I Don’t Like Kissing – How The Hell To Bring That Up?
Usually when I tell partners I don’t like to kiss or make out, I don’t think they take it seriously. And they’re especially weirded out/taken aback when I push them away during foreplay or on dates. It’s sort of a strange thing to bring up and I don’t think most people get it, so when is it appropriate to say that and how do I bring it up?
Kit4000: Im with you on kissing. I agree most people dont get it. Every time its brought up here people feel like you must not like/love the person or like foreplay/intimacy/sex cant exist outside of it. Which *I* dont get. Its a personal preference like anything else.
Ive been with my husband 25 years, adore the fuck out of him, have amazing sex and we rarely deep kiss on the lips. (Though we kiss elsewhere)
As for partners just put it out there. Find a segue during an intimate conversation and explain you arent into it.
MistressesSnowSlut: Just be honest! My gf and I have an awesome sex life, bern together for years, and I can count the number of times we made out with tongues on one hand. Turns out it’s just that neither of us like it, we don’t get any pleasure from slamming our tongues together. Cobtrary to popular belief, you don’t need to be a make out god/goddess to be good at sex.
I say own it. My gf and I have, and our sex life rocks!
This thread is refreshing tbh, I’ve seen a lot of shaming against people who don’t like kissing.
thelonewayfarer: How so you do foreplay without kissing tho?
mr_li_jr: I’m not a fan of tongue in the mouth kissing, either.