[Harper’s Bazaar Nov 2013]
Who else loves when their bf/husband moans while you give him oral?
MrsJRF: He’s not terribly vocal during oral sex but when I hit the right buttons it really turns him on and he can make some super sexy sounds, yep.
gnarlykaitlyn: I love it!!! I wish my boyfriend would do it more. Sometimes he will moan or curse and it’s the hottest thing ever. Or when he pulls my hair and just mumbles “I love you so fucking much” under his breath. The biggest turn on.
LouisJordan4prez: Guy here, I’ve actually been complimented on how vocal I get. They all had the same reaction of loving how much I loved it.
pinkeln: Some of my favorite memories in the spankbank are when men have been vocal. Especially when they’re shy and don’t mean to do it.
BeckyDaTechie: 0/ How else am I supposed to know I’m doing good if I can’t have feedback?
childrenofthewind: It’s great! If he’s moaning, saying my name, then I’m doing something right. It’s the same for him too, he loves it when I’m vocal (sometimes I get a bit too vocal, but he can’t get enough of it 😀 )
ccnfler: It is like hunting, sometimes you are so excited to see something, you are afraid you will scare her away if you make a noise.
charris21: a few days ago i was with a guy and he went down on me. occasionally when i would moan he would too and that was soooooooo hot
songbirdbynight: ME. I DO.
Few things turn me on more than hearing his vocal approval. It’s the hottest thing I’ve ever heard.
szzor: Guys, how do you moan? I dont even slightly know what I need to do, because my gf also said that she likes it when I moan.
Lilmissbarber95: My fuck buddy loves it so much he moans my name n its so incredibly sexy and it helps me know that he’s enjoying it 🙂
unicorn_glenn: Holy crap yes. My boyfriend used to be pretty quiet during oral and it kinda made me insecure, but overtime I think he’s let loose a little more and lets me know if I’m doing a good job. And god is it sexy when he does.
One of my favorite things is when he strokes my hair out of my face and calls me a good girl (I’m pretty submissive when it comes to the bedroom), or says something like, “Oh, you’re so good…” I’m getting worked up just thinking about it, haha.
hellswrath_: OH YES. i loooove the noises my man makes. nothing gets me going like that does honestly!
throwthisaway2889: It’s my favourite thing when he moans….. oh and when he says “fuck” makes me so wet!
butterspread: I’ve been told by my wife that making any sort of pleasure noise during sex is unmanly and turns her off. Her thinking in turn turns me off. I’m depressed.
lapislazuli8: Fucking. Love. It.
yourheartshapedbox: This thread makes me miss my ex. He would moan and groan constantly, especially when I was kissing his neck. So hot.
swatantr: He whispers “oh my god” under his breath when he discovers how wet I am and is very vocal when I give him head, but I worry he tries to reciprocate my vocal satisfaction when he gives me head just to be equal… I hope I do a good enough job that he enjoys it.. He has yet to cum in my mouth…
anon-journey: What kinds of noises are we supposed to make? Anyone got a video where the guy is making the appropriate noises?
chocolatemonster93: My boyfriend is not very vocal, but every once in a while a little moan escapes his lips and damn, I love it. It’s such a turn on.
Sabinyan: Reading all these comments here actually makes me feel a little sad. My boyfriend doesn’t moan at all and I never know if I’m doing it right. Most of the time I just ask, and he always says he really likes it, but it’s not the same.
-MrWrightt-: I’ve said this when this has been posted before on this sub, and I know its unpopular, but this subject is really frustrating to me.
I’m *just not that vocal*. and while I understand it is sexy, it would be faking it when I moan really. (and I try to sometimes, because the internet tells me it’s sexy all the time.) But is this really better? Is it still better to fake it than not at all?
Eucalyptus_Splash: Ughh this is literally my favorite thing. I love giving oral, so it just ads to it! I don’t think guys know how hot this is. Especially when they try to cover it with the deep breathing thing they do… but we still know. Hot.
kyomcreates: I absolutely LOVE it. It’s nice seeing the satisfaction on his face and just knowing that I can please him.
meejans: Yasss. I’ve told my SO this from the beginning, and he works on it.
I just look up every now and then and his tilted back head and face is so worth it
PM_ME_YOUR_TITS_99: I’m a guy and I moan whenever I’m getting head or being kissed in just the right spots. I absolutely love doing it to.
BrokeCollegeGraduate: As a guy who tries to be vocal during sex, I feel that it get’s redundant and “boring” after a while. There are only so many times you can say, “Uh” “Ooh” “Fuck”
8livesdown: Nothing wrong with making noise.
Nothing wrong with being quiet.
As for asking people to make noise, if the request is worded poorly, you’ll be asking them to fake it.
SouthBelle827: I love when my boyfriend moans while I give him oral or while we are having sex. It’s very hot and it definitely makes me more turned on, and if he makes the growling noise that he sometimes does it’s over! I love it!
kwagenknight: As a guy I would feel weird and uncomfortable if I was silent, or her being silent during sex or foreplay.
