Or, as normal human beings tend to call it, “titty-fucking.” Here, one man and one woman get candid about our idiosyncratic sexual custom of fucking the titties.
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Who did you do it with?
Man A: A handful of ex-girlfriends. Actually, almost all of them. The only recent one that I didn’t try it with was a generally chilly person and I figured I’d rather have a nice evening than broach it. If it requires like a 20-minute explanation, I’d recommend waiting until you’re more comfortable with the lady you’re doing stuff with. Because there’s nothing sexier in the world than having a logistical, video game-style walkthrough before performing a sex act.
Woman A: I’ve done it with various people — my husband included. I kind of think it’s a neat little visual trick during foreplay, pre-BJ. Not to completion per se, but like, framing a penis in between your two breasts for a little as a teasing mechanism. That’s one form of titty-fucking in my mind – getting in between a guy’s legs and basically caressing his penis with your breasts. But there is also the titty-fucking that entails a man essentially straddling your chest when he’s about to come during sex, grinding his penis between your breasts, and subsequently coming on your breasts, which I have also done, but not so frequently. Again, did that with my husband and maybe another guy?
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How often do you do it?
Man A: Definitely not every time I have sex. And definitely not within the, like, first three times of having sex with a person. But this is not a terrible sixth date activity, like going to an outlet mall.
Woman A: I’d say … maybe 25 percent of the times I give a beej, I’ll do the titty-tease. As for him coming on my breasts, not very often. Twice annually? (Haha.)
Is there any convincing that needs to be done, usually?
Man A: I can’t remember a time where that would have been necessary, but I’m never in a position where I’m “totally going for it” or anything. Usually this comes at the point in the relationship where potentially more embarrassing/degrading stuff has already happened to one of us in sessions prior.
Woman A: I know that my manfriend likes to glance down and have the visual of his penis in between my breasts, and it doesn’t bother me too much, so, not really. As for tittyfucking and coming on my boobs, you know this is going to require a post-sex shower, so it’s not something I’m offering up too often. But occasionally, as a fun treat, you can say, “I really want you to come on my breasts,” have him do so, and they get a kick out of it. It’s novel, I guess.
Why do guys like it so much?
Man A: I don’t know, maybe because boobs are awesome? And guys want their dick near the stuff they find awesome during sex. This is not a logical activity. It’s not grounded in a larger outcome or endgame. Balloons do not drop from the ceiling as sometimes happens with vaginal penetrative sex.
Woman A: Honestly I think it’s very simple and animal and elemental — guys love boobs and they love their dicks. To see those two things physically coming together and resulting in orgasm is an exciting idea and visually, can be a festival for the eyes.
How is it different/better than just coming on someone’s breasts? Is that a dumb question
Man A: It physically feels good. It’s like a non-pointless hand job. It’s also a mini-compliment. “Hey, your boobs are great, and I’m clearly into it, and they’re big enough so we can pull this off, you and I together, from one lover to another, uh-huh.” Everything in that quote is the chorus to Islands in the Stream, right?
Woman A: Traditionally I think of titty-fucking as essentially smushing your boobs together to jerk off a man’s penis, in the simplest terms. Whereas him coming on your breasts might mean he pulls out and just comes on your breasts real quick, without the titties actually “fucking” him.