If we could see everyone’s private thoughts about sex, what would we see?
I’m a 31F mum of two. I’m a professional, with a respectable job, lovely friends, great kids, a great husband. I’m very lucky.
But if you could see inside my head, OMG the stuff I think sometimes! About sex I mean. If you saw me on the train, you might see a serious-looking woman staring intently at her book… but inside me head I’ll be thinking what it would feel like sucking one guy while fucking another… or whether the guy opposite has a nice cock, and when he last had an erection, and whether he had sex that morning.
My husband knows what I’m like. We have a lovely sex life. But nobody else knows, except a couple of ex boyfriends from the long distant past. And I’d never really want to do most of the stuff I think about. I’m monogamous and faithful to my husband and totally intend to stay that way. (Sometimes especially on the way home on the train, I’ll fantasise in great detail about what I’m going to do with my husband that evening. I like making those ones come true!)
So I sometimes wonder, if we could see the private thoughts of everyone around us, would they all look like mine. Would we be really shocked? Or am I just more filthy than most??
I love this sub, so I figured I’d stop lurking and make an account to see if other people wonder this stuff too!
VeganGargoyle: If we could just know every bodies kinks then I think there might be a little less judgement, might also make finding working relationships a lot easier too
jayja010101: well Fiona I fantasies about fucking random women on my way home
Balthazar_rising: You’re definitely not alone…
I’m happily engaged in a loving, passionate relationship, and I have thoughts like these every day. Sometimes they’re about planning my next escapade with my finacee, other times they’re pure sexual fantasy – something that lives only in my head and will never become reality.
Sometimes, I’ll see someone with a specific feature. It can be the way she wears her hair, the shape of her body, or the colour of her eyes. Just that alone is often enough to get my fantasy started. I’ll imagine her bound on a bed, whilst I use that hair as a handle to aid my endeavours.
Maybe the shape of her body is enough for me to wonder about how she would look as I slowly strip her, exposing that body to the perusal of my eyes, hands and mouth.
Or I wonder how those eyes would look as they gaze up at me hungrily as this woman kneels in front of me, her mouth full and my pleasure entirely reliant on her skills and needs.
Of course, a lot of my time ISN’T spent fantasizing about other women, it’s spent planning how to pleasure my fiancee, and express the feelings I’m so bad at talking about in a way I’m most comfortable with. How can I give her greater pleasure, without pushing her limits too far, and in a way that will make her (that hair, that body, those eyes…) feel like the goddess I see her to be?
And of course, what do I want? How do I want her to reciprocate those feelings when she’s speaking in a language I understand best? Do I want her to eagerly race to orgasm with me, and both of us leap off that cliff in a writhing mass of sweat, fluid, tongues and sensation? Would I prefer to stand on the edge of this cliff, both of us holding each other back from total freefall into bliss. Or is it best to take her on a journey into our own bodies, neither moving deliberately towards that edge, but instead intent on every sensation – touch, taste, smell, sound, sight of each other as we slowly drift towards our goal.
PotOfGreed98: We would probably see a whole lot of what you described. Plenty of kinky fuckery, a bunch of vanilla stuff, some messed up stuff but also lots of sweet, wholesome, loving thoughts too.
And then there are the asexuals… That would be interesting to see.