So… anal sex…
So I want to try anal sex, eating out my girl’s ass and stuff like that. She is okay with it. Any tips and tricks or advice? How about health concerns like infections and such?
Tirfoster: If she’s never done it before, be prepared to spend a LOT of time letting her warm up and relax before any penetration. It’s not just a matter of her feeling in the right mood, there’s a physical process that needs to happen inside her body before she’ll be ready to take anything up there, and it just takes time. Go at her pace, not yours.
And use a lot of lube. The rule of thumb I first heard is “too much is almost enough”. There are specialized lubes for anal sex, but one of the reasons I like using plain old KY is that it’s cheap so you don’t have to feel bad about using a ton of it.
FrenchKissLingerie: For the first few times (or always) you will finger her ass I would recommend you to use unpowdered latex gloves. They are cheap (even cheaper than condoms) and will make your fingers smooth so you won’t scratch her with your fingernails and your hand will stay clean. You can use the same lube you use with latex condoms with them.
It is rare but men can get UTIs from penetrating an anus so I would suggest using condoms. Condoms make clean up easier afterward as well (because **you can not penetrate her vagina or mouth right after anal without cleaning thoroughly you dick in-between** to remove any fecal bacteria).
Something people do not expect from receiving anal penetration is how long it might affect your body afterward.
I did PIA with two partners who were slightly above average, with and without lube. After anal I would usually be stretched and have trouble keeping farts in for at least 2 days. I never leaked liquid afterward (but unfortunately I already leaked during anal , so keep in mind that accidents could happen) but I was anxious it would happen. It is one of the reason that made me stop liking anal and now I refuse any anal penetration (even a finger, butt plug or a tongue stretches me out for quite some time). And I don’t have a solution, apart squeezing your ass as strong as you can everytime you laugh, sneeze, cough, etc. right after anal. Maybe wearing incontinence panty (such as [Icon](https://www.iconundies.com/)) could help making the receiver feel more “protected” as well as avoiding anal the day before a big event (for instance only practice anal on friday night so the anus has time to “close-down” during the weekend).
JackhusChanhus: lottts of lube lol… and make sure she knows in advance so she can be clean down there, for her security if nothing else. And be very gentle , especially if youre on the large side!
MoreForeplay: I alternate between letting my partner control how fast we start, to slowly but steadily penetrating all the way. If it hurts for them all the little movements will exasperate that so after initial penetration I like grab my partner by the hips firmly holding them against me while they get used to the feeling of me inside them. Then start moving slow, and keep going slow until my partner makes it clear that they want me to go faster or harder.
I’ve never done any prep aside from lube when doing anal with a girl. Haven’t had any trouble with any messes during or after, and if I did it’s not that big a deal. Consider it par for the course. Just don’t make a big deal about it, there’s no reason to make them feel embarrassed. e.g. The last girl who’s ass I ate out doesn’t know that I had to spit out a bit of TP. Just make sure to put plenty of lube on her ass as well as your cock.
dreamer_seer852: One of the biggest things is preparing. Having an unclean ass can be uncomfortable for both of you. Usually try to at least take a dump and the take a shoer and wash what you can out. If you have a douche it will be easier.
During sex you might want to put a towel or something you dont mind getting dirty down because stuff can come out. Condoms do help with the shit that can come out instead of working its way onto your penis.
I usually recomend silicon based lube it tends to last well. Water based lube works to but youd probably have to reapply it. Remember there’s no such thing as too much lube during anal. I have heard of guys saying they use vaginal fluid, please dont because asses are essentially a spong and they absorb water based things its usually harder to take.
Anal can be a lot of fun but youll need to respond to the needs of your partner a lot more. Especially if they aren’t used to it.
They are just trying to get used to the sensation of something going into the ass though the opposite way they are used to
_trinidad_: Use all the lube. It’s basically impossible to overdo it with lube. And build up very slow to full on anal