[F24] wants to orgasm from penetration
My boyfriend [M24] and I have a wonderful sex life. Sex every day, usually multiple times. He goes down on me every time to get me off and he is great at it, my orgasms are super great. But I just want to be able to orgasm from PIV. And we are just trying anal so I’m open to suggestions on that too.
I’ve read countless articles on how to orgasm from PIV and I just haven’t figured it out. Penetration feels great but just never gets me there. We have a couples vibrator like the we vibe and that doesn’t do it for me but I haven’t experimented with it much.
So ladies, what does your man do that gets you there for PIV or anal? Or guys do you have tricks that you notice work every time??
erodream: Try the Coital Alignment Technique (CAT). Ever since I learned about it, I’ve had the good fortune of being with a few ladies who have managed to orgasm from missionary, some who have said it never happened before. It’s not a huge adjustment, but it can make a HUGE difference. It adds some intimacy and closeness that you may not get in other positions.
shyqueenbee: I’m exactly the opposite — I can almost always orgasm from penetration but rarely without it (in some form, fingers, toy, etc.) Have you had trouble with finding your g-spot? That’s *definitely* one thing that will get me orgasming quickly, whether it’s being stimulated from the front door or the back. But at the end of the day, everyone’s body is different, so if it doesn’t happen, don’t sweat it! It sounds like you guys already have a great sex life 🙂
Kit4000: Do you mean completely without clitoral stimulation? I can come during PIV by grinding against my husband.
Wish I had some advice. But the few times I have orgasmed from PIV with no clitoral stimulation it has been a fluke. Couldnt recreate it if I wanted to but thats fine with me.
kiraeyes: It might be psychological thing too. If you are in the right zone(meaning really turned on) while being penetrated it could happen.
ceb20816: Not quite the same, but a Magic Wand on your clit with PIV will be wonderful. We like her on top in cowgirl with the wand nestled between us and under her clit. And her on her back, butt at the edge of the bed with me penetrating her while standing between her legs and one or the other controls the wand.
cigandchocolatemilk: I don’t know if it’s exactly what you are thinking of, but my advice would be to get a little clitoral vibrator and have one of you use it on you while he’s inside of you. That way you get the experience of a PIV orgasm without the mental pressure you are putting on yourself, and/or the disappointment if you can’t do it.
I also believe that more women are unable to orgasm from just PIV sex than you’d be led to believe, so keep that in mind.
87hm: Experiment with different angles. For me, the right angle to hit the gspot is usually hips raised a little (use a pillow under your butt may help). Explore your body and don’t give up trying. Maybe try solo with a dildo first if u feel more comfortable exploring that way. Nothing better than a gspot orgasam followed by clit orgasams that leaves u with that weak knees feeling afterwards.
neversiempre: Well, good luck with that.