Raquel V. Gomez
My ex-bf told me: “I don’t believe ANY man who says he prefers natural boobs to fake boobs; men online lie about how much they prefer natural boobs only to impress women.” My boobs aren’t fake. His conviction was absolute and still niggles in my mind.
When I took him up on it, he was apologetic in reference to how sometimes he would literally almost just forget he was in a relationship and so he’d talk to me like I was his friend – so NOTHING about “oh and yeah, maybe some guys really do prefer natural boobs.” (I was telling him he was ridiculous for his assertion). WTF?? So he really does believe this is true, and I just can’t get over how someone’s conviction on this could be so completely solid.
We ended up breaking up (not necessarily over this, but kinda – he ended up coming out as aro-ace; he had an all-encompassing fetish for enormous fake boob women and never really wanted to be in a relationship in the first place, which kinda fucked with me), and this is just one of those things which just really got stuck in my head I’m having a little trouble shaking..
I don’t have serious issues thinking I need fake boobs, (I fucking used to though, lol) but I just want to hear from other guys.
ETA – Please please don’t hate on women who have had surgery in the comments. Opinions are cool but no mean stuff please. I appreciate reassurance on my bf’s comment but don’t want any nasty or insulting stuff said about women who have had boob jobs. <3 ETA – Stop insulting women with breast implants (or any other superficial reason), please. It’s really mean and not helpful. _____ skahammer: Okay, this thread is now locked. There was lots of good discussion here. But I think the substantive conversations have now pretty much wound down. If there are still substantive issues to be resolved, I suggest putting them in a succinct, thoughtfully worded new post. (Maybe tomorrow, to let people’s thoughts settle a little bit.) Posts about sexual preferences are sometimes tricky in r/sex. We generally want to encourage such discussions. But in order to be valid here, those discussions also have to be constructive — or at least aim in a constructive direction. Sometimes, just stating a preference simply fails to move the conversation along. And stating a *negative* preference too broadly can be not only unconstructive, but pointlessly hurtful. A lot of latitude was given here to a lot of comments. But a limit has now been reached. Idilthil: People tend to think everyone sees the world like them, the same way liars tend to think everyone is a liar. He is an idiot. Don’t hold his perspective to such a high regard as he does himself. folterung: Not addressing the boob issue at all, but any statement that makes an absolute claim about the preferences, habits, beliefs, desires, etc. of an entire population (e.g. all men) is automatically, 100% of the time, bullshit. This is an example of a bullshit statement. Because it’s bullshit, you can safely ignore it, because it is demonstrably false. It might be true that he does not *believe* men who say that don’t like augmented breasts, but his belief does not translate into truth. He might also not *believe* men who say they prefer tea over coffee, or cats over dogs, or any other point of personal preference that you can imagine. That just means he has a very rigid set of viewpoints, and a limited ability to think logically. You can let go of this, and get your mind niggling about something else. TeamJim: I just like boobs. goldensubtype: while i’m sure there’s a pretty small sub group of people who get off on just telling lies on the internet, this discussion has taken place many times here and plenty of people have said they prefer natural breasts. find it hard to believe they’re all just lying online for fun. antiproton: He’s a dipshit. That’s the kind of attitude teenagers have. mr_li_jr: Your ex-bf is wrong. Does he think guys try to impress women by showing them that they are subscribed to subreddits like r/saggy? You only need to look at how many porn links say stuff like “Jenna shows off her huge naturals”. Some guys like fake, some like real, many don’t give a shit either way. Personally, I like real or extremely natural looking fakes that look so real that I wouldn’t even know they were fake. I don’t like the spherical globe types. TykoBrahe: The best kinds of boobs are the ones I get to play with. I don’t have an opinion on real or fake. But it’s silly to body shame someone about it either way. Just be happy you get to play with boobs! Sheesh. Sorry about your douchey ex. IHeartDay9: I used to work phones at an escort agency. Lots of dudes request natural breasts. Hell, lots of dudes prefer the spinner types with small natural breasts. Lots of dudes prefer bigger and/or enhanced breasts too. Preferences about breast size, body type, ethnicity etc are all over the map. Clueless_caterpillar: Urgh I hate people like that. I had a guy on here CONVINCED that I’m only in an open relationship to be the ‘cool girl’ in a relationship and I’m secretly dying inside . He tried for like a half hour to get me to admit it claiming it’s physically impossible for anyone to be okay with there partner sleeping with someone else and that I’ll never understand love lol. Sometimes people are just so up their own arses they can’t see how anyone could possibly disagree with them on anything. I’m sure there are lots of guys who prefer fake boobs and lie about it to impress women but to suggest every man on earth feels to same way as him is ridiculous ConstantRise: I like natural boobs, but I know guys that like implants. It’s whatever they are attracted to. XTURNPIKEMICKX: That’s fucking bullshit. And don’t ever believe anyone when they say “every” anything. He hasn’t met me so he doesn’t know shit Dtownknives: He’s full of shit. 9 out of 10 times, if I can tell the boobs are fake in porn, I switch the video. Besides what reason is there to lie online? The_Gaming_Kitchen: Your ex bf is a dumb ass. Hence why he is probably an ex. Hes a projector too which again probably explains why hes an ex. Felstag: >ETA – Stop insulting women with breast implants (or any other superficial reason), please. It’s really mean and not helpful.
