Is there a way for me [F] to get comfortable and make oral more appealing to my boyfriend?
Boyfriend never goes down on me. He no longer offers (he did a few times when we first started dating). I even enjoy giving oral, but my boyfriend has never been into it. He wants to go straight to PIV before i can really get into sucking him off.
I realize I will never have pornstar pussy, but are there any tips for making things look appealing down there? How to bring it up? Also how to get comfortable during receiving (I think my awkwardness during the very few times I’ve gotten oral turned him off to it).
This is not a deal breaker for me but it would be nice to get oral every once in a while.
lusthammer: Personally, it is a lot more enjoyable for me when it’s hair free, or at least neatly trimmed. Stubble can cause a rash really fast, so upkeep there is important. Also general hygiene, keeping it clean. And the other factor is making sure you respond positively…moaning, squirming, gentle head squeezing between your thighs…these things will ensure that I stay down there as long as you want because I sense that you are loving it. If he still doesn’t want to, that’s just a shame…he’s missing out.
talkinboutfuckin: It has nothing to do with how things look, trust me. Some guys are into it, some aren’t. Tell him you’d like to do more foreplay than he’s giving.
thr0wawayeeeee: hygiene and hydration so smells and tastes are coo
OG_Basquiat: All of you are ridiculous, if you shave, cool
If you don’t, cool.
Don’t let any man ever tell you that you’re more attractive shaven bare, if he don’t shave or trim to meet you halfway fuck all that. He really just might not be into it or (a reach here) not into you for more than just bedding you. Oral is a very intimate thing and for some men it’s like a taboo that I’ll never understand. For a guy, getting his dick sucked is like part of the deal when you go in the bedroom, returning the favour is a toss up in some situations. Talk to him about it and see if he’s even into it we will offer or say whatever to get in the pants
Coin3572: If you want to shave there, do it. But as for oral, it just might not be his thing. The easiest way out of this, I’d to bring it up in conversation. Don’t ask him to eat you out. Ask if he has anything g again at it, that you enjoy him doing it, and want to know if there’s something you could do to help him out. Don t go in aggressive or accusatory. Something along the lines of (but far more eloquent) “hey, so I enjoy you eating me, and I’ve noticed you haven’t done it for a while. I’m not pushing, but do you not enjoy it, or is there something I can do to help?”
I don’t know your position. If your both younger it might be a case that he doesn’t realise how this is effecting you, so again talking about it is the best thing for the both of you.
4throwaway53: As listhammer said above is correct just to piggy back his comments ……….wax/shave …….scrub the hell out of it with a washcloth/soap etc etc……… and make sure your freshly showered if possible beforehand