Question about post sex routine for FWB
I [24F] recently started a FWB with this guy [29M]. I’m wondering how soon after y’all have finished getting physical do you leave? Like what are the expectations? I haven’t really got much experience with hookup culture and feel awkward haha.
Thanks for your responses!
floss_g: I always spend the night at my fwb’s after we’ve fucked.. afterward we’ll chat, have a wine and fall asleep plus it means another round at 3am or in the morning before work.
also breakfast together before I head on home is nice.
I guess everyone’s different though! I’d say you’d get a vibe if he wanted you to leave? but if he’s chatty and doesn’t rush you to go, he might not mind if you spend the night.
gunkyjunk: Once you put clothes on and get situated just say you have to leave, if it’s truly fwb he’ll be happy to oblige.
real90semo: Guess it depends on your dynamic. I’ve had a few partners who like to chill out for a bit, talk or whatever, cuddle maybe (if they’re nice). Usually I wait until they begin to look at their phones, then I take that as a sign to leave lol. Unless I feel like going myself, it’s just a matter of what you feel like doing. You just had sex with someone, I think it’s common courtesy to communicate if you want to chill or not lol
Nyquil-Junkie: As the great sage Andrew Dice Clay once said… “This is my impression of a perfect date; *grunt* I’m finished, get out.”
samisloth: Five minutes or 30, it just depends on where you both have to be and when. You kind of know when your setting up the hook up. At least for me it seems that way.
therealOBJuan: My go to is to have a smoke
Smgameday7: Got any cold cuts??
ipoopflowers: With my current fwb situation, he always gets a hotel since we both have children.. we lay there and cuddle a bit, talk about our kids and what we have going on the following day.. then if we go for round two, we go for round two… if we are done and need to part ways to get back to our kids, we usually shower together and get dressed, kiss and go our separate ways.
Sometimes we stay in the hotel until morning and sleep for a few hours before getting back to our lives.