This is why we can’t have nice things. Anyone doing this is just as bad as the ex-boyfriend…
Yaroslavorino: Your ex watched too much porn.
65KasperSoldado: It doesn’t matter if they are real or fake. If they instill confidence in the women, that’s the sexiest thing
christopherjenk: I prefer natural and on the average to smaller size (generally an A-C cup). Obviously, well-done fakes are great too, but still not my preference. But let’s be honest, I’m just happy to see them.
mlgihring: If a man tells you what he likes sexually, believe him until you discover otherwise.
This guy sounds like the kind of loser that beats off to fetish porn all of the time and probably sucks in bed himself. Find a man that appreciates your body and is sexually compatible with you.
metalhammer69: Man here.
When I fall for you, I want **YOUR** boobs, just the way they are. While I’m sure a lot of people have a certain size and shape range they prefer, the hottest boobs are the ones that your partner has
crushyajr: I have found that women come in many lovely “configurations” that are sexy and pleasing. The end!
c_raposa: People will like whatever they like. But statistically where I live a man likes whatever his girl has, natural or not.
Personally I don’t feel attracted to breasts with implants. I prefer a natural breast . Even the larger ones, I love how gravity affects their shape (it’s a huge turn on). So yeah, people like different things.
I also prefer smaller breasts to implants. My SO has a flat chest and it looks very elegant and sexy on her :).
I’d also never subject someone I love to any surgery that’s purely aesthetic, but I do understand that people choose to do so in order to feel better with themselves and that’s OK.
nocheesegromit: Wow there is soooo much nastiness towards women with breast implants in these comments
tssub72: I love them natural.
Spackleberry: I’m more interested in who the boobs are attached to.
redhairisbest: I prefer nice boobs. If that means real, great! If that means fake, great!
tfresca: He’s an ex for a reason good riddance.
ArmaniDiamonds: I like a women, who likes herself. My wife wants to get some work done after shes finally done breast feeding. And that’s okay. Shes still my wife. And if something helps her feel more confident and sexy about herself, it makes us both happier in the long run. My point is your ex is an idiot, weather you want to get surgery or not is your choice. Not his. Do what makes you happy and confident. Not what other people say you should. Especially partners
bosssiss: Everyone is simply stating how wrong he is and I agree 100%. As a woman who struggles with wanting implants for my own insecurities this sucks to read! It sucks that women even consider what men like and what men don’t; part of the reason I’ve considered implants, sadly. I think it’s a process for some to even get comfortable in their bodies that may not fit what is deemed “attractive” and what makes the “perfect” body on a woman in today’s day and age. Thank you for your post, weirdly I don’t feel so alone!
adickted2: I personally love super small tits. Virtually just nipples to small B. It is preference. When younger. Felt a need to blend in and tote raves about mega boobs . But truth was small gymnastics girls bodies are what turned me on.
