FINALLY!!!! First AWAKE orgasm of my life! (I’m freaking 34)
So it’s basically in the title but this is HUGE!! I’ve posted before that I’ve had orgasms in my dreams, several of which lasted into waking up, and they were pretty amazing. There have been 3 times in my life when this has bothered me and I’ve actively tried to achieve orgasm through every method I could find advised online. It’s never worked and then for years it doesn’t bother me, and then suddenly it does, so I try again, repeat. There’s nothing I haven’t tried: toys, oral, masturbation, relaxation techniques, EVERYTHING. And no dice.
So I ordered a new vibe online, and it got here over the weekend. I finally got enough alone time to really try it and at first, it felt like every other time I’ve tried. I finally got there because I decided to push through the times I normally gave up. There are 2 sensations that have caused me to give up in the past: 1. feeling like I’m about to pee and 2. Feeling like the sensation is “too much” while it also feels like it isn’t going anywhere.
I put down a towel and decided to ignore if it felt like I was going to pee and I also decided I would just keep going when I get that too much feeling.
I’ve done it 3 times now and I don’t know if this is normal, but I don’t really like the feeling right BEFORE the orgasm. I LOOOOOOVE the orgasm (they’re even better than my dream ones), but the “too much” feeling right before is unpleasant to me. It’s like 10 seconds or so and I really don’t like it, then BAM: Blisssssss. Does anyone else experience that?
Tl;dr: finally had orgasm after YEARS of trying, didn’t like the feeling immediately prior to orgasm, is that normal?
Malewiththoughts1: I’ve always heard, and been told that many women that female ejaculate feel like they’re going to pee just before they cum/Squirt.
Supposedly you are supposed to ignore that feeling and keep going… not sure about the unpleasant feeling before though…
BUST OUT THE BAND! BREAK OUT THE CHAMPAGNE!
SquidwardsLef10tacle: Congrats!! 🙂
I understand the “too much” feeling, I used to get that when I first started masturbating. And it was like that for a little while even after I got my first orgasm, but I think I just got used to it as I don’t even think about it now. And I guess I could see how it might feel similar to sort of an urgent need to pee.
neuenono: That’s awesome! Can I ask what type of vibe it was?
lucielightsfire: When having an orgasm from clitoral stimulatation I usually experience a really intense and hot build-up that feels super good. I thought this was the only way to orgasm for me. However, I recently played with a vibrator for the first time, penetrative. I experienced the same feeling you had, the urge to pee, and a super intense feeling, which didnt feel super good, and very different from a clitoral build-up. So I wasn’t sure to continue, did it anyway, and ended up squirting. I thought the clitoral orgasm did feel better though.