Sex while I’m asleep
So my boyfriend wants to have sex with me while I’m asleep. I’m a light sleeper, so he can’t just do it while I’m sleeping naturally without me waking up. I am giving consent to it, so I am not worried about rape. Please no judgement. I am wondering what would be a safe and effective way to pretty much knock me out safely for a short period of time. Up to one hour preferably. Any ideas?
edubkendo: Safest way to do this is to fake being asleep.
lillcaje: Go buy some booze, lock the doors have fun and get wasted. Just tell him to not get shit faced and wait you out then try his luck, just dont take sleeping pills and booze that’s how heath ledger went out…..
Joeybing9: This is actually a pretty popular thing, not a turn on for me because the moaning and dirty talk with a woman is what makes sex fun for me. But I understand a lot of people enjoy this.
Couldn’t begin to suggest any kind of meds you could take to sleep.
ElectricSwine: Zzzquil knocks you out BUT if something does wake you up, you’re gonna have a terrible time getting to sleep….
MissLadyPerson: Benadryl, NyQuil, benzos, sleeping pills, pain pills maybe (depends largely on the person), alcohol maybe (again, totally depends on you).
Not all at once, of course, and YMMV on all of them, really. NyQuil makes me feel like I’m dying and keeps me up all night and Benadryl only makes me tired if I take about 100 mg or combine it with Tylenol. But I have insomnia and that’s what works for me, lol.
1.) Staying up the overnight and during the next day, then go to sleep an night and let him…. DO it…. (Lenny Face)
stu1822: stay up all night then the following night a bit of vodka ..
enjoyoutdoors: Try sleep deprivation. Or catching a fever. So that you are harder than usual to get awake.
Or, you know. You could initiate when you are very, very tired. Get him in while spooning. And then stop.
Tell him to listen to your breathing until you start snoring. And suggest he goes slow.
GoTriggerYourself: There is no safe way to knock someone out. That’s why personnel who knock people out during surgeries are trained and focused on just that for the entire surgery.
voxfemme: Although various drugs will help you sleep, I think that if you are a light sleeper there is probably not a safe at-home way to knock you out deep enough for him to perform PIV sex while you are asleep.
Safe OTC drugs to try are Diphenhydramine (in Benadryl), Doxylamine (in various sleeping pills and NyQuil), and melatonin. Just don’t be surprised when you wake up during the sex.
socorra: I would not recommend abusing pain pills or prescription meds to put you to sleep. Nyquil/Zzzquil has a bad reputation of knocking you out quickly but not necessarily keeping you out if you are a light sleeper. Perhaps some Benadryl (works best for me) or melatonin supplements?
My main advice would be to just embrace waking up. That way you can actually enjoy it consciously and he can get some reciprocity too. You don’t have to jolt awake when you feel him initiate. Just moan or stretch a little (keep your eyes closed and body relatively still) to acknowledge his efforts. You can still have slow, sleepy sex half awake. It’s one of my favorite things 🙂
I can’t fake being asleep. At best, I’m just falling into sleep when he starts messing with me and it wakes me up so I’m awake at that point
Benadryl and some tummy rubbing I’m out till the next morning when I wake up with cum coming out of me
Totally consensual, I fucking love it
justatypicaldude: Soma is a prescription muscle relaxer. If it’s your first time taking it (or if you haven’t used any for a couple months), 2 pills will make you feel like you’ve had a 12-pack. But many people have died playing with that stuff.
2.) Acinamedaphin Tylenol PM pills.
probably best to use when your head hurts though, but what do I KNOW? i’m 14….