Sorry your ex was a lying dog
Chemtrails2k16: Sounds so much like my ex, which really hurt my feelings because I’ve always been complemented in other relationships…I was/am convinced I need them, but my new guy says it’s completely unnecessary.
All this to say, both people in a relationship should cheerlead each other, I’m sorry he couldn’t express his particular interest/fetish without making you feel unworthy. But you are.
PatchezOHoulihan: He doesnt speak for everyone else. I for one love natural boobs. Big or small as long as they are natural.
kifferella: My bf is a Canadian hunter/fisher real life super dudely dude. He rolls his eyes at my “reddit” stories. I read him this.
As per my bf. Yours is fuckin r*tarded. A fricken moron. Oooh. He clarifies, douchebag.
You may have pulled him into reddit.
He says “theres nothin wrong with fake tits but you can tell and real ones are awesome”
GiraffeSkullMilitia: Natural boobs all the way
Asclepius555: He’s wrong
jstagn: All boobs are awesome.
Diablo165: If someone purports to speak for an entire group of people, they are full of shit.
I strongly prefer natural breasts. When I was in Florida, I knew of at least three women who had fake ones, and they were a major part of the reason I was never interested.
Babybiowater: He doesn’t believe any men can have a different preference to him? He’s an idiot
funcoupleinmanila: He is absolutely wrong. Some guys do like them, but I’m not one of them. It’s possible he was just pressuring you to get one.
ElorianRidenow: I like boobs…and I like serveral shapes. Huge globes are a bit scary. That’s about it.
The thing is, it matters more who exactly is attached to them. I’m much more into tummies and faces bodywise and into women that are very confident. My kinda thing..others like other stuff..such is the world. 😉
Skkorm: Honestly, I’ve seen some beautiful pairs of natural breasts(of varying sizes). I’m sure surgeons are doing a wonderful job but evolution has been doing this for all of humanity’s history.
Itsoktobe: Bi girl here. Boobs of EVERY size are fucking awesome. Natural ones are way softer and cuter, imo. I love me some itty bitty titties!!
Crookles86: I am a simple man.
I like boobs. I like bums more, but boobs are ace.
ro6ertj: Happy with both types.
grrrinsomnia: Not a guy but married to one. He has absolutely no preference. Big, small, natural, fake. He just loves boobs. I’m considering getting a boob job at some point in the future and he fully supports me either way.
torchboy1661: I truly prefer small flat chests over big fake one. I don’t hate on women who have implants or other augmentation. Hell, if there was a good penis augmentation surgery, I would be in line with many men. But natties are what I prefer big or small. I have friends that have encouraged their wives to get implants and love big fake breasts. We are always disagreeing on this.
As far as men lying about their preference. I happens. Usually to increase their chances of getting laid. But the truth usually comes out. A couple of drinks and a set of fake boobs will bring the truth out…
sweetnickels: This was your ex trying to neg you into getting a boob job. He was trash.
PowerPuffRangers: The cool thing about humanity and the introduction of the internet is no matter what size shape color, whatever there is probably at least a handful of people out there who would give their right arm to be with you. I’m not conventionally attractive. I have huuuuge natural boobs that fuck with my back, short dyed hair and am definitely over weight. I still don’t have any issues finding people who want to look. No one has to look like a porn star to get laid or find love.
This dude sounds like a grade A douche canoe.
zeekar: I had a coworker who was convinced that all men want anal sex, too (giving, not receiving), and simply refused to entertain the idea that any of us didn’t fall into that category. Overgeneralization from small sample sizes is baked into human nature, unfortunately. But you shouldn’t internalize someone else’s beliefs, especially when counterexamples are not hard to find.
FabulousLemon: There are people out there who somehow find poop sexy, so I’d be flabbergasted if there truly was no guy who found natural breasts sexy. My decades on the internet have taught me everything is sexy to somebody. I’m not a man, but I am 100% confident that there is at least one man who finds natural breasts sexy and I’m 99.9% confident that it’s not even rare among men.
el_chupanibre23: As a fake tit lover, myself, your ex is an idiot
EpicBlinkstrike187: Obviously some guys like them. The whole ‘fake’l ook of a porn star is a huge turn on to some guys.