I just feel like I can be too vocal sometimes as if Im really turned on I can not only moan but talk pretty “pornstar-dirty” in certain situations and I catch myself sometimes and try to reign it in as I feel weird on that extreme, almost like I sound fake even though its almost unconscious.
ilyik: My bf moans while he’s giving me oral. It’s like he’s drinking from the fountain of youth and he can’t get enough of how sweet it tastes. It’s literally the most intoxicating thing he could be doing while he’s giving me the best oral of my life.
blasphemicassault: I love it when a guy moans, it’s so hot.
My ex used to be super quiet and rarely made any noise, even when he really enjoyed something. It always threw me off and was a bit of a turn off.
Domlady: Moaning is sooo hot.
FaeriePrincess_061: I love nothing more than to hear my guy moan from me pleasing him. Gets me off even more.
burntbeachginger: I. Love. It.
I know I’m doing a really good job when his breath starts getting short and he’s watching me. It’s just so intense and such a turn on when he watches me sick his dick.
On a related note – I also LOVE it when he talks dirty to me.
kornerguy: I was self conscious of my moaning for most of my relationships. However, during my most recent relationship I tried to let loose, actively change and allowed myself to moan a bit. After the first few sex sessions when I figured out what and how she likes it, I moaned during her climax. She told me that she had the best orgasm she has ever had and quite frankly, I have never seen so much wetness post orgasm before so she probably wasn’t just saying it. Guys, I highly recommend to just let your inhibitions go and moan during sex. It makes a huge difference.
schandels: Omg yes!! I love it. I think that alone turns me on the most.
bad-dragonite: I wish my bf would be more vocal during sex. It turns me on… a lot.
Gofuckyourself97: Yassss, or when they let out a soft ‘fuck’
buginout: better yet: he’s touching me while I’m blowing him so I’m moaning (the vibrations drive him mad)!
kevitron: I can’t speak for other guys but I rarely let myself moan because I’m usually focusing on making sure I don’t let myself get “too excited”. The more I want to moan, the more focus is required.
on_a_whisper: Me! Or anytime we’re fucking really. His moans make it so much more hot.
rammaam: Of course
doorabl: Love it. Not just during oral. Sometimes I sternly tell him to moan or growl for me when we’re having sex. Sometimes while going down he tries to be as quiet as possible and I try to get him to make a sound.
seventeenththrowaway: I worry I’d sound too feminine if I moaned :/
Orangecabbage: It feels like we get a frontpage post about male moaning every week. It should be in the faq by now.
bangbangkittygang: Unpopular opinion here but i dont find moanig sexy. It doesnt turn me on when my husband moans and i dont do it either. I like his heavy breathing but thats about it. I like to enjoy silently.
Ladyluja: I love it. I don’t think men are accustomed to making noise, in general, as the majority of their orgasms probably come from masturbation = stealth mode haha
But I love it when he gets lost in the sensation and moans <3
NightShiftNinja: Lady here. I’m actually pretty quiet myself unless my partner has some mad skill but I absolutely love it when the guy is vocal. The little gasps, cussing quietly or whimpers (especially if you’re edging him and he’s really close) and when they’re saying your name. Hell yeah.
lemme_lick_ur_hair: It’s a little bit silly that it’s become almost a rare thing, isn’t it? When you prick yourself, you have an automatic vocal reaction to the pain. Same thing goes for pleasure. It’s sad to see how much damage hyper-masculinity has done….
plutonium743: Guys moaning so fucking hot. It’s like the number one thing I look for in porn. I’m so happy that the dude I’m currently seeing is rather vocal.
beccamoo518: Yes. Yes. Yes. When i get a jesus christ rebecca, holy shit ur amazing from my husband or another man i know im doing something really good. I love waking a guy up and him being surprised at what im doing to him, or just taking it out someplace random like in the kitchen very spontaneously after dinner. The more spontaneous the more vocal has been my experience.
stickycinnabun: I love that deep, guttural, almost pirmal growl that some guys make when they orgasm. I also loooooove to tease, and enjoy hearing them groan and pant in frustration (as I tend to tease them at times when they can’t touch themselves or be caught with a boner).
I have been disappointed with most porn recently, but might try out gay porn to get my audio fix. Ah, and r/gonewildaudio also has some delicious and satisfying moans.
jm123777: Guy here. My last gf was shocked the first time we had sex and I was vocal. Just moaning when things felt good or when I was turned on. She told me it was the hottest thing ever and instantly made her wet.
kbombz: I’d have to make a conscious effort to be vocal getting a blowjob. On the other hand my current gf isn’t very good at and I usually just skip the act all together even though she loves doing.
toastr: That’s it, I’m done with this subreddit. I can’t take one more post of ‘who else loves good sex’. Pick up your game people
greyjackal: Schools broken up for Christmas?
ghanima: Are you really expecting anyone to respond with, “No”?
pearpenguin: Speaking for myself I don’t like to moan at all when getting head. I think the main reason is that growing up in a house full of people you try to not make any noise at all when masturbating. So maybe that carried over into adulthood and I associate orgasms with silence. But also I now think of moaning as kinda phoney and fake sounding when the person I’m with does it because you see so much of it in porn. So it’s a distraction and makes me want to say “stop moaning”. But dirty talk is great and a definite turn-on.