Too much sex? 7+ Times a week? (22M)(22F)
Tldr: My (22F) girlfriend is a fucking animal and wants sex morning and night, multiple times, EVERY FUCKING DAY. I thing its making me numb in my day to day life. Sex doesn’t seem as special anymore.
I (22M) CAN’T DO THIS. IM ONLY ONE MAN. WITH ONE SMALL PENIS.
I’m going out with a woman who is an absolutely phenomenal person. She is so non-judgemental of everyone, hard working, beautiful and caring. Just one thing: She likes sex. A lot.
This could be a libido mis-match, I don’t know. But as SOON AS WE WAKE UP. Sex. Lay in bed for 10 minutes: SEX. Go to work, come home: SEX. Lay in bed…Just falling asleep and accidentally get an erection? SEX.
Morning and night. Some weeks it could easily be 14+ times a week.
Let me get this straight: I am aware this is not the worst thing to happen, but I swear because I have these intense dopamine rushes multiple times every day that I’m becoming numb to anything pleasurable.
Can anyone relate?
Xpdcion: Might be because she started late? I used to be an animal when I[23M] lost my virginity in my teenage years but faded out on my 20th. I still love sex but it just happens less frequent now.
How long has this been happening OP?
SomethingLessEdgy: Okay my tip is to do things that DON’T involve your penis. Try eating her out, fingering her, buy her a vibrator (probably a hitatchi wand that plugs into a wall) and try and give your dick a break. Don’t be afraid to tell her “hun you’re absolutely phenomenal but my dick is going to fall off if I don’t get some rest”.