It’s hardly everybody tho. I’ve never handled them so I have no preference in that regard. I like looking at them tho in porn, but I’ll have days where I will like looking at the small boobs genre.
So natural, unnatural, big, small, I like them all.
MarabouSlipper: I love how instead of addressing the issue, 90% of responses are men stating their aesthetic preference without further commentary.
petrichordium: My ex girlfriend is a somewhat successful porn star with 500cc implants on a 28 band size bra. Suffice to say her tits do not look “natural.”
First of all, she is famous for her tits. People love her tits, and before she did porn she was one of the laziest but most successful cam girls I’ve known (dated four, it’s a pattern). Like she’d just sit in bed and talk about french fries and occasionally play with her tits and walk away with hundreds of dollars.
Many men love fake tits. But almost as many constantly berate her for having them. Or ask her for photos of her before the augmentation. Or leave comments on her scenes about how it’s such a shame bc she’d be so much more beautiful without them.
Do you know what they could have been doing instead of all that? Jerking off to some chick with natural tits. But they weren’t! They were ogling her tits and complaining about them.
Basically you’ll never get a consistent or satisfactory answer from the male mind here.
Quailpower: I’m a bi girl and I love all boobs.
My (m) partner prefers natural. I considered surgery after I had my son, didn’t want bigger boobs I just loved the perkiness of when I was breastfeeding.
He was happy to let me make my decision but would have probably been heartbroken if I’d gone through with it
gogor: Some guys like real tits. Some guys like bolt-ons. Your ex sounds like a douche.
Oniknight: His fetish is his to deal with. It’s not a partner’s job to conform to the desires of the other.
Unfortunately, the way that media from cartoons onward model heterosexual relationships, it’s always some unremarkable guy who “gets” a girl who literally exists to be perfect for him despite his flaws. I think a lot of women internalize this, leading to this kind of mindfuck.
For me, it was glasses. My ex had a huuuuge fetish for big boobs and glasses. I had big boobs but didn’t need glasses.
He kept going on about it, to the point of wanting me to get zero prescription glasses to jack off on. Me being a teenager, I thought it was normal to want to change myself to please my partner despite him not doing the same and having terrible hygiene.
This still affects me a little today. Now that I’m older, I have prescription glasses for distance but I refuse to wear them except when I can’t avoid it. I wear my prescription sunglasses without issues. But I always get a gross feeling when I put on my regular glasses and feel very self conscious like I’m doing something sexual and wrong in public. It’s not my fetish but I worry it will be taken like that.
Chikitiki67: As many have already said, he’s full of shit. Fake boobs are actually a huge turn off for me no matter the size or quality.
Fintago: Honestly, it is pretty impossible to tell augmented breasts from “natural” breast. It is simply some really awkward confirmation bias. A guy sees a woman and assumes she has “fake” breasts and laughs about it to themselves at how obvious it is, but they don’t actually know if the are augmented and they probably aren’t going to ask and just assume they are right.
So basically, it has become Boobs that look good=Natural and Boobs I don’t like=Fake.
Unshavenhelga: He’s a dope.
O7Knight7O: I don’t think there’s a damn thing wrong with breast implants, but that doesn’t mean that I think they’re better or worse than natural ones. I’ve dated people who’ve had both, handled both. I can tell you they’re both great.
lemonylemin: I’m bisexual and I like both. Honestly, boobs are boobs and they’re all unique! Implants or no (: if I was sleeping with someone I’d be attracted to them and interested in their breasts no matter what
Jsnow244: I like boobs both real and fake… I also like big round asses and tight asses. I like girls with long, short, blonde, and brown hair and I’ll take them from any ethnicity…. Compatibility is the main thing I seek.
gigaspaz: I’ve been with a natural and fake boobs. I prefer natural, although the fake ones LOOKED amazing, they felt terrible (fake). That being said it helps to know that I also prefer smaller breasts as well.
pudge1987: My favorite kind of boobs are the kind I get to touch. My second favorite are the kind I get to look at. All others fall into a category that doesn’t really matter after that.
drivincryin: 51M here. Divorced.
This is strictly one guy’s belligerent, pedantic opinion. He does NOT speak for every guy at all.
