I’m ashamed last night I left the bed all wet
Last night I was having sex for the first time with this pretty clean obsessed guy in his bed and we noticed how much i wet the sheets. When we were done there was literally a big wet stain in the bed that obviously made it to the mattress.
It was pretty awkward because we had to change sheets, clean with a tissue and blow dry the stain.
What can I do to prevent this?
Please_Wave: Put a towel down, guys like wet sex it means he did a good job dont let this bother you.
SCphotog: This isn’t a negative… or at least it shouldn’t be. If you get extra wet… that’s a nice plus for at least ‘most’ guys.
Makes us feel like you’re turned on, and that’s definitely a common theme among men for what they might like most from a partner in the bedroom.
If you’re getting the mattress wet… put down a towel. No big deal. Have fun.
TheElectricBodySings: Don’t be ashamed. That’s a good thing!!! Fold a towel in half and put it under you. Easy peasy.
SalsaNoodles: I understand feeling embarrassed but I don’t think this is something you SHOULD feel ashamed about. If you were that wet, you had a good time and enjoyed yourself…a lot. As everyone above has said, try a towel and also communicate with future partners that you have a history of squirting so they’re prepared for it. Trust me, there’s nothing wrong about being that wet.
ManFromDowntownTDot: Oh god, don’t be embarrassed. This should almost be a point of pride for you.
Every woman is different. Some women, even at their most aroused state may require lube for proper penetration that is comfortable. Where-as, other women will gush like a bucket of water being dumped out. I’ve seen it all, hell, I had one woman squirt so vigorously she literally hit the wall about 10′ away. That in itself was fucking impressive and we laughed our ass off about it when we realized afterwards.
1. Go get a waterproof mattress cover. They’re like $40 on amazon. It’ll not only protect your mattress from getting soaked from YOU, but also if you spill anything else on your bed. Totally worth the investment.
2. Don’t worry. The fluid that comes out of you is entirely benign. It’s effectively odorless, doesn’t stain and washes out of anything easily. It’s more or less water.
3. If you’re worried about taste, especially if it happens when a partner is performing oral sex on you, don’t worry. It’s really tasteless, more or less warm water that’s a tiny bit sweet.
4. Don’t even BEGIN to entertain a partner who’s grossed out by it. If someone begins to make off colour comments about how wet you get, that’s the end of that. DO NOT LET IT GET TO YOU. They are just immature.
So, what happened? Well, chances are you were far more aroused than usual. You said he’s a lot older. Chances are he’s more experienced with how to pleasure a woman, maybe even in ways you didn’t know about yourself. He may have been stimulating your G-Spot which is a common way that women will get overly wet, even squirt out liquid.
If you’re having a G-spot orgasm, you can expect it to be like nothing you’ve had before. I’m a male so I’m really not the best person to describe it, but you can surely read from other women what it’s like from the female side, what your body feels like, etc. From a male perspective, it’s wonderful. If I can bring a partner to a g-spot orgasm, it makes me happy. It means she’s (likely) comfortable enough with me and I’ve created an environment for her where she feels safe truly letting loose, and that in itself is something every woman should feel in their sexual encounters.
Give yourself a pat on the back. You’ve done good, lady.
conflicted_brain: I’ll second the suggestion to keep a towel nearby or underneath you. It definitely comes in handy! And I wouldn’t worry about getting so wet. The wetter, the better!
lovetowatchthembounc: So, you squirted???
Don’t be embarrassed! Find someone who enjoys the wetness. Don’t suppress such a fun skill!!!!
Bruised_Shin: The towel down is a big help, and they even make special sex towels specifically for this situation.
If the partner you’re with makes you feel like you should be embarrassed or ashamed then they are not the right person for you. My girlfriend also acted a little embarrassed at first but once I reassured her that this is not an issue then she was able to relax and have even more powerful orgasms. Never hold back!
