(What) Do I accept oral sex from a girl who dislikes me?
There is a girl from my friend group, we’ve never really gotten along and we have different opinions on things. She has called me immature, annoying, and idiotic.
She has made fun of me for things and I’ve done the same to her. I have called her a bitch and she has done the same to me. It’s just, we don’t mesh at all.
Well I just won a bet with her, here is where it gets weird. We were talking about this football game at my buddies, and I said this team will win and kick this teams ass. She chimed in and we started bickering.
She asked if I wanted to wager, but said something other than money. So I jokingly said just “smd ok” in a joking way. She said okay, I’ll suck your dick if your team wins.
I was surprised, but she seemed to not care at all. Did a double take and she said yes, that she will give me a blowjob. So I won the bet,
She doesn’t like me (at least now I’m not so sure? and we don’t get along). I ended up winning this bet, and she said she’s going to honor this bet. I was thinking about just telling her no forget it. Is this a bad idea to accept?
Everyone is saying I’ll be an ass if I tell her to do it.
foreowetoofun: She likes you. Maybe not in a wanting to date you way. Maybe she doesn’t like that she likes you. But you only make a bet like that if you’re hoping to lose.
I should add… accept the blowjob. It’ll lead to a lot more.
Snesgamer83: I just have to add – if you do this, you absolutely MUST update us on what happens next. This is too intriguing not to, lol
fox112: This is exactly the kind of shit that makes being young great
or not, whatever. If you think she’s cute and it’s a no strings attached encounter what’s the big deal?
Snesgamer83: Maybe she “doesn’t get along with you” because she’s shy to be upfront about her feelings? How about at least meeting her and see how she reacts in the heat of the moment? And hey, if she does great at the blowjob (enough for you to really question whether she likes you or not), maybe you two could sit down and talk things over?
thenewme2_0: I think you both like each other. Seriously think about this . If you really don’t like her, forget the BJ.
genericthrowaway028: No girl who doesn’t want to give you a blowjob will take a bet like that.
gaburba: You made a smart bet and won you wouldn’t have turned down the money if you won. Go enjoy yourself a blowy son!
PlaysAprtStaysTgethr: With this much animosity, there is obviously a lot of tension, and even if it wasnt sexual before, it sounds like it can turn that way. You obviously spend time with each other in groups, so you dont completely hate each other. Are you attracted to her? Does this possibility make you think of things any differently between you?
Its ok to disagree and still be turned on my someone.
foxhound525: Shes almost definitely going to try and humiliate you, dont be foolish!
shrimpossible: I mean, it didn’t even sound like a bet since you didn’t say she’d have won anything. It sounds like she wants to be intimate with you but didn’t know how to ask.
How promiscuous and otherwise sexually risky is she? The reason this matters is that unless you and she are planning to use a condom for the oral, which people often don’t do, she can transmit diseases such as herpes orally. If she treats sex as no big deal and had a thousand partners, your risk goes way up. If she just likes you and is using this as an excuse, I’d consider it. And please update us!
Spoonbills: Being attracted to someone is not necessarily the same as liking them. And bickering can be kinda hot?
Take her up on it. See what happens. If you get the sense that she’s miserable in the moment, be decent and shut it down. You may be surprised at how intimate a situation like that can be. It might change things between you going forward.