If you need to, get some therapy and CBT techniques to actively dispute this guy’s pronouncements and the lingering impact they’re having on you.
He’s completely and totally wrong.
probably4porn: I definitely prefer fake boobs, but i am ALWAYS of the minority opinion in any conversation I have about it. Your ex is an idiot and im sure your gorgeous the way you are.
idratherbesleeping3: My boyfriend is obsessed with fake tits – he tells me all the time to get fake ones !! Sometimes I think guys are just really fucken dumb and don’t understand that comments like that can really fuck someone’s head up when it comes to body image. I’ll admit, I think when done right with the right body type, implants do look amazing!!! I go back and forth thinking about it but then sometimes I think I prefer the natural look. But as I get older and lose the perkiness I am leaning more and more towards getting fake ones !! It’s a preference and I think everyone likes a little variety and when a guy has never been with someone with implants they fantasize over it more than what they are used to seeing …when my boyfriend does this I used to get sad and down on myself but now I just take a step back and take a long hard look at him and realize – who the fuck is this asshole, what’s he offering me so wonderful that I have to feel shitty bc my tits arent good enough for his liking LOL!! Get the fuck outta here!!! You should be lucky to have my awesome little titties
HighOnGoofballs: I vastly prefer real boobs, and like small real more than big fake
Methican: Honestly, I think most men like both. There are groups of us that specifically like fake or natural, perky or saggy, but in the end almost all of us like any kind of boobs and wouldn’t turn down the opportunity just to see them, even if we don’t like them.
Personally, I prefer medium to large size perky. I have a few friends who are more hipster types that prefer saggy. So much so that there is a trend I read about, where women have been getting implants to give them the natural sag look.
Not my cup of tea, bit to each his own.
The reality for me anyway, is that in the end, I don’t care what they look like if the relationship is about more than just sex, I can look past most things and find you attractive the way you are. But there are certain disqualifiers for everyone, and they’re all different. I have mine as well. They aren’t shallow, it’s just the way your brain is built.
untouchable_0: Am man. Prefer natural boobs. Tell him not to speak for me.
eetzameetbawl: I have implants. Before I was barely a AA. Like, nothing. I have a theory that men say they like natural boobs as long as they are an agreeable size. They can be conservative handfuls, but they have to be something. They would rather have fake than flat chested.
Mange-Tout: Let me reassure you that your boyfriend is wrong, for the most part. The problem here is that many men like the look of large breasts, so they are attracted to girls with big fake breasts. However, fake breasts also feel fake and can be lumpy and scarred close up, so men are often disappointed by those same big fake breasts when they finally get a chance to touch them.
So, big fake breasts may look better from a distance, but when it comes down to having fun natural breasts are definatly preferable
iHaveACatDog: I love, **love** breast implants. In most cases I do actually prefer them. I love the way they look and feel. There’s almost nothing I don’t love about them.
However, I also accept that I’m definitely not in the majority.
sumigaeshibjj: Nope nope nope.
While I don’t disparage implants, natural tissues are just nicer overall to handle.
So if someone was completely flat, implants would improve their attractiveness. If they had normal breasts, I think you are at the point where you are trading touch value for visual value.
ImNotYourGuru: “I’m gay, any guy on the internet saying that they like women is lying, they lie to impress the girls and continue the oppression of this society about women and men” I’m not gay but that how stupid you ex sound. Every person live in a “different” world.
aloofman75: First of all, you shouldn’t go around believing that any group of people has a unanimous opinion on anything. That’s just silly and unrealistic.
And second, he’s clearly wrong because there are obviously many, many examples out there of both beautiful, natural breasts and ugly, fake ones.
