What sort of things will make you feel sex is very primal?
Ladies who enjoy it when sex is very primal, what sort of things does your partner do to make it feel that way?
leucoma_salicis: Deep moaning, almost growling. That gets me every time.
MissQuickening: Uhhh… throw me around, pull my hair, choke me (not recklessly–do not attempt without consent and some idea of what you’re doing and what the risks are obviously), restrain me, bite me (although too hard will ruin the mood), nails lightly digging into my skin or that lovely feeling of firm fingers pawing/clawing me…
I don’t know why but for some reason even given the intensity of all of the above when my bf has his hands putting pressure on the small of my back in various positions it’s off the chain and feels super primal. But I really can’t say why. It’s not like he’s pushing/pulling super hard. Maybe it’s just a control thing.
ihatefreud: THIS WILL NOT MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY. I like rougher sex, I’m up for things that hurt a bit, and the most satisfying and orgasm-inducing activity for me is PIV, so I’m not a good representative of women in general.
But, to answer your question, my boyfriend and I are long distance right now and we tend to be fucking within the first 5 minutes of seeing each other after it’s been a few weeks, and I love the feeling of him pushing inside me when I’m not 100% wet yet. That rushed, have-to-have-you-now, tearing each other’s clothes off and fucking on the bedroom floor because the bed is two whole steps away, is so sexy, and I love the mix of pain, pleasure, and fullness of having him inside me before I’ve had a chance to get fully wet, I love feeling myself get wet really fast to compensate, and I love being sorta sore afterwards. And during sex, I really like some choking or a hand on my throat, biting, hair pulling, nail scratching, being tossed between different positions…
If anyone wants to try this, make sure to have lube available for the next couple days. It’s a turn on but it is not something that can be done frequently, and you gotta be more gentle afterwards!
no_means_anal: BITING! and just tell her what to do, take control. Whenever I have sex with my bf I tell him to be rough and he just kind of stares at me lost like “but how though” and it kills the vibe a lot. Just be really forward. Bend her over, pull her hair, etc. A good idea is to set ground rules before hand though to make sure you dont get too crazy if you want to get into more choking or spanking, you could even ask her if there are any names she wants to be called
roconfused: A lot of my top things have been mentioned – biting, moaning, being rough.. ect he will also tell me things to do or not to. Like he will just randomly tell me to suck his cock. Not ask – tell me. He’s used my hair before to pull my head in to make me suck him deeper or to set the rhythm of the blow job. Also he will be fingering me and stop to lick his fingers while staring at me, or he will stick his fingers in my mouth if he’s already eating me out.
Also he loves leaving marks on me. Not a fan of bruises, but they do happen usually on my neck or tits. He likes to leave love bites, says he is marking his territory.
MrsJRF: Well, in the winter I don’t shave much since it’s covered up for anyone except hubby, and probably don’t shower quite as often because you don’t sweat, so when he’s eating me out there’s sometimes a healthy musk of sex and pheromones in the room and I imagine it kind of feels like the cave women did – seems to drive him wild.
I rather like it when he has his way with me and makes manly noises, I don’t know if that’s “I hunted our dinner down, cook it and fuck me!” but I like when he’s assertive, sure.
hdavis92: Agree with everything already mentioned and watched to add the look in his eyes that just tell me I’m about to be thoroughly fucked. And I love being touched all over my body. When he grabs my thighs, hips, butt, and boobs and moves me the way he wants me I love it.