How long can most guys go without ejaculation!
I’m not talking about during a sexual encounter but just in general. 2 days , 3 days , a month , 2 months ?
Reason I ask is my bf and I had a baby about 2 months ago and we just had sex last night for the first time since.
He told me he has not masterbated since and God knows we haven’t had time to do anything.
I kind of believe him because I’ve never heard him moan that much and last about 90 seconds lol.
Is it possible for a guy to not ejaculate in 2 months?
Ps: not asking cause I’m worries he’s cheating at all. Just curious.
jspeake1016: I have held back every time my wife has given birth. May sound weird to some people but I watched what her body went through and it was way more traumatic than my sexual frustration. I didn’t want her to feel like she was neglecting me and after sacrificing her body I wanted that to be something we shared together after the healing process. So I just told her it was one way I could say thank you for giving up her body for me.
upplrallnsane1: Marine corps boot camp. Over 3 months.
deverixx: Personally about 12 hours.
NomadofExile: Easily if he’s still working and has added a new mom and baby to the mix. Dude probably lacks the time and energy.
mcqueen455: I went almost seven months last year. (Male chastity is my kink.)
MkLiam: Everyone is different. Generally for a man in his twenties if he goes a month without release, he will likely have a nucturnal ejaculation (wet dream). Its definitely possible he is being honest and just omitted telling you about the wet dream. I would have. Then again, I would also lie about masturbating if it was a point of contention.
…not a doctor.
R-M-F-T: It seems like a lot on here are saying that yes, it’s possible. I would have said no myself though. 33m and married 7+ yrs with her 12 yrs btw. I couldn’t tell you the longest I’ve been since I was about 13, but I’d guess 4 days. It’s tingly at 2, at 3 you’re pretty much thinking of nothing else in my experience. I don’t know how many folks have actually had wet dreams, but this is when they’ve happened for me. After a few days you wake up in the middle of the night and you’ve been jumping your mattress dreaming about sex. I certainly don’t know if that happens to everyone, but it happens to me.
TeemoSkull: Had a depressive episode. Lasted 8 months. Didnt ejaculate at all. To sad to do anything.
Cdub7791: Longest I’ve ever went…probably 2 months in basic training. No privacy and not a lot of energy left even if I had any. I don’t recall any night ejaculations, though I can’t swear they didn’t happen.
CeldonShooper: Sure it’s possible.
ExtraTerrestrial_: A few days. Then once the deed is done it’s back to square one and over in 30 seconds. Maybe that figure is rounded up too who knows.
Babybiowater: Him going that long sounds weird at first. But with a new baby maybe he’s just been to tired/stressed/not in the mood/not had the time. Maybe any alone downtime became reserved for naps or something.
DiamondSkyGuy: The longest I’ve ever gone is two weeks. And that was maybe once or twice in my life.
Morphchalice: I am the master of my domain.
rubbersidedown20: I went 10 days recently for my girl. That was hard. I edged a ton. She loves a full load. When the day finally came, I busted out quite a bit but it wasn’t much different from a 4 day load.
SSNikki: Ask the people that think not jerkin it gives you powers.
sev45day: Celibates exist.
mmmkayyeahallright: Of course it’s possible! It just depends on the man and his amount of willpower!
DaddysBoy75: How long have i gone? 4 days, maybe 5
Is it possible to go that long, sure if you’re constantly tired and/or stressed.
rugmuncher: It’s definitely possible. Check out some of the posts on r/edgingtalk, some of the guys there have gone upwards of 30+ days without ejaculating
Voladoras25: I went 6 weeks without in boot camp once before I caved but I’ve also went 3-4 weeks on several occasions
equalsdrpepper: I’ve can’t go 2 days
LearnsFromExperience: It’s possible to go your entire life (wet dreams notwithstanding). Not fun, but possible.
tahoerocky: About 5 min.
triple_seis: Couple weeks to a month.
Zambaktok: I went for 6 month this year
CheezusIsLard: After puberty, 56 days is the longest I’ve gone. My SO was away. It was just a couple months ago.
TizardPaperclip: Hah, yeah, I totally agree!
stevenotreallysteve: I get out of my head after one day, super horny after two days, and very rarely get past two days. I don’t think I’ve gone 4 days since before I discovered jerking off 30 years ago. If my wife knew how much I watch porn and beat off I’d be divorced. Maybe your dude is honest, or maybe he’s beating off like crazy and doesn’t want to tell you. Is he in the bathroom a little longer than you’d expect? Is his cellphone in there?… 🙂 Fap fap fap fap fap fap fap.
betweentwoaccents: 19 years
Didn’t know what rubbing one out was. I have no idea how i passed health classes in high school
petropunk: A week at most. I think when I went to camp at 13 I was able to hold off for the whole 2 weeks, but that’s the longest I can remember.
3 days is when it starts to become a struggle. For me, with the birth of both children I still couldn’t last more than a couple days, despite being busy and sleep deprived. There is nothing that stops it.
Anotherway2liv: Got a P.A. the piercer said to wait 45 days. I waiting 30. It’s possible.
SpiderLoc700: I went for 6 months when I was in jail. I was 20 and it was difficult, but I was in a two man cell for 21 hours a day. After a while I just stopped being horny. When I got out I didn’t even crave sex. But my at the time girlfriend came over and she got a mouthful.
IPBer21: A few days and I’m having wet dreams, it’s necessity to get off daily almost.
On a separate note; does anyone feel like after a few days of not getting off you become super aggressive, more flirtatious, and testosterone levels go through the roof?
Problem119V-0800: I don’t have a kid, but from watching several friends go through the first few months of parenthood, I can easily believe he was just too exhausted for the issue to come up.
PotOfGreed98: Yeah men don’t need to ejaculate like they need to eat or sleep. It’s an urge, and can be a pretty strong one, but plenty of guys make decisions not to, or just don’t get the chance for a while due to circumstances.
briens_road: > He told me he has not masterbated since
I find this implausible. I strongly suspect he’s been stroking the bed flute regularly but told you otherwise because he’s either embarrassed or to protect your feelings or both.
TheBlindBard16: If I’m trying? I could probably go a week, maybe two.
Healer4Hire: I know a dude who’s gone 4 months not doing anything
fulanoderock: I got a vasectomy, so technology my balls have not been emptied in over 2 years. So, we can last a long time!!
Diablo165: Without sex or masturbation, I’d say 1-3 months before wet dreams kick in.
Why is he not masturbating, though? If he can’t have 10 minutes to himself, you all need to make some adjustments.
On that note, how are YOU doing in the needs department?
warminstruction7: I saw a thread on r/sex from a woman who said her partner had a male chastity kink and wanted to go for 3 months without getting off. I read a lot of shit on here but that one totally blew my mind. I wouldn’t have thought it would be possible to go that long or there would be some negative health impact. I’d worry my balls would explode or turn purple or something. I don’t think I’ve ever gone more than maybe 7-10 days max since puberty and that would have probably been when I was crazy busy and stressed out.
Imatrippin: Yea we/ he could, but he didn’t, maybe not with someone but he jackedoff at least twice. He’s lying