Even if what he meant to say was that guys always prefer large breasts over small ones, that’s still wrong too. It’s a bizarre assertion to be so certain about and I’m pretty certain that he’s trying to justify his own shallowness.
penguin_or_panda: I can tell you with 100% certainty that men like boobs. Fake, real, big, small. Dont let anyone lie to you otherwise.
rawbface: I like both. I like boobs.
asweezer: He must be hiding something by being so adamant. I personally don’t like fake breasts at all, small, medium, or large. The larger they are, they worse I think they look, especially when a small woman wants a DDD chest. I’m sorry, but then they don’t look like breasts, they look like volleyballs. I’m sorry to all women who have had implants, but I will take the look of any natural breast over any implanted breast. Notice that I said “the look”. That’s what it is, because I myself, and probably 90% or more of other men, have never touched a fake breast. OK, that’s my opinion, give me a real one 100% of the time! Screw your boyfriend! Well not, you know…………….
scottyhog: No man doesn’t like boobs as long as he gets to play with them
mistertrue: Anyone that says “*All* men like X” is wrong.
The world is a varied and wondrous place.
dcfb2360: Loads of guys love natural boobs, others like fake ones. Either way, every guy likes boobs so you’re good
actuallytommyapollo: Boobs are boobs. Never touched a fake pair, so I’m not an expert on that, but if a woman feels like she needs or wants to get implants, nothing wrong with that. You’re supposed to like the person attached to the boobs, because at the end of the day boobs can’t tuck you in and whisper good night.
helloWorld-1996: He’s wrong. – People have different preferences. Be true to yourself and find someone who likes you the way you want to be.
keidolon: I had a breast reduction and lift. I don’t have implants, but my boobs aren’t “natural.”
Personally, I prefer women without implants. I don’t like the firmness of implants.
But I’ve seen some hot chicks with fake titties. So do whatever you want.
Zoup: I honestly never really cared one way or the other until I got a job in a strip club. For whatever reason being exposed to all the fake beasts, and the real ones, gave me a strong preference for natural. I don’t like the look or feel of implants and really prefer the natural hang of unaugmented breasts.
Now all of that being said I wouldn’t refuse to date someone whose had implants, there are more important things in a woman than whether her breasts are real, like how nice of an ass she has.
JamesWjRose: The problem is that some people that ALL people have a single viewpoint. There is NO single viewpoint/opinion that we all share.
Some men will not log enhanced breasts, others won’t care, and still others will prefer them. It’s just that simple
keylimesoda: Men don’t even all like large breasts. Different tastes are very much a real thing.
Cirrustratus: i dont like them. Like 99 perxent dont look natural, thats why i dont like them. Like, he didnt have any reason to talk for all men on that matter. I agree that there are cases were it would be estetically better to have implant, but on the nude all of they look fake, weird. Some men dont care, and i guess some men prefer big boobs even if they are artificial, but the artificial aspect of implants is not what turns men on on porn and shit.
terdsie: I’m glad he’s an ex. He’s an idiot.
Different people like different things – fake boobs, real boobs, even the chick in Total Recall.
Fetishes exist for a reason. That dude will find someone with fake boobs that can put up with his crap, and they’ll be fine. You’ll find someone who digs you for you and you’ll be fine.
unicorn_glenn: Ugh this reminds me of the time I asked my bf if he preferred big boobs to smaller ones (I’m small), and he started his reply with, “Well as a guy I’m always gonna love big boobs,” and it fucking CRUSHED me. This happened years ago (we were freshmen in high school so I was dumb and naïve, he’s since grown up/matured though and we have an amazing relationship), but it took me forever to finally accept and appreciate my boobs as they are.
nihilist-glitch: he sounds like a bigot. just keep an open mind that this world there are many possibilities:
some prefer natural, some prefer implants, some dont even care, and many more. some prefer small, some prefer large, some prefer crazy proportions. dont let someone who proves himself to be a bigot get residence in your mind.
omegapisquared: A lot of many will say they prefer natural but may not be able to tell the difference when tested.
Many have a variety of preference about what they like; some like large boobs, some prefer small boobs, some don’t have a strong preference.
