[Sexting]: How do you even do that?
So, my wife said she likes the whole build-up to sex during the day (wink, wink, I guess). Since we’re in different places during most of the day, sexting seems like the natural thing to do. But here’s the thing: I have no idea how to do it. What do you write? How does it not sound completely ridiculuous or silly or sarcastic? How do you start a conversation like this? Am I overthinking this?
gspotman64: Start off by using shirt teasing messages. For example I am thinking of you. See how she responds with something like really? You respond back with yes, I am having impure thoughts.
The point is to have short, non specific messages to start that build up & excite your imaginations.
One thing I did was text my wife sitting next to.me at airport and told her to text back with 3-4 sexy, erotic or dirty things she would like to do on vacation. Things that we had never done before. It was a great vacation.
n0mad26: Find sex gifs on tumbler and send them to her, and tell this is what you want to do. That always works for me
Shamadominadingdong: It’s a little cheesy but it’ll be a good segue into sexting. Ask her what she’s wearing under her clothes and ask her to send you pics (assuming she’s okay with that). And then you just run with it. Tell her she looks sexy and go on about how it makes you feel when you look at her. Tell her all the thoughts running through your head and what you plan to do to her when you get home.
dmgb: You write whatever you want and you can sound ridiculous but if you set a tone and are usually openly communicative about your sex life in person, it should be easy.
I’ll randomly text my boyfriend that I’ve been thinking about his cock for the past hour and I need it in my mouth so bad right now. But.. we’re both at work. So that’s obviously not possible. So then he goes with it and we just describe what we want to do to one another later and send porn GIFs and stuff of more things we want to try.
It can be as simple and short as ‘I want you to fuck me as soon as I get home” or getting increidbly elaborate into talking about what kind of role playing we want to try potentially months from now and testing the roles of that to see if we are in fact into it.
I love sexting.
Then of course there’s the whole sending photos/videos to one another, too. But only if you’re comfortable with that kind of thing. Snapchat is a great tool.
_JonJon_: Build it up slowly. Or go all in and tell her you want to fuck her against a wall right now. It all depends on comfort level between you two.
For ideas go to literotica.
HAPPY_FLAPPY_BUTT: Here’s some material:
“Can’t wait to get you home tonight and taste some of that sweet pussy!”
“I was sitting in a meeting with a semi-chubb thinking about your beautiful breasts.”
“If you were here right now I would take you to the storage closet with me, bend you over and cum all over that sexy round ass!”
Followed up with:
“You’re the sexiness goddess I’ve ever met! See you soon sweetheart!!!”
fuckthatpony: “Looking forward to dinner and tying you up. Not necessarily in that order.”
notslashroar: Here’s an example:
**You (out of the blue, maybe early afternoon):** “hmm.. I’m getting kinda hungry..”
**Her:** “Oh yea? Hungry for anything specific? I’m full, just had a big lunch with the girls here at the office – we usually have a catered lunch meeting every Tuesday”
**You:** “Nice, I was thinking something like taco Tuesday actually ;)”
**Her (getting a hint of innuendo):** “Oh really.. and here I was thinking hot dogs might be nice for dinner later!”
**You:** “Well, we are all out of hotdogs, but I could probably let you have some bratwurst..”
**Her:** “Mmm.. I’m hungry now. Maybe you can do taco Tuesday after all, as long as you let me have some bratwurst after ;)”
**You:** “That’s a deal. You can start preparing the bratwurst while I lick your taco.. after my face is covered in taco sauce I’m going to give you a little bit of the brat”
**Her:** “This is starting to sound like sex, I thought we were talking about dinner?! JK.. but I’m seriously getting wet, you better stop!”
**Her again:** “Wait a little bit? I don’t get the whole thing?”
**You:** “Maybe, depends on how I’m feeling. 😉 I’ll at least give you the tip.. see how bad you want the next inch :P”
**Her:** “Omg.. =O”
I had to make the latter part more tame because I don’t want to break any rules here.. But I hope you get the drift