Submissive men fantasies
My boyfriend has been asking me to be dominant in bed. What do guys like. What are your fantasies?
meltallica82: Basically use his body for your pleasure. Tie him up, tease him, edge him, don’t let him cum until you’re completely satisfied, punish him if he fails.
Playing with his cock while you get off but ultimately deny him his pleasure
Umthingsandstuff: Why don’t you ask your boyfriend his fantasies
papinosky: I have this fantasy where my girl handcuff my hands behind my back and makes me eat her for a long period of time, then she calls me good boy and starts playing with me, touching my nipples, my balls and my ass, while i just want a kiss and my dick touched and sucked she denies it and humillates me, then she put me in al fours and starts pounding my ass off, then after me being a good boy she finish me off.
I know that ass play isn’t for everyone, but I hope this helps in someway.
GlenLivet77: So, as a guy who would like the same thing, here’s my list. And I’ll leave the more advanced stuff out:
* What he probably wants is to make sure YOU do what YOU want for YOUR pleasure. He wants you to be a little greedy and please yourself. Because knowing that he is the tool you use to please yourself is in itself…pleasing.
* Pin him down, tie him to the bed, etc. You don’t need to immobilize him, just let him know that he’s going to be put where you want him, not the other way around.
* Grab his hair, face, etc. while kissing him like you want to kiss.
* Have him on his knees in front of you, and instruct him to please you with his mouth (or while sitting on his face, etc). The point is, have him pleasure you; be verbal, give him instructions. Tell him how you want it. Because he may not have known that you prefer a certain pattern or method when receiving oral. Heck, you may not have known it either. But that way, you’ll both know for later, even when you’re not doing the dominant thing.
* As others have said…tease him and keep him hard. Work on learning to edge him. Tell him how much you like his cock, enjoy seeing how turned on your make him, etc.
* Talk, talk, talk. Give him instructions on how to please you, tell him the things you want him to do, or you want to do to him. Hearing a woman express her sexuality and desires is a hell of a turn on (at least for me).
* Don’t forget a bit of the visual though. We like looking. But I’m sure you knew that.
ID00001: Pineapple right up the ass
TroubledHomosapian: Facesitting. Fuck this is so hot but so hard to convince a girl to do.
nextmanonthemoon: Teasing (by stuff you do to yourself without him letting you touch you)
Orgasm denial (blow him, grind him and whenever he’s close, stop and read a book)
DarkAster321123: Post-orgasm handjob and/or blowjob until I beg you to stop
Spacct: Reverse the roles and treat him like he treats you one night.
letsgoaway79: Part of the submission fantasy has to do with humility. That said, make him fuck you, but don’t let him cum. “He’s there to make YOU feel good!”
stealthy0ne: It’s a bit of a leap, but: feminization, pegging, facesitting, humiliation.
To start off, you might just make him eat your ass.
BABYPUNK: Lol my fantasy is for my SO to be submissive to me but he is not at all into getting dommed
TroubledHomosapian: I found a brilliant homemade porn video which shows female domination at its finest. No whips and chains or anything but she just completely owns him with her body. Don’t think I’m allowed to post porn links here but message me if you want it.
DoubleJabLegKick: Blindfold is best tool
[deleted]: I would really like to lose my virginity
By a femdom.
geralt922: Squeeze his balls.
[deleted]: I want to to be fucked by a long hair girl.