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How to seduce your partner? HELP [19F]
This is a really noob question but I just need some ideas and tips on how to seduce my partner [19M]. If it wasn’t already clear, I’m the female.
I have a high libido but I lack the confidence to tease my partner because I’m scared i’ll look dumb or unsexy. HAHA. My partner is a bit of a clown so he tends to laugh at me (in any situation) and I’m worried that if I say something a bit weird then he’ll laugh and I’ll just feel rejected.
So, I would like to know your tips! Leading from small hints/teases to more sexy and confident ones. Here are some situations I tend to find myself in where I’d like to make my move.
– In the car whilst he’s driving, how can I ask for us to smash in the backseat without explicitly saying, “hey can we fuck in the car”
– Lying in bed together on our phones
– Movie theatre
– Those are the main three, any additional contexts are also greatly appreciated!
Thank you! From your awkward, sexually frustrated fellow redditor
eqthrowaway12: My go to is just lightly rubbing my boyfriends thigh and getting closer and closer to his crotch. I usually do circles lightly around. This works while in bed, while he’s driving, anywhere really. I usually don’t say anything other than “can you fuck me please” and that works 11 times out of 10
moshtradamus_: In the car: “hey, find somewhere dark to park” and put your hand on his thigh.
Movie theatre: sorry, no help here. I was never into that.
In bed on your phone: easy. Put your phone down and start kissing his neck. He should get the idea!
subbadubbdubb: If it makes you feel any better, I’m twenty-seven, and the only reason I can seduce my boyfriend is because he has a fetish for video game references.
BigFatMeatyDong: Can confirm something as simple as “i want you to fuck me” whispered in my ear would be more than enough lol
naive_guy24: Looked at your post history and read your post about the BF not being “communicative” and how he won’t say things like “I love you”. Because of that, I have a hunch it’s a bigger issue than just sex. You may need to see where he even sees this relationship going and if he wants a sexual relationship with you.
Source: I’ve been in a relationship and acted like your boyfriend. I didn’t feel we were compatible (she did) and I didn’t have the courage to break up. No amount of seducing could turn me on and I had to force myself to have sex.
nsfwsachen: A more general tip: Try to make him horny also in nonsexual cirumstances, e.g. my gf seems to always make sure to have her butt facing my way when she picks something up, so I have a nice view of her awesome legs and butt. Wearing skirts or hot dresses also helps. Maybe you should join him under the shower, whenever it is possible for you?
mydumydu: Same question but he is not my bf (cwl) I just feel so turning on when seeing him. 23F but still virgin cause I am not brave enough to hug him and tell him that I want to cuddle and make out T__T