Is there something wrong with me? I barely ever feel sexually aroused. (F)
I don’t know if this is normal but I feel like I’m wayyy less sexually aroused then most girls.
Masturbating does NOTHING for me. There’s been times where I’ve really tried to arouse myself by masturbating but after a solid 30 minutes I was just bored and ended up watching YouTube vids.
I feel like my vagina is broken because I’m never really horny or aroused. It only happens once in a blue moon and even when I do get aroused it doesn’t last long and I can’t get myself off.
Honestly though, I’d rather watch Netflix or sleep than have sex or masturbate or anything.
Anyways. Any advice or opinions on this? Is there something wrong with me or what?
Helpp, I feel like an outcast.
tl:dr I’m never horny and masturbating does absolutely nothing for me. Is this normal or is there something wrong with me??
otakuwannaf: I don’t honestly know maybe you just need to get to know your body better and know what you like. So I would suggest exploring your sexuality an experiment with videos and you’re bound to come across something that would excite you.
VagabondingOregonian: I had that problem too, still do actually. I can’t get myself off but I listen to erotic audios on the gonewildaudio sub reddit and let me just say hOLY FUCK,, it won’t be everyone’s cup of tea but if you find the right voice it’s helped a lot with getting turned on when I’m alone.
Hope this helps.
eversnowe: I was the same way before having sex. Now I’m lots hornier and think about it all the time. Sexuality itself is sometimes a mystery.
pyramidprism: Do what you’d rather do.. If you want to watch netflix or sleep, do it :)) nothing wrong with that.
RubyBellwether: Have you ever considered that you might be asexual? It’s relatively common, and it doesn’t make you broken or wrong. Asexuality does exist on a spectrum. Some people consider themselves mostly asexual, but do occasionally get aroused. I don’t know that much about it, but I think they refer to it as, “graysexual”, as in there’s a bit of a gray area.
If you don’t think that you’re asexual, is it possible that there are psychological or physical factors affecting your libido? I know that I’ve gone through periods in which my libido has been very low due to depression. I’ve also had my libido lowered when I was on birth control pills, so there could be hormonal factors. If you’re really worried about it, you could bring it up with your doctor and get some blood tests to see if you have a hormonal imbalance.
In any case, you’re not an outcast. There are a lot of people that don’t get horny and don’t like to masturbate. If you’re otherwise happy and healthy, it’s nothing to worry about.