Can I get some period sex tips?
Hey I’m 19 year old male and my GF is on her period, since I am not grossed out by blood and want to make her feel good we decided we’ll have sex while she is still bleeding.
So, I need some advice on how to do it without making too much mess and how to make her feel good.
The problem wouldn’t be PIV sex but oral sex and getting her “warmed up”, so I need some tips with that as well.
I was thinking about doing it in the shower (easier to clean) but maybe blood is not so hard to clean from the sheets so I’d prefer it on the bed as shower is kinda difficult (she needs to warm up in missionary first, which is impossible in the shower).
Thanks in advance!!
kittysub: Got an old, raggedy towel somewhere? That’s your new friend. I wouldn’t suggest doing it just in the sheets as it will stain them.
You can still do oral with someone on their period. Just, be aware of what’s involved there. You may want to use that towel to give the area a little wipe, or take a quick shower before hand so things stay a little neater. That being said, arousal is as much mental as physical for a lot of women, so soft caresses and making out could do the job just fine as well. Menstrual blood also does surprisingly well to keep things slick.
Props to you for being so willing. Far too many men are way too squeamish about menstrual blood.
samicita: I would just focus on foreplay without vagina touching, kissing, nipples, etc. then move to the shower.
Also, period sex isn’t usually as much blood as people think. Just put a towel down if you’re scared of blood on the sheets.
SquishyButStrong: Ask her to shower first and use her fingers or a toy to clean out all the blood that is in her vaginal canal. Just reach inside and swirl her fingers, wash off the blood, and repeat. No douching or anything.
Assuming she isn’t bleeding very heavily (and she should know if it’s a heavy day or not), doing this will give you 1-2 hours of essentially blood-free pussy.
Basically this negates her period. You can go down on her without issue and fingering should be okay (maybe a tiny bit of blood, but nothing worrisome). Then use a condom for PIV for easier clean up. Throw down a thick, dark towel to catch any mess so it doesn’t soak into your mattress.
anonnymouse1: You can have sex with a [softcup] in! If she cleans up really well beforehand and pops one in just before you start it should be fine for oral too.
sandybeachclam: You need some dark towels. I get them at a thrift store like Goodwill. Keep them on hand for just this occasion.
Put them under you and save one for cleanup. Shower before and after probably.
Enjoy the ride on the red river !
bke52: It’s not as complicated as you think. If my flow is heavy, I might shower or wash up a bit first, but depending on your GF’s flow, it might not be necessary. If I know I will be having sex, I don’t use a tampon beforehand because they soak up the natural lubrication along with the blood.
If my flow is heavy, I put down a towel to save the bedsheets, but it’s only necessary in missionary position. If blood does get on the sheets (or to wash the towel) just wash as normal in COLD water and the blood won’t stain.
After penetrative sex, I usually bleed more heavily, so post-coital oral sex can be a bit bloody. If you try it, a towel is usually a good idea. Oral sex as foreplay isn’t as messy and you don’t need to do anything special.
Be careful about thrusting really hard or deep until you know if it will be comfortable for her. During menstruation, the cervix can be kind of tender and it swells a bit, so it can be easier to hit it, which is painful. But this is not usually a big problem, just something to be aware of.
Shotine: A towel and a shower.
bmichellecat: There’s going to be a mess regardless, but if you don’t right there won’t bad MUCH of a mess.
If you’re going missionary on the bed, but her on bottom and lay a towel under her, I suggest a condom too if bloody dick isn’t you’re thing.
As for oral, have her wear a tampon. Watch the string and you should be fine.
Period sex is a love it or hate it kind of thing
enjoyoutdoors: Get her on top of a towel. One you don’t have any emotional bond to, so that stains are a non-issue.
But, yes. Shower is a good idea. If she ie anything like my wife, she will feel dirty (in a bad way) while on her period. The shower helps with that. And if you got a bath sponge, it shouldn’t be a problem to get her warmed up. Gently and steadily.
Some women are very, very sensitive while on their period. With lack of better knowledge I would say that her body is not really interested in getting aroused. So bring out the considerate lover in you. She might need it.
DeepFascination: Towel. T-shirt. Take your boxers off and put them under her. No problem.
As far as getting her warmed up, if you’re going down on her, blood won’t be coming out of her clit, so if you don’t want to get blood in your mouth just concentrate on that. Generally speaking it’s not as though she’ll be spouting blood anyway. I know some people are grossed out by it but a lot are not–if you’re on the fence, just think of it as her getting wet but in another color.
Same goes with fingering her: if you’re not just playing with her clit and want to put some fingers inside her, cool. If you get some blood on them… wipe them off? (On the towel, t-shirt, whatever?)
You’re golden. Don’t worry about it, enjoy yourselves. Period sex is no grosser or weirder than everyday non-period sex.
CaptianRipass: Stick her with the pointy end..