Best Mattress for Sex???
Looking for recommendations for the best Mattresses out there for active Sex and sleeping.
I know there are a few websites that have reviews based on this, but I’m looking for feedback from a sex positive and highly active community like this one. Having sex on a mattress multiple times a day vs once every week or two has some rather large requirement differences.
My wife and I have heart pounding, sweat breaking, collapse after – sex every day.
We especially enjoy bracing feet against the headboard for extra oomph (Prone, Legs on shoulders). Or using the side of the bed (male standing, female laying),
However, we are finding that we break down new mattresses in less than a year. We get large grooves and the mattresses deform fairly quickly.
A year ago we picked up a Chaise Lounge for our bedroom, which is great for Doggy or Her on top (narrow enough for her to stradle with feet on the floor). But it’s not great for missionary varients or prone.
A couple years ago we got a big Memory Foam mattress (Brand that Costco carries). Found it absorbed way too much bounce and made sex MUCH more work. Was great for Edge of the Bed, but otherwise it just sucked all the momentum out of any rough sex we attempted.
We returned the memory foam mattress and picked up a new Spring Mattress that was bouncy and fun again. But within 3 months we started to get grooves around the head of the bed from pushing off the headboard.
I’m starting to see more hybrid memory foam mattresses and considering giving it another stab. Something super firm with a soft topper maybe?
Any recommendations? Are we allowed to discuss brands? Dont’ want this to get shut down for mentioning specific companies, but it would be useful.
ProfsrChaos: This right here is a reason why sex needs to be a larger part of our culture. Why mattresses, bed frames, even couches don’t have a sex rating is simply ridiculous.
Has r/sex come up with a sex on the bed scale that I missed because the world seriously needs one.
ProfsrChaos: But anyway Latex is too damn hot and memory foam (even toppers) have you sexing in quick sand. My ex had like one of those 2-4 inch toppers (I dunno how thick jr was) and it was awful. Not to mention how hot it was (not in the sexy way) if you have sex right before falling asleep. I personally don’t recommend getting a topper like that.
ao418: You could always try natural fibers like coconut. Depending on make they can be quite hard, which I found nice to sleep on – I only had sex on one a few times, though.
lovetowatchthembounc: Look at a purple? We got the purple mattress and frame. It’s not cheap.
We are not lightweight people, we can fuck as hard as we want and have no issue with this combination.
The purple site says the frame can take about 2000lbs. Now, we are not that big, but at 450lbs between us, and me pounding at full force, it’s all good.
So, there is my two bits.
pm-me-ur-nsfw: Look at these:
06210311off: Very interesting question!
Quick look at the info here and the mentioned sites, it seem a latex mattress is the best choice when both sex and sleep comfort are a factor. Although the heat retention might be a problem for me.
Astromahnn: Memory Foam is out.
No resistance. Not good for any sporty sex play.
The best we found is a spring mattress with a pillow top. Perfect combination of firm resistance and softness.
We pay special attention to the mattress height so all standing positions are perfectly matched. Use wooden blocks to adjust the height.
Make sure the head board is tight and does not skweek when doing some serious pounding.
No foot board as it gets in the way of standing positions and kneeling muff dives.
Peace out y’all 😉
darealqueenb: No memory foam!
Hubs and I recently bought a new mattress with just a memory foam topper. We’ve had it for like a year and it is starting to get the divots in it even when we rotate it regularly. Thinking about complaining about it actually. We are not very heavy and it would seem that the form should last a little longer than just a year. And our sex life doesn’t seem nearly a vigorous as yours!