I think I once read something about injuries or potentially death that could be caused by falling asleep during intercourse… Then again maybe garbage but still.
serenity128: You can just fall asleep like that and not mind the blueballs?