I’m 22, female, and am obsessed with the idea of a happy ending massage
Hi there, never posted before so I hope I’m in the right place. I have had a SERIOUS massage fetish for years now and I’m wondering if there’s anything I can do to relieve it.
I’m incredibly turned on by the idea of some sort of sexual interaction with a (male) massage therapist. I know that all (most?) massage therapists are extremely professional and hate the idea of happy ending massages, and I don’t want to be disrespectful or gross to them, but I honestly fantasize about this every time I’m turned on. I get that this is a valid profession and shouldn’t have any correlation to sex. I occasionally go to a male massage therapist who’s probably about 40 and not my type physically but I still always desperately hope he’ll try something.
I know there are “happy ending” massage parlors for men in practically every city in America but it seems there’s no such thing for women and I’m not sure how to cater to this fetish at all. I think the element of it being a stranger and risky is what I get off on, so massages leading into sex from my partners has been nice, but a totally different experience.
Maybe there’s nothing I can do but I wanted to put it out there anyway. If it matters, I’m 22 and female and considerably attractive. Any experience with this?! Am I just being ridiculous??
bittytits: I just commented on a thread the other day about how much I want to experience this. If you’re in the US, good luck.
The reason why I don’t want to ask a friend or find a stranger willing to do it is because I don’t want to reciprocate in any way. A male friend or stranger is going to expect me to blow him, or do something sexual with him. I want it to be 100% about me and my pleasure, and I would pay good money to make it happen with a professional. It is a HUGE fantasy of mine as well, so maybe one day.
rubmetugme: check backpage.com for your locale. Look under “body rubs” or “massage.” Where I live, there are men who specifically advertise this service.
notaseacucumber: Find a friend with benefits and ask him to give you a happy ending massage.
50-50king: luckily for you there are tons of people out there who wouldn’t mind helping you out with this, if you decided that you actually wanted to try it out of course. Hell save you’re money I’ll do it for free xP
In all seriousness, what exactly would be the female version of a happy ending?
neversiempre: Next vacation, Bangkok.
imp_of_santa: You could post on /r/dirtyr4r. I cannot imagine you’d have much trouble finding someone to do it for you.
fountainofhap: Just want to say this is also one of my top fantasies (I’m female in my thirties). I’ve had a couple of experiences with this, OP feel free to PM me if you want to know more.
whiskey_pants: They have this. It’s not everywhere, but it’s yoni massage. I have no idea if it’s easy to find or if many men do it. The ones I know of are women, and they are treating it medicinally, like part of the overall massage to unlock your chakras, etc.
yankeetider1: I know it would take courage but I bet any straight guy would jump at the chance.