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Why do I [19F] always have to ask for oral?
So I’ve been with ~9 or 10 guys. Not a single one of them has gone down on me without prompting. Most were willing to do it if I asked, and even told me they loved doing it(aside from one douchebag). But I always have to ask.
For me when I’m initiating sex, I almost always go down on the guy. I want to and it feels like an easy way to start foreplay. Sometimes they’ll ask and I’ll generally happily oblige. But what I want more than anything is for a guy to push me to the bed and rip my pants off and just go to town without me having to ask. It’s way sexier to know that he really wants my pussy.
I know I could communicate this issue with them, but some past issues with said douchebag ex has given me a lot of anxiety around receiving oral, so I worry they don’t initiate it because they don’t like doing it. And I feel like I don’t need to be asked to suck dick, they shouldn’t need to be.
I dunno, I hear about guys on here who adore eating pussy but I cant seem to find one, even with the older men I’ve fucked
sportamous: Make em lay down and 69 the hell out of them. Mash it in their face.
Trust me, I am a guy and we love that shit
TheOnlyJacko: You’re sleeping with the wrong guys
lua_x_ia: Given that you’re 19 and you’ve been with nine guys, I’m guessing these relationships were pretty short. As a guy you don’t usually start going for the vagina before you’re absolutely sure she wants you to, because if she doesn’t, it can quickly kill the vibe. When you’re more comfortable with your partner, you can do those things. IME, YMMV, etc.
love-to-lick: You shouldn’t have to ask, the men you have come across are selfish, guys who like to do it, just start doing it, no prompting or asking needed.
El_Mamut: Fuck, I hate sounding like a white knight, but if a guy has to be asked to give oral he’s a dick and you should reconsider being with such a ‘gent’.
…be like Uncle Junior!
Europaenceladus: Honestly, unless you have a super dense bush by hair follicle area or are actually stinky, I don’t see a reason why they would say no. I’ve experienced both. The dense thing was weird. Most people’s head hair isn’t that close. Anyway, those were the only two times I avoided it.
gamer_zzzz: Are these guys hookups or boyfriends?
You are only 19 so I assume your partners are around the same age, you mention they are respectful and attentive, but in the modern age of guys worried about being labeled a rapist if they do the wrong thing with a hook-up they might think they are respecting your boundaries and waiting for you to ask them to do it instead of just going for it without consent.
ABuzzedWhaler: They might really want to do it, they just don’t think you want to do it, because you didn’t ask. A good thing to remember with men, is that we don’t do things unless we’re asked or told to. Just look at the guys you’ve dated; they all enjoyed going down on you, they just didn’t know you wanted oral until you asked.
TL;DR women are psychic, men aren’t.
cheesychicky: My ex did it the first time we hooked up and this was the first night we had met and had the makings of a one night stand. Good guys like to do what will be enjoyable to women regardless of relationship status while asshats won’t do it even when you ask cause “it’s not the same”. My feeling is no dick in my mouth if you’re against going down, and even then I’d really just call it a day and dip out…
Runninonwater2: People are too greedy, but i think im too much of a pleaser and focus too much on what my partner Wants. I love going down on girls, last girl i was with loved going down on me but not if i go down on her.
My ex before her was the opposite.
It could be that they’re just too occupied eith one action/thought. So you guys are doing one thing and he’s very focused on you and the moment.
So maybe they don’t think about it.
But Yeah that sucks that they won’t do it spontaneously :/
But sometimes like during todays situation, i think people are more.careful with what you can and cannot do without having the consent first.
Asking is good, but in this situation you’re the one asking.them to go down on you.
But yeah, there’s bunch of stories where proplr won’t go down on the psrtner even tho they JUST received from them. Should be clear from the start if they didn’t wanna do it.
isabellebabyxo: I only have sex with men who go down on me you’re the gatekeeper to your body, time & energy.
aerotheone: Yup you have a taste for wrong guys. I lick my girl for as much time as I or she like. And that sometimes is an hour.
Sometimes I go down on her when she is in a telephonic Office meeting. Once in a while she sits on my face or chest and pulls my face in.
Actually if we were keeping score I give an oral way more than she gives me. But I love eating pussy. So no complaints.