Kept my foot fetish a secret from my wife for 2 years, finally I confessed and just had our best sex so far
Had her cum 3 times and had me satisfied the whole time. In the past whenever I wanted to indulge in my fetish I hesitated and put it aside. This put me out of the moment and my erections were softer. Now I feel free to be myself.
I encourage anyone that’s hiding a fetish from their significant other to reveal it as soon as you possibly can. HAVE THE COURAGE TO DO SO!
luckycharms4life: That’s awesome! Why did you hesitate and fear her opinion so?
I got hit on once by a guy with a foot fetish. It was very strange because he was hitting on my feet instead of me. As far as fetishes go though, it’s not creepy or weird. Just a thing.
dfedhli: I have a fetish for PVC. It took me a long time to get my nerves together to tell my then-girlfriend, but once I did we had such hot sex with PVC incorporated.
ryland52586: Told my very vanilla girlfriend that I enjoy giving facials. Surprisingly successful. Now she tells me to do it.
alligator10036: Yes!! I love seeing these threads! This is so relieving and exciting to experience, and it can be so, so fulfilling.
I was pretty open about most of my kinks with my partner for the years we had been together, but a couple of months ago I told her that I was turned on by braces. Fast forward a bit, I got a fake pair, and we incorporate them into our sex lives and sometimes our regular lives, and it feels so great to have that deep secret off of my chest! Also, I think it’s super hot.
mjcronic: Yaaay! That’s great.
I’ve slowly hinted to my fiancé that I am really sexually attracted to women. He is very understanding and letting me indulge. We’ve been looking for a woman for me for awhile now and hopefully one day it will lead to a threesome.
berralily: Female here with foot fetish and a lot “weirder” ones. Don’t hide it. Pls
Spoonbills: I’d be really angry if my partner hadn’t divulged an outright fetish — something important enough that he couldn’t get fully hard without it — before we married.
Nothing wrong with foot fetishes but what if it was something I absolutely didn’t want to participate in?! We’d just have mediocre sex for the rest of our lives?!
BluebloodOversight: That’s awesome! I had something similar recently. I’m pretty open about my kinks. But as a person I tend to be a tad jealous and possesive in relationships. So I always hid that I wanted a cuckquean type relationship because I felt like it was a double standard and I didn’t want to make my partner feel like they mean any less to me. Talked with the girlfriend about it and my troubles with it, and she’s been talking nonstop about wanting to watch me with other girls. She’s even made dating profiles to look for them for me/us. I couldn’t be happier. If you don’t communicate what you want you’ll never get it.
freebirdlabsdomestic: I never kept it a secret after charlie sheem said he was a fellow foot fetisht in rolling stone.
OogieDaMilkMan: I agree that fetishes should be discussed within the first 2 weeks of meeting someone. Get it all out from the beginning, no need to hide who you are to appeal to someone else.
vandelayarchitect: Good for you OP. I cant tell women and always hide mine. Hopefully it goes away (the fetish) lol. I dont want to risk a woman telling ppl im some creepy foot guy
AsAlwaysItDepends: I’m really happy for you, this is terrific! I hope you’ll remember to post in our Sexual Achievement Sunday thread as well : )
deadtank12: What do you do if you have told your wife your fetish but she seems like she’s too shy to act on it? Or she just doesn’t like it?
FilmNoirOdy: > I have a wife
PerfectChaos33: Oh god yes *please* discuss all fetishes before getting married. A foot fetish is a massive deal breaker for me and legit would result in a divorce. I can’t stand feet, they’re such a massive turn off for me. I can’t stand my feet being touched either.
Edit, hit post too soon. I’m really glad it worked out for you
personburger: That’s awesome! I’m really happy it went so well for you!
sliplover: Don’t think this is universal though. My wife don’t take too kindly to my fetish.
MotherFuckinEeyore: HAVE THE COURAGE>
Andypandy41: So a foot fetish is just sucking? What do you call it when he wants me to jerk him off with my feet? I don’t mind doing it. I think it’s cute that makes him hot.
keyserthedudesoze: So how did you include feet in your sex?