Embarrassing post time. I’m meeting the guy of my dreams next week, and we’re gonna have sex for the first time. I’m terrified because I have a “looser” than average vagina. Help?
The title pretty much says it all. He’s average in size, and my vagina is somewhat “loose” (I can easily fit four fingers in there when I’m aroused). There’s no way he’s going to get enough sensation from me. Should I tell him that if he isn’t satisfied with PIV, he can just chuck it in my bum? I do love anal.
allthewayfromholland: I had them tight and loose and honestly their all a pussy for me, and all sexy and hot in their own way. I rather have a girl a little loose than a girl to tight to get in (had a few encounters like that).
just enjoy it your sex and don’t worry!
wanderingdev: Your vagina is fine. They all stretch. It doesn’t mean you’re super loose. Have sex. If you want to, have anal sex. But don’t apologize for your vag or think that it’s deficient in any way.
shyqueenbee: You won’t know until you try! I know it’s probably going to sound impossible, but just focus on how excited you are to meet him and whatever happens, happens. He’s probably just as stoked to meet you… and probably just as worried about what you’ll think of him. But no amount of worry is going to change your body, so at this point, it’s better not to sweat it.
And hey, if he makes some kind of rude remark, then better you see the kind of person he is off the bat instead of wasting your time.
throwawayayx: I say don’t worry about it it. Just because you can stretch to accommodate large objects doesn’t make you loose. I’m sure he will love stuff you with his fingers almost as much as fucking you
Umthingsandstuff: Your over thinking this, just enjoy the sex. If he really is the man of your dreams that he is going to love your vagina no matter how “loose” it is. If your really worried then start practising your kegels to help with being able to squeeze him.
nectar_of_antipathy: Loose pussy is wonderful in its own way. I’m sure if your guy has ever struggled with premature ejaculation, he’ll appreciate it. In fact, he’ll probably appreciate it regardless.
JloopD7: Def offer anal .. in fact don’t offer. Pull him out and stick him in!
neversiempre: How can he be the guy “of your dreams” when you have not met him?
This post..does not convince me.