My mind is so filthy! Help!
Being 35 as a woman is so awesome. However all I do all day, no matter where I am (work, home, kids games, school functions, grocery store, etc…everywhere) is think about sex. Any relatively attractive man I check out, imagine sucking their cock, or riding them while they grab my waist. I look at those arms and hands and imagine them all over me. My sex drive was always healthy but now it’s so much worse. I play with my pussy multiple times a day. I just can’t believe how much I think about it. If I could have it my way I’d be locked in a sex dungeon for 16 hours a day. Only getting out to eat and drink enough to go back at it, maybe sleep a couple hours. I know this is normal for the most part. It still amazes me and if people could read minds…. Oh my. How many of you women can relate? I look at women my age and wonder if they are like me. I feel like they are not. However behind my innocent looks no one would think about how dirty I think all day. Maybe they are doing the same. Oh and men, if this is how it’s always been for you, my admiration for keeping your shit together. With this mind set I just want to scream and rip my clothes off while every guy I see ravishes my body!
gwendy25: Your just like me! My sex drive is super high for a woman. I love masturbating for most of the day. I’m also a huge pervert lol
papretigre: > Oh and men, if this is how it’s always been for you, my admiration for keeping your shit together.
Yep. It’s been difficult. My libido led me to do some pretty crazy shit in the my early 20s. But anyway..
I’m in my early 30s now and I’m basically just now getting it under control enough to be more effective with my wife in the big picture.
I was (and still am, mostly) HL and she is somewhat LL (not too bad, roughly >= 1 per 2 weeks). But me embracing the buildup basically increased good/quality/consistent flirtation between us, and allowed her libido to increase and get kinkier. It could just coincide with our age and experience level, but I’m not sure.
She recently made a realization with the kegel ball. She wore it for an afternoon + dinner. Usually she’s not super forward – she’ll make little innocent comments here and there usually. But the kegel ball unleashed a demon in her. She seemed hornier than me, and kept talking about how she wanted to go home and fuck right now. I joked “now you know how I’ve always felt”.
Not all that interesting to anybody else I’m sure, but yeah – it’s fun seeing things change (as long as the change is good, I guess..)
Venusian_Artist: WHERE CAN I FIND A WOMAN LIKE YOU?
>However behind my innocent looks no one would think about how dirty I think all day.
I could never guess the innocent ones.
Do you frequent bars, clubs, social events to meet guys? What clues about you give you away?