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My high sex drive might be a problem? F32
My sex drive is through the roof. I’ve always had a decent sex drive. But it’s reached a new level and it’s causing issues. I’m about to hit my fertile window and it’s so bad. I could probably spend all day having sex and I’m afraid it may not satiate the desire. My DH is more than happy with once a week and right now if I’m not doing it once a day I have a hard time sleeping, to the point of if I go three days without I for sure will not sleep at all that night. I’ve been trying to handle it by myself at times but it doesn’t satisfy me nearly as much as PIV. I’ve thought about going cold turkey to see if it helps with lowering it, but I’m a Mom and need my sleep! So I get to day three and literally am losing my mind. I’m definitely not wanting to engage in intercourse with anyone else, or even thinking about it. I just want my husband. But he is feeling forced? Especially when it’s a night where I can’t sleep. Like he thinks ‘oh great wife can’t sleep so we HAVE to have sex’. I don’t want it to be like that. I also make sure it’s not like I’m just using him to get myself off. The sex has been good, I do lots of foreplay focused on him. Add in lots of loving touch and kissing. Is this something I should go see my dr for if its causing issues with my sleep? Anyone been in a similar situation?
I’ve been working out and losing weight. I feel like those aren’t helping and increasing my libido but am not willing to stop.
n0mad26: Have you bought some toys to help simulate it more. Not as good as the real thing, but could help
xnotacatx: I totally understand! My husbands medications have nuked his sex drive and i’ve always had a super high sex drive so it’s caused a lot of issues. The only way I could keep myself satisfied was to buy an assortment of toys.
whiskey_pants: Is your husband similar aged? Once a week at 32 might be cause to just get a hormone panel to make sure he isn’t having any issue there. I do get it though, that not all people have a high libido, but I would think most healthy people in a good relationship with a giving partner *could* do 3x a week at the 30-35 range.
Do not feel bad. I am older than you, a mom, and feel the same. Sometimes I even feel like that right after sex, even with an O. I feel like I am never totally “done”. I figure it’s fine. My hormone panels are always fine. I’ve always had a high sex drive and age hasn’t done anything to slow it, if anything, it’s amping it up.
WayneCider: I have a somewhat similar problem with my wife, but she can’t have sex as often as I want because of soreness issues. We do it for around two hours a day and her pussy is constantly sore. Rather than trying to curb your libido, can you figure out ways in which he would want to fuck you more often? Like replacing one addiction for this?
chancellor-II: Can you consider perhaps having an affair with a younger male who’s also in the leak of their sexual drive? This might be a little unethical but one could argue that you only live once and sometimes you don’t want to be a 80 year old grandma living with regrets? I feel sometimes in life you have to be selfish once.
DefenderRed: Has he been tested for low testosterone? 3-4 times a week sounds entirely doable. I think you may be going through a peak horny period in your life. I’ve heard that a woman’s sex drive can peak or shoot through the roof in her 30s before declining towards menopause. My wife is experiencing the opposite, I’ll be lucky if we can be intimate once every three months. We’re two kids in now, youngest is 7 months old. So I’ve just been hanging back, not getting pushy, and letting her decide when the time is right.