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What is the fascination with older women?
I am in my late 30’s, but pass for mid-20s and am not really hung up on age. I’ve dated above and below my age. It’s the meat and soul and passion of the person that draws me in. That being said, my recent foray into dating has been eye-opening. I hadn’t really dated for a long time (was in a long-term relationship that is no longer in existence) before recently. What I’ve found is that I’m goddamn catnip for guys in the 18-25 range, and it’s somewhat baffling. (I could say the same about married and/or attached people who aren’t in open relationships, but that’s a vent for another day.) What is this about?
deviantpixel: Experience is sexy
n0mad26: Older women know how to fuck, know what they like and don’t like and are past most of the hangups younger women tend to have.
cleverbutnotoverlyso: I think it has to do with the sexiness that comes with confidence.
I’ve bedded younger women who fancied themselves as sexual dynamos; and while they looked good, they seemed to be going through the motions.
Women 35+ simply A. Know what they want and B. Aren’t afraid to do it/get it/feel it/tell you what they want.
MDJollyBootsofdoom: Can’t speak for others but I was looking for a woman with her shit together.
I had my own apartment, a job, a car, and a license. Precious few of my peers had that when I was 18-21. So I always dated older women, less drama, less bullshit, I didn’t always have to be her ride and pay for everything. It’s nice to date someone who is actually your equal. My wife is 12 years older than me we’ve been together 7 years and I’ll be 29 in a couple weeks. Our son will be 2 a couple days after that. So maybe it’s that, maybe it’s Milf porn, maybe you’re just cougar material.
YourFavoriteX: It’s likely a number of factors that could independently or together drive a younger guys interest:
* Confidence and self acceptance, there’s a lot less insecurity as age goes up.
* Experience. The ease of having a more capable partner helps take performance pressure off. They might be looking for some level of teacher, top, domme, etc as well.
* Simplicity. Most of these aren’t geared toward relationships and have minimal chance of morphing into one, unlike interaction with similar age groups.
* Taboo. People tend to build fetishes outside accepted norms, the reverse age gap relationship is one of them. This is fed too by a lot of stepmom/milf porn.
MattatouilleUK: Older women know what they are doing and in the right circumstance come to appreciate a younger man who can pay more attention to them physically where an older man may have waned slightly.
Also, this is gross in a way but some men like to be mothered and an older woman can be comforting in an almost motherly sense.
purpleflowerowl: Maybe they hope you will teach them?
meltallica82: I’d say it’s got a lot to do with experience and lack of drama. Women around that age, which I am one of, seem to generally have their shit together.
DrFrenchkiss: When I was in my early 20’s I was constantly hit on my older women. What fascinated me is what they saw in me. I really enjoyed them because the girls my age were mostly starfish, with a few crazy exceptions, so I always said yes to older women. When I got past 40, I found myself being hit on by younger women which was really a nice compliment. So this begs the question, ‘what is it with older men? Like you, I enjoy the person, so perhaps I was more mature for my age back then and I really liked just being with those older women, physically and intellectually.
ScorpioLoverboy: Is this online or in person? Both? If in person, maybe they just think you’re younger than you are. If online, maybe they’re looking for casual sex and they know odds are, all they’ll ever be with someone significantly older is a casual hookup. So there’s no feelings involved (obviously there are times when it’s more than that, but in general, that’s what it is).
When I was 18, I would kill to be with a woman in her late 20s or early 30s. The idea of a more mature, experienced woman showing me how to please women would have been beyond hot. But I’m 29 now so girls in their 30s are just girls my age lol. The mystique is gone. I’ll obviously still date them, but there’s no novelty or kink involved in it.
Curiouscplstl: To me women don’t get attractive until they are about 25. By then they have learned to dress for their bodies, not overdo make up, and jump on every fad that comes along. And mostly sexuality stems from confidence.