F24, An uncontrollable wave of horniness.
I have period of times when I’m not horny or desire sex/masturbation at all, and times when I feel so horny that I need something NOW.
For example, when I was in college I remember I went into the bathroom and masturbated in one of the stalls in the middle of the day because I got so horny.
At my old job I had my own office and I’d watch porn and masturbate fairly often.
The worst part is that even though I’m in a relationship I get so horny sometimes that if my bf doesn’t want to have sex I go to sext strangers online. It’s fucked up but I can’t really feel guilty about it because to me it’s solely sexual and my feelings are still with him: Which is not fair because for him it wouldn’t be chill and I know it.
It doesn’t help that I’m so kinky and have the wildest imaginations so just one masturbation session isn’t enough when I’m in that state.
Is this normal? Do I need to seek help?
Super-Chick: You obviously have a higher sex drive then him so I think you should tell him your experiences and discuss future solutions to deal with this.
dtf203: Some people have very high sex drives. I understand your situation. Some people can also separate sex from love. Thus your ability to sext strangers online while till having feelings for BF. It is normal, at the extreme end, but still normal.
(1) Ignore the horniness and just live with it.
(2) Ask for an open relationship
(3) tell BF you need more sex
whatbreadmakesyoufat: Just want to question how you think sexting other guys isn’t a bad thing here…
Mentalfloss1: I’m a guy and have often needed to masturbate at random times in order to relax or to concentrate.
LongDickMike: Wats up with me and u then lets hook up ill fuck the hell out of u all night and lick every drop of ur juices luvr we suffer from the same horniness call or text me 6027338342