I have a confession: I’m totally not a boob girl. I don’t mind having them grabbed or played with (go to town, J!), but the deed does not take me to Pleasuretown (and it never has).
That doesn’t mean I shouldn’t return the favor for my man though, says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., a certified sex counselor in Los Angeles, spokeswoman for the Experience Channel, and founder of the Loveology University. In fact, Dr. Ava says that “a guy’s nipples can be just as sensitive as a woman’s, even to the point of orgasm.”
Whoa. Nipple orgasms? Maybe I’m surprised because it’s never happened to me, but Dr. Ava has a great technique for getting there:
1) Squeeze your fingers together so that you raise your lover’s nipple slightly.
2) Begin licking the nipple with the tip of your tongue in circular motions.
3) After a few minutes of licking, pucker your lips around the nipple and suck gently, then more firmly with vacuum sucking motions. [Ed note: this sounds sort of like a nipple hickey!]
4) And if you or your lover like a little extra nipple stimulation (so rough that it has to hurt to feel good), try nipple clamps and satisfy your sensual BDSM fantasy.
OK, that certainly sounds easy enough. My weekend sex challenge for all of you and for J and me is to get you or your partner to have a nipple orgasm. Fun homework, huh?
Will you try Dr. Ava Cadell’s technique for nipple orgasms? I’m definitely down for trying it on J… and him trying it on me. Do any of you have sensitive nipples to begin with and orgasm just by having them played with? Am I the odd one out who needs a little extra attention down below to get there? Tell me everything! Oh, and if you’re interested in those, ahem, nipple clamps, Dr. Ava recommends The Shades of Grey Intermediate Kit. (You’re welcome.)
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