Edged for the first time ever
Long story short, I’ve never edged. I always get horny, do my thing, back to my regular scheduled life. Masturbating has always been a solution to a problem (being horny) and simply a way to release.
Well, that all just changed. Decided to try edging. First, I spent an hour or so just browsing NSFW subs and whatnot. Simply maintaining an erection, but no manual stimulation. Then I stripped down and got comfy in my bed. Spent an hour stroking super slowly while still browsing NSFW stuff. Had to stroke slowly enough to just maintain somewhere between plain erection and orgasm. Just keeping things going. Then, for about 30 minutes, I would stroke faster, build myself up to the point where it was almost the point of no return (dudes know what I mean) then I would stop for a couple minutes. I probably brought myself to the edge 10 times. It got to the point where I would go from no manual stimulation to on the edge of the point of no return in just a couple strokes. Finally, it was time. I summoned my most powerful fantasy, ever so slowly stroked up to the edge and then pushed myself over as slowly as I could. Then the fireworks started.
Might be TMI, but I generally only have two or three spurts then the rest just dribbles out. And those two or three spurts usually only travel a couple inches. This time, I had five full power spurts and each of them shot off like a rocket. Measured afterwards (because us guys are weirdos like that) and I was hit between 4-5 feet. It was so amazingly intense. And this was less than 24 hours after my previous orgasm. Next attempt with be after three days of waiting!
Anyway, just wanted to let those guys who make jerking off a chore to take some time to enjoy it.
hornymusings: Hey, congrats! If I may offer a tip: when you finally push yourself over the edge, try to “reverse kegel” (here’s [a link](https://www.risingmaster.com/reverse-kegels/) if you don’t know what that is). Basically: as you orgasm, you have uncontrolled muscle contractions, right? Well, try to consciously prevent them by “force-relaxing” these muscles (as if pushing out pee). If you have sufficiently strong kegel muscles, you can orgasm without ejaculating, which apparently allows men to have multiple orgasms. Most likely, you can’t prevent ejaculation, but you can hold it back for a couple of seconds, before the feeling becomes too much and you have to let the contractions happen. In my experience, that makes the orgasm even stronger: the few seconds you held it are “bonus orgasm time”, and when you finally ejaculate, the built up tension just adds to the strength of the orgasm.
Long story short: reverse kegel-ing as you start coming gives your orgasm a “Wile E. Coyote runs off a cliff” effect, except with more pleasure instead of painful faceplant.
TheDarkPoet: Yeah, man! Congrats and welcome to the world of edging. I remember when I went for an hour the first time. It was an opening of worlds, as you suggest. Since that day (which was in college, I am 50 now), I have tried to stretch the time out. My current edging record is 17 hours. There are soooo many techniques you can use to stretch out the time. My beginning period that you describe above as the first hour, is usually around 4 hours. Once I pass the 4-hour mark, I start to measure the experience on a scale of 0 to 10 with 0 being not aroused at all and 10 being point-of-no-return ejaculation. I can edge at level 9 on that scale for as many hours as I want (although I have never made it past 17 hours and I would like to get to 24 hours just to be able to say that I edged for an entire day). I also follow @DarkDaddy1_mfc on twitter. He is really cool and has lots of tips on edging and lube and all that. What hornymusings said about the “reverse kegel” is right on and just one of the techniques that you can use to intensify your experience. To me, after 30 years of edging practice, I see orgasm and ejaculation as just the end of the edging session. The ultimate orgasm isn’t any more intense than the continuous, full-body orgasmic sensations that occur during the edge. After 8 hours or so, I start to phase in an out of consciousness and lose all kinesthetic sense of my body. That is really key to the experience. You start to float. All I feel is my hand on my penis and waves of orgasm throughout my body. So, welcome to the club and enjoy.
Pleather_Boots: A guy friend of mine has made an art out of edging.
If you’re on Twitter you can look him up at DarkDaddy1_mfc (he said I could post it.)
He’s got a little community of edging experts if you want to share tips.
These guys can edge for hours.
(As a woman I would never have the patience but hey, glad you figured it out!!)