Bella Hadid, Gigi Hadid [Vogue UK] [Mar 2018]
How can I (21F) get my boyfriend (22M) to have more outdoor sex with me?
I really love the idea of having sex in places where there is a lot of nature (the beach, hikes, etc.) It is such a turn on for me, but ive only ever had car sex.I live in southern California so I feel like there’s plenty of places for this. But my boyfriend never wants to & I feel like he is so boring because I just want to have sex in different settings. I guess he is just afraid to get caught. How can I convince him to get into it & what are some tips on how to be discrete when in these kinds of places?
kismetpink: My only advice is, if he fucks you up against a tree, make sure it isn’t wrapped in poison ivy first. (Don’t ask, it was dark and I wasn’t paying attention lol)
NothingLasts: Public sex is a kink, and he may not share it. First step is to identify if he’s actually opposed to it and why. It could be fear of getting caught as you mentioned, but other possibilities are hygiene or comfort (tents are cramped),
gotora: If/when you do, avoid sand. Seriously, sand is not a friend of sex.
missuseme: Have you discussed with him that is something you want to explore? From your post m gathering you ask him at the time (on location) as it were. Maybe if he knows how much you want it he might come up with a compromise, somewhere public but low risk.
windowwishing: I would propose no panties and a short enough skirt so you can flash him when no one’s around (also it’s good for easy access and inconspicuous separation). It might be kind of bratty but I’d suggest playing with yourself too and inviting him to join you and if he doesn’t join in you could at least finish yourself off so it wouldn’t be a total waste?
There were also some tips from a thread on public sex yesterday — maybe take a peek at the comments there?
TimmyD80: Wear easily accessible clothes and tease hm with that, when you get alone make out and rub his crotch till he’s hard and raging and just unzip and go down then ask him to do you.
peter1998c: It’s 100% legal to have sex in public parks — like Yosemite. It’s illegal to make an obscene display to others a “public display” of intercourse — in other words, find space that you won’t been seen by others (even in a park) and it’s legal. https://www.criminaldefenselawyer.com/legal-advice/criminal-defense/sex-crimes/is-having-sex-public-crime-what-charged
docturmishii: SoCal here too! I’m gonna copy and paste what I’ve put in another thread:
>Wear either a dress or a skirt. You don’t wear a belt or pants that are difficult to zip up.
>Do not go somewhere with moderate traffic. If you want to push your luck, go somewhere with both of your bits hidden and practice fucking with a straight face.
>Do not go somewhere with kids. Absolutely not. Once again, do not fuck anywhere where kids may be or might be.
>Cars are okay. Just be smart with where you’re parked. You could be in a high traffic area as long as you know for a fact you can’t be seen and won’t look suspicious. (spray your windows with defoggers if you have a tint)
>There’s alot more I could go into but honestly it just dwindles down to this. Consent does not just go both ways for the two of you, but for the public as well. Do not subject other people to you both fucking when they don’t want to see that. You may think its hot and impromptu but everyone else just thinks its rude. Just think before you do and you should be fine.
Just by the way you asked your question though, you need to understand, even if you follow all the guidelines, if your partner doesn’t want to do it, he shouldn’t have to do it. Trying to push him to do something he doesn’t feel comfortable doing isn’t the way to go, sis.
allthewayfromholland: I’ll suggest you go out in your skirt without panties…. That should do the trick…. Or be plugged Also… I would be horny instantly
iminthemoodtomove: If he’s no into it find someone who is.