I have seen a couple of porn stars before and after breast surgery and I preferred them both before. That is only my preference though. I think the main thing is that you should only get surgery for yourself, never for anyone else’s benefit.
uzzitt: Sounds like an idiot. I 100% prefer fake boobs. My belief is that small boobs are better than bigger fake boobs, UNLESS the situation is extreme – i.e., woman is flat as a board or has really tiny boobs, in which case implants might make sense.
caswalmac: That is very immature for him to think that way and attempt to speak for all men. I knew a guy who refused to date women who *did* have fake boobs. He compared two of my friends, one who has had two boobs jobs and the other who has had one. He said he preferred the one with smaller boobs because he assumed they were natural. I wanted to burst out that he’s so dumb for even thinking that because he’s 100% wrong! But I didn’t. I also don’t have a boob job but I would really like one. I’m kind of jealous my friend can afford two… lol
thargorbarbarian: My fiance said she wanted to get her boobs done after we are done having kids. If she does that it will be her choice. I would rather spend $10000 on other things but if it helps her feel better about herself I am fine with that. I don’t care either way. I like boobs.
monkeyballs2: I appreciate your two edits asking people to not bash other women. That’s a respectable move right there.
coquilover: Thanks for defending women’s choices in your edits. Whether a woman chooses cosmetic surgery or not has nothing to do with your OP about your ex’s comment/ opinion.
Derrythe: Huh, I’ve heard other dudes mention not liking fake boobs before, but I’ve seen those same men comment on nice racks that we’re fake.
I tend to think, unless you’ve got a fetish level deal with a particular type of boobs, most men just like boobs. Big ones, small ones, floppy, bouncy, whatever. Boobs are good.
TW-421-421: IMHO, many people who go out of their way to say “I only like natural boobs” are Virtue signaling. Obviously everyone one has an opinion and preference. You will find lots of men who like natural boobs and who like fake boobs. It really doesn’t matter at the end of the day.
As far as you personally you should decided what you want for your self. Then find a partner that respects your choice and who’s preferences line up with your choice.
You don’t need cosmetic surgery but you also should not be shamed for making a choice to get cosmetic surgery. Your body your life your choice.
coachadam: Anybody who believes in absolutes outside if thou shalt not kill or rape is an idiot.
davecrist: There’s also the tiny problem of not being able to tell 100% of the time that fake boobs are fake. It’s like fake hair. The best jobs are not considered to be fake.
FWIW: the best boobs are attached to a woman that ‘owns’ them, real or not. Ultimately, no one cares 99% of the time if they are in a situation that lets them touch them.
Threash78: I don’t believe any man who says they can tell the difference in anything but the most exaggerated boob jobs or the bad quality ones.
Coys2018: There are plenty of guys who like them natural. There are also some who say they don’t like fake boobs the way people say they would never spend that much on a Ferrari. It makes them feel better about the fact they will never have that option. In my experience, when done to look naturally sized and not bimbo sized, most guys are fans. When my friends see a hot girl and say “yeah but her boobs are fake”, I ask how do they know and they always respond, “because there too perfect”. Hilarious.
wOlfLisK: He is 100% wrong. Natural boobs are amazing whether they’re small, big or somewhere in between. But fake boobs (if done well) can be great too. He might prefer fake ones but I’d bet a lot of money on him being in the minority.
Jombie: I prefer natural to fake. If the fakes are well done, aren’t overly huge, and feel nice, I won’t be put off. But if they look like [this](http://i.imgur.com/gjIWu5E.jpg)(sfw), then I won’t like them.
Abbkbb: Anything that is being applied to all, can safely be apply to none.
youneversawmehere: Dude is just trying to justify his own fetish. Of fucking course not all men prefer implants. I would seriously doubt the majority do.
mysexdoc: Overwhelming majority of people on this post are saying they prefer natural boobs, but looking at porn you know far more men love fake boobs than are willing to admit it.
Porn producers use what gets them clicks. If fake boobs didn’t get clicks, they wouldn’t use so many girls in porn with fake boobs.
themacbeast: I chalk this up to a Reddit Hive Mind thing. It’s not cool to say you like fake tits on here, many comments would refer to the sub r/boltons, but in typical internet fashion this is not reality. The same men would gladly take many of the woman they would be on here tit shaming. We all have our preference and that’s fine. Be comfortable with yourself and if your SO wants you with fake tits and it’s a deal breaker for him, it gives you something to evaluate. I wouldn’t worry about it too much.
xlittledollx: I was once asked if I have fake boobs cos mine are, he said, ‘ginormous’. Don’t listen to some guys, they’re dumb af.