JustAGuyOnTheNet__: hell I’d be more than happy if that happens, nothing wrong with that 🙂
Derek7_3F350: My girl literally squirts fountains of liquid. We soak the sheets all the time. I personally love it and I dont mind having the extra laundry.
nof8_97: That’s very normal, rock paper scissors for who has to sleep on the wet spot lol
throwaway90870: Am… Am I the only one that feels like this is a subtle brag?? I mean seriously good for you
alphaoccident: Nothing- avoid anal retentive dochebags
You are good to go.
Nousernamemyfriend: Just get a pad you put down that’s water proof. We have one we use for him going down on me and sex. I think we purchased an incontinence pad for a bed, but It works well because it’s comfortable, easy to wash, and one side is waterproof.
outtasightouttamind0: Been with that type of dude and moved on. He would also “tell” me to go rinse my mouth out with mouth wash after I gave him head, because he didn’t want to kiss me until I did. So we literally stopped during our encounter for me to rinse my mouth out. Nope.
RusskiBayonet: A dude who’s not ready to get his bed wet isn’t ready for sex.
DO NOT be ashamed. What happened it totally normal.
Shamalamadindong: There are sex blankets for this purpose.
ireasearch: I sometimes squirt during sex as well. I don’t like the mess and the stupid grin the guy gets thinking he did something wonderful. I would much prefer to cum instead.
I don’t know if it is preventable, I would like to know how to prevent it as well. However, I have a waterproof mattress cover and I sometimes put a towel down all the same.
OrangejelloBotanista: Probably not much else that I could say that hasn’t already been said. Trust me. This is common. And it is a huge turn on for most folks.
LetMeAxYou: Waterproof mattress pads ftw.
Spankbank6989: Date a guy who isn’t a pussy. A lot of men love that stuff. I’d be proud to have to clean a mattress because a woman got hot enough to soak it.
NotCoder: I get wet no matter if it’s gentle or vigorous sex. And you know what I own it! I prefer to be wet and turned on than dry and in pain. He probably doesn’t care, next time use a towel and if you are so worried about what he thinks. Then say “ ooops my b, guess I was turned on a little too much”
Instantly is an ego boost for the giy plus you look sexually confident and get the reassurance you want
Slashbolt_69: First of all put down a towel to catch the mess. Secondly was it your juices that caused the mess or did he cum inside you and it leaked out? If it’s the latter it might be possible for you to hold the semen inside you and go elsewhere to release it.
Nevada_Brando: Find a guy who doesn’t mind washing his sheets.
wealth18: Don’t be ashamed! You squirted ..it’s all good and definitely something to be proud of. Start seeing if you can control it …you can play some fun naughty games 😉 in the meantime, as someone else suggested – get a mattress cover ..good luck!
engr77: I refuse to believe anyone that is “obsessed with cleanliness” when they don’t have a fscking mattress cover. Mattresses are like giant sponges, and my skin crawls just thinking about the time I’ve woken up sweaty for various reasons. With the cover, the sheets are forced to soak it all up, and you toss those bitches in the washer, no problem.
Without it, you get to sleep in accumulating body filth of various types. That blow dryer isn’t really gonna do much.
That being said, worry about containing the wetness. Don’t try to not get wet.
AlfredJFuzzywinkle: Get a big soft multicolored beach towel. We use a special one called “the red towel of courage” for use when she’s hornet and on her period.
theresamoonoutthere: Next time you see him tell him “You get me so wet” He’ll be the happiest camper. Don’t be embarrassed.
xXtheyetiXx: That dude is crazy. He should of wrapped himself up in it. That’s a good thing!
Littlestar1979: Is this really an issue? My husband and I say “you know it was really good sex if you have to change the sheets after.” Hell a few times we have had to use the shop vacuum to get all the “wetness” off the mattress just to sleep. If no wet spots then he will question if I really enjoyed it and to be honest those are the times that it wasn’t all that. If he has an issue with it then he needs to either get over it or go find a girl that is boring and doesn’t like to have great sex.