Got any tips and advice for taking a guy’s virginity?
I (F32) have been flirting with a guy who is a virgin, for months… He wants me to take his virginity and I’ve said yes. I have plenty of experience but I’ve never been with a virgin before and I wanna make sure he feels comfortable and enjoys it, so his first time becomes a good memory.
Do you guys have any tips and advice for me? 🙂
Malewiththoughts1: Be patient and make him feel very comfortable. He may cum too soon, he may not get an erection, he may be terrified or he may Ravage you like a wild animal haha.
You should kind of Judge where he’s at as you go, so you don’t scare the crap out of him lol. Some virgins are fine others clam up. If he actually has sexual experiences he should be fine. Good luck
johpick: Beforehand, I would tell him that during sex, there are weird noises and body fluids everywhere. Penisses pop out from time to time. All that minor stuff, all these ridiculous details. Sex isn’t as elegant as a lot of virgins think.
Don’t say “it’s fine” the moment he is insecured by such things. That always sounds like people are forgiving, when there’s no fault to forgive.
normalboyz1: He might cum early. So make sure you have enough time for refractory period just in case you need 2nd session. Pick a position that can make you orgasm, preferably you’re on top…so you can control everything. And tell him to say if he’s going to come so you can stop. If you can get an orgasm with him at his first time. It will be good for his confidence …at least that’s what i’m expecting as a guy
thundercookiees: Rock his fucking world
Tirfoster: Mostly just be aware that he’ll be very self conscious and probably nervous, try not to do anything that’ll undermine his confidence. He will almost certainly cum really quick the first time, so don’t expect great things from that. Just wait until he’s ready for round 2 🙂
Creampieny: Oh let him know his cock might feel sore after. Let him know that freaked me out my first time.
UsernameForSexStuff: I would advise you not to give up in the event of any mishaps. My first blowjob was from a woman with a lot of experience, and I couldn’t get hard, the only time that’s ever happened to me (and this was 15 years ago). She certainly wasn’t mean about it, but she was frustrated and confused and just gave up. We continued to date for a while, but I never did end up getting a successful blowjob from her. If something isn’t working on his end, it’s most likely due to nerves, so try something else and then, if you’re having more luck, have another go at whatever you were doing before.
thetrexx: Start with straddling him. That way he doesn’t have to worry about insertion and you can control thrusts. Then after his first cum, go missionary. He’ll feel far more confident by then.
MrsJRF: I took my now-husband’s virginity at 26. We had fooled around a little and I had given him oral sex to kind of get him familiar and had shoved his hand up my skirt so he could feel around in my panties a little, but nothing really prepares you.
Unsurprisingly, first go, he came in the condom really fast, like, barely the tip inside my vagina fast. I told him that’s totally a normal thing and would he want to try giving me head – I guided his head/tongue to my clit and actually came, with the help of my toy. After that he was ready for round two and he lasted longer. Guys are a pretty quick study, within a few sessions it was like a routine habit, and some years into it he was the one who took my anal virginity – and later gave me our daughters, so it all works out.
LearnsFromExperience: Let him know sex is an experience, and there will be good, there will be no so good, there will be embarassing and there will be mindblowing. Just keep a sense of humor, stay in the moment and if required rinse and repeat. And show him what makes you feel good. Communicate
Engineers_on_film: He might just want it over and done with. Guys aren’t generally socialised to believe that their first time must be ultra special and a memory to last forever so you might be bigging it up more than him.
jonibolt: Whatever u do u will rock his boat ,feel him out how to proceed don’t overwhelm him
trippingwalker73: eat his ass out and he’ll never forget it
AnEngineer2018: As a virgin, I think you should let him be a little bit greedy. Let him explore all those things he has wondered about for so long. Possibly consider letting him go condom-less.