Jessica Rose. Jessica Rose is a British glamour model
My boyfriend isn’t comfortable with sexting, how do I make him feel more comfortable?
We’re in a LDR so I feel like its something that I need anyway. He’s very self conscious, and no matter how hard I try to make him less comfortable it doesn’t work… Just wondering if there’s anyway I can help it?
Tristamid: Try doing it while in a call. You can get feedback and there’s no lines to read between. You’re just going through the motions. Eventually, you’ll get to the point where you can take off the training wheels so to speak. Start with light flirting, maybe add some light visual aids for incentive. Nothing of your face, imo, because I’ve seen the best relationships turn ugly.
Also, be prepared to accept the idea that he might just never be comfortable with it. You need to be okay with that, or at least prepared to move on if you aren’t. No one should be ashamed of who they are inside.
Coidzor: Talk to him. Find out what his concerns are and why he’s not comfortable with it.
samsclubmember666: The problem with sexting is if you get hacked all your noodz are exposed. He’s probably trying to protect you.
AsAlwaysItDepends: Do you want him to do text type sexting or pics?
ReadyNPC: Coming at as someone who is uncomfortable with sexting in general but working on it, don’t rush it. Start with simple text based flirting and then work your way up to the bigger stuff. At least